make sure to make fun of his tiny locked cock. no matter how large or small his penis is when uncaged. When caged his cock is always tiny and worthless and probably permanently shrinking (a real fear for most men in long term chastity).
make it a standard rule: whoever has the biggest dick gets to do the fucking.
this can be played out in a couple ways. you can either:
1, keep him locked and use his locked cock to compare to your strapon which will always win no matter what. or...
2, You can unlock him and make him think he is finally going to get to fuck you. Put your on your biggest strapon and put it next to his cock and laugh at him. "even when you're unlocked your dick is smaller than mine!" make him go put his cage back on and come back for his punishment for having such as small dick.
also make it a standard rule that he must suck your strapon every time. this is a sign of respect for whoever has the biggest dick in the relationship.
after he has given your dick it's proper respect, then you can mount him and fuck him. tell him you aren't going to stop until he learns to cum from anal alone.
verbally humiliate him:
"remember when you used to fuck me like this?"
"how does it feel to be the only one that gets fucked in the ass in this house?"
with your strapon in his mouth make him say, "thank you" or "fuck my ass" over and over.
take pictures and say "i can't wait to show my friends" or "X is never going to believe this"
"maybe if your dick wasn't locked and dangling pathetically between your legs, i'd be the one on my knees"
As it should be. Her pleasure is more important than mine.
