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This is for those selfshippers who hide their f/os.

The selfshippers who can't tell anyone about their f/os.

The selfshippers who cannot buy merch from their f/os and are only content to support their love from afar.

The selfshippers who keep their relationship with their f/o a secret, for various reasons.

The selfshippers who want to talk about their f/o constantly but can't, they have no one to talk to, the people around them wouldn't understand.

The selfshippers who want to shout at the void how in love they are, but their situation won't let them.

The silent selfshippers but with a beautiful lore with their f/os in their minds and hearts.

You are valid and I am always thinking of you. ♡

random promo post!! my name is vampira or moni and i am a selfshipper!! i have many f/os but the main few on my mind right now are tom nook and redd from animal crossing, mr. grizz from the splatoon series, and springtrap/william afton from the fnaf series!! (full f/o list coming soon!!)

i am 17 and absolutely love video games and music and other cool things.. id love to meet more animal crossing selfshippers but keep in mind i am ficto and also am not ok with doubles of my f/os at all! but id be happy to make any mutual regardless of where their f/o is from :3 anyways hope we can become good pals weeeeeee :33

YIPPPEEEEE thak you Captain :3

Im too tired to gonthroufh 8 peoples blogs so get tagged

@creatorbiaze @zyrtecbrainrot @tomkittycat @aredeemantagonist

Continuing the tag chain even though it's meant to be an ask chain hehe;

(this is my main so y'all will probably only know my side tumblr hhshsgsggsg) ((deathdetermineslife))

i don't like using my sideblog for stuff like this so i'm doing it here 👍

@ssunnybee @patchw0rk-quilt @pompurumi @human-centipuppy

thanks man!

here i shall give it to these peoples who are wonderful humans <3 /p

male selfshippers are valid

trans and nonbinary selfshippers are valid

queer selfshippers are valid

as a nonsharing selfshipper, we shouldn’t say to doubles that they’re not our f/o’s partner. we know how much it hurts to be told that we aren’t our f/o’s partner, either by jealousy though seeing canon x canon ships, or being told it to our face by people who don’t selfship. but this doesn’t mean we should do that to doubles.

i was scrolling and i saw someone say along the lines of, “if you are __ f/o, you’re not.” and this was a character that was seemingly very popular within the fandom. this is hurtful and we all know this, and we shouldn’t explicitly tell them that they are not and you are. this is so mean. i don’t think i should have to say this part but if you were in their shoes how would you feel?

i don’t know it just bugged me ever since i saw that post and I just wanted to say that we should be more kind with our words towards doubles so they don’t feel invalidated either

if you're gonna do it, don't do it publicly or directly to them/where they can see it. do it to a fellow nonsharer you trust or yourself, or hell, to your f/o in ai chats or letters to them or talk out loud to them. also probably a good idea to block the person for both yalls sakes

Imagine your F/O infodumping towards you

you don't NEED to respond, sometimes they just like having someone to talk to

Also vice versa, of course, I'd love to tell my F/O random things

No.

The reason you're not obsessed anymore is because your obsession has turned into something's more strong; love. They're not 24/7 in your mind, because they'll be forever in your heart.

You'll be obsessed with many characters, yes, some obsessions will fade, but those whom you really adore will always be with you.

So stop being so anxious, okay? Here's some cake :)