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Does k-nk and pet play belong to Pride Parades/CSD?
Cw: Talk about k-nks, f-tish, petplay, might not suitable for all ages (still nothing detailed)
What is a k-nk and what a f-tish?
A k-nk is equal to arousal. That doesn't always have to be s-xual.
A f-tish is mainly made out of s-xual acts. Most times, people say there's a difference between f-tish and k-nk.
Non s-xual k-nks
Can be anything, really. Some people, like ace people, might enjoy the dom/sub interactions without any s-xual reason. They just like the dominance part.
Some petplayers also do it for non s-xual reasons. They just like acting like a puppy and getting leashed, petted, fed, etc.
Non s-xual examples: The smell of perfume, someone wearing a uniform etc.
S-xual examples: Bondage, Voyage, sexual roleplay in general
CSD history and kink
Leather clubs, which are part of the k-nk community were in old times often a safe space for LGBTQI+ people. Sometimes even a replacement family for those who got judged for their s-xuality. They helped to fight for rights along with other LGBTQI+ people. In 1969 they helped with the Stonewall protests too.
The k-nk community also helped a lot with AIDS prevention and still do.
âWhat about the children???â
Honestly, I'm personally of the opinion that (young) children shouldn't go to a CSD anyway. In the end, it's still a demonstration, and children shouldn't be there.
Still, if there are children, they don't really mind k-nk gear. They probably just think it's dressing up and funny. Especially if children are raised to understand the diversity of romantic/s-xual attraction, why should they be raised to think all k-nks are wrong?
âBut I had bad experiences with them at Prideâ
I'm sorry to hear that. Your feelings are valid, of course. I also had bad experiences with queer people at Pride, but this doesn't make me hate all queer people. It's okay if you keep your distance, but bad experiences give you no right to discriminate against anyone.
Myth: Petplayers are attracted to animals
That's something I read a lot. However, it's wrong. If a petplayer is attracted to an animal, that's not a petplayer anymore, that's just zo-philia. Those aren't welcome in the community.
Being a petplayer doesn't equal zo-philia. It's just roleplay of two consenting adults. They're not attracted to animals. They're attracted to the power, submission/dominace, or whatever they enjoy about this roleplay. Roleplaying a mob boss doesn't make you one, roleplaying a dog doesn't make you one.
Myth: Puppies and k-nksters are ugly
Maybe you're just insecure about yourself and ugly yourself.
Any other questions?
Comment some questions or misconceptions you heard about k-nk, and I'll try my best to explain them.
I'm open for discussions as long as you stay nice, or else I'll delete the comment.
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Hi if you ever find yourself in a relationship saying anything along the lines of "well I can't leave cause I would never be able to find something better than this because I'm trans/fat/aging/antisocial/unlucky" I beg of you to run. Please. You can find and build better but in order to do that you have to take the first step out the door. You do not have to endure abuse, mistreatment, or just plain incompatibility for the sake of a fraction of happiness. You don't.
A comic about how our system (especially our host) feels about our experiences as a P-DID system, and our place in the system community as a P-DID system.
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"I wish we weren't a P-DID system."
"I've been the lone host of this system for 11+ years. The dominant part of it."
"It's been a lot to deal with."
"I wish I wasn't the host of our system."
"I wish I could switch out with someone willingly,"
"Because sometimes it's all too much."
"I know it would probably be just as - if not more- distressing."
"But sometimes I find myself envious of system that can switch and share responsibilities."
"I want to switch, but I'm also scared of the idea of letting go of front. Maybe that comes with being a P-DID system."
"I'm scared of what might happen if someone else fronted, alone."
"I feel guilty for thinking that, because I know of a handful of instances,"
"and all of them were FINE. Nobody even suspected it was Titan or Harby, not me."
"Of course, they only front very rarely. I can count all instances I know on two hands. And only when I physically can't front. Due to sleeping\being unconscioud or something similar."
"I feel bad that the others don't get time to do the things they want to."
"I feel like none of this might be real, because I rarely see people talk abt [about] P-DID experiences."
"I feel like an outsider in the system community."
"I wish there was a bigger P-DID community to share experiences with."
[text in boxes say: "*something about switches* #pdid" "*talk abt switching* #pdid" "*switching meme* #pdid" "*switching* #pdid" "*switches* pdid"] "I feel sad everytime I see post[s] about switching in the PDID tags. They remind me that's not me."
"You can't do that."
"I'm -- we're -- tired of constantly hearing P-DID is just the OSDD-1 of the ICD. We don't think they're the same at all."
"When we hear people with OSDD-1 share their experiences, we can't really relate. Neither subtype reflects our experience as a P-DID system."
"I feel broken and wrong."
"I feel like we don't belong in the system community."
"We don't share a lot of the common system experiences, because we have P-DID."
"But we don't feel like we belong to the singlets, either."
yeah reblogging especially for my transmasc fellows who (like me) might be real uncomfortable with their chests and not know what to watch out for because we try to avoid this kind of thing (just me? okay)
I think that there is some sort of unspoken fairy godparent thing where you see this, realize that you forgot your meds, and rebagel it because if you forgot someone else must have. And in our turn we all take care of each other, even if we donât know it.
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We have made the decision to stop participating in sourcecalls and similar. Our collective goal is source separation because everything else pushes our delusions.
If you follow us/want to chat with us, do it because of shared interests. Not because of shared source.
Also because the endo discourse is very active right now:
We're anti-endo. No, we won't get into arguments because they stress us out. Still, you should know we're not supportive of endos and will simply block those.
edit: thanks to @feralwizardbun for giving me the name AFK for this thing so it matches the other neurodivergence/mental illness creatures like TBH and BTW and WTF
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hey i read your post and i get you so bad. itâs the original askers gf typing this rn and i too wish we could do all those fun things. since i have adhd, parallel play works for us. we use two different accounts for calling and texting. my brain is silly it believes we are two different people eheh and by the way we are gonna watch a movie together today! what we are gonna do is joining a call from our separate accounts and different devices (phone and laptop). hope this helps in any form and i apologise for poor grammar english is not my first language ^^ have a good day! wish you the best.
for deep (?) context: when i call my friends we have our mic and vid off. we can feel each others presence and thats the only aim for me so yeah im used to it so watching a movie with my partner makes it easier
That's cool!
Although it doesn't really help us because we still know we share a body haha.