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okay good night for real but first my one positive instagram of the day: i discovered that my white male gay friend of sorts had dmed me a reel about galaxy gas with the caption "Galaxy gas!" after i didn't know what galaxy gas was during our conversation from a week ago. he continues to endear me after i've gotten the ick from him mansplaining cooking to anyone who will listen because he makes up for it with a genuine earnestness or maybe i am giving him way too much benefit of the doubt. anyways it was a funny reel

they dont tell u what to do if u planned a meal to have leftovers and then don't end up having leftovers but don't have the energy to re-cook the meal the next day

umm okay last post fr about this but basically to be friends w a sibling is like u will have to fucking get over ur resentment of everything they have ever done or said to you and sometimes people's siblings said or did really bad things to them probably but even if it was just like. kind of mean and annoying i wouldn't normally stay friends w someone who said a lot of mean and annoying things to me for like 8+ years. so maybe it's kind of normal that it will take some time to figure out what ur sibling relationship looks like once you are both adults and hopefully no longer being as mean and annoying to each other. but not only is it normal to take time it's also like genuine emotional work on yourself to move on and not hold grudges on all those things. and on top of all of this you will still be home for holidays or trips together and sometimes they do things that remind u of the grudge. and u have to be like nooooo aha. @ urself don't repeat behaviors and reactions from the past !!!

ok hear me out maybe . if i treat my brother like friends we will become more like that...