MEA: Squad/Crew (+Reyes) Relationship Pros and Cons (Headcannons)
I think she would be a very attentive partner. Meaning, she would make sure Scott took care of himself, and not just the usual eating and drinking- but beyond that, Cora would make sure Scott is doing enough self-care. Like brushing his teeth, getting enough sleep, doing the yoga poses that Lexi sent him, ect. She would do each activity with Scott to make it more enjoyable for him.
As for cons, because she and Scott work together, they often talk about work when they really shouldn't. Like first thing in the morning. There's less downtime between the two of them because one of them goes into work mode and brings the other down with them. They'll often ignore communicating about their relationship, and, instead, talk about work.
He always knows what Scott is feeling. Maybe it's because of his skill of reading faces, thanks to poker, but he knows almost immediately how Scott is feeling. This makes communication really easy for the both of them. Taking time out of each day to really check in on each other is just part of their relationship and routine. They've built a solid foundation for their relationship out of honesty and trust, just by talking everything out.
As for cons, both Gil and Scott work long hours. They often don't get to see each other for very long during the day, besides passing glances. Once they do get to spend time together, it's often late when both of them are exhausted. Gil is also constantly worried about Scott. When Scott goes out into the field, Gil can't do anything but listen to the coms. Scott does his best to calm Gil before each mission, but it often just worries him more.
They take care of each other in a pampering way. Sara might give Suvi a cool looking flower or rock that reminds her of Suvi. Suvi might bake Sara countless cookies because she knows how much she likes it. They are constantly doing things for each other to bring a smile to the other's face.
As for cons, just as with Gil, Suvi can't do much when Sara goes into the field. She's less worried than Gil, but she gets worked up when she hears too much $hooting and not enough causal talk over coms. Suvi is also very dedicated to her work. She often forgets that she needs to take of herself, prompting Sara to try and drag her away from her work. That often frustrates Suvi, as she just wants to keep working. This is the sorest spot in their relationship.
Both Liam and Sara like to work. Often one of them will overwork themselves, and the other will pull them back. They keep each other in check. They like to watch vids and cuddle up while drinking a beer. They're very closely bonded over their shared hobbies.
As for cons, it's mentioned in the game that Liam puts Sara on a pedestal. Sara can easily open up to Liam, but Liam often feels as though Sara's wellbeing is more important than his own. This sparks arguments between the two of them, as Sara wants to know what Liam is feeling too.
Reyes ensures Ryder's safety when they're on Kadara. They rarely feel unsafe while they're in the port because of this. Reyes is constantly pampering Ryder with everything he can think of. Ryder tries to do the same. They both show their love through actions, so when Ryder is on planet- they try to do things for him, and Reyes keeps Ryder safe in the port.
As for cons, the distance is the biggest one. Communicating through email and coms isn't exactly practical for a serious relationship. Communication is the hardest, most challenging part of their relationship- and it's not a problem that can be solved easily.
Vetra loves to care for Ryder- and she's not used to someone doing it back. They've made a "give and take" relationship, one that Vetra will slowly, but surely, settle into. They take care of each other, in a practical way, but Ryder still gives Vetra enough space for her "me time".
As for cons, Vetra often puts too much effort where it's not needed into the relationship. This can overwhelm Ryder, and when they bring it up, Vetra feels like she failed. It's a constant back and forth.
Jaal looks at Ryder like they hung the very moon. They absolutely adore each other. They do little things to make the other's day a little easier. Gift giving is a constant occasion in this relationship.
As for cons, their cultural differences often make navigating their relationship difficult. Every "normal" for one of them, is maybe not a normal to the other. A lot of conversations surrounding culture take place, but sometimes the other may feel as though they're giving up their culture to be together.
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