Queen Orphia

hi! yes i'm still active, just not as much as earlier since I'm taking a massive break from shifting! but I still answer questions, so send as many as you want :)))

short answer: yes, you can reconnect.

long answer: however, you won't really be tied down to that reality anymore. technically you can just respawn again or shift back to your cr from time to time to check how things are going, but I do NOT recommend constant respawning as it IS a permanent disconnect and it could really mess up the way you attach yourself to different realities, at least from what I understand. however, you can always shift back whenever, which is much healthier for your soul and the universe, and all your other reality selves! this is why you must make sure respawning is absolutely what you want :)))

and this is to the people like me, the people who have been trying to shift for over a year, who know so much that they run a blog people follow for advice, who’ve opened themselves to everything beyond what we comprehend as ‘real’. 

that’s the problem. 

you’ve opened yourself up, yes. 

but you’re still clinging to an idea of what is real. just because you know more doesn’t mean you’ve opened up. you have a firm grasp, now, that other things exist. like shifting. but that’s the problem. 

you’re so sure of how it’s supposed to work, what’s out there, what’s waiting for you, that you’ve wrapped yourself up into a ball of certainty-- and that is what is holding you back. 

let go. 

let go of how you think shifting is supposed to work. let go of your knowledge of universes, of everything you’ve been told and learned. become open-minded. how do you do that?

accept what you know, that’s okay. but accept it, and then leave room for more. accept that what you know might not be all there is, and accept that you don’t know it, and that’s okay. accept that, ‘i think i know how this happens, but at the same time anything else could happen.’

i did that last night. 

i haven’t had any progress the past few months, but last night, i had the most layered, consuming dream of my life. 

i dreamed, that i dreamed, that i was lucid dreaming.

and i started counting. counting back like i usually do. 

i swear to you i almost made it. 

and i don’t even care how long it’ll take me. whatever happens, happens. anything could happen--- the only thing that’s constant unchanging is the end goal. 

okay, i’m done hahhahaha

yes, for sure! it's definitely a sign that you're close to shifting. i'm so proud of you, you're so close! you're practically already there.

having dreams about your dr and being able to vividly remember them is definitely a sign worth noticing, and such a significant symbol of progress. you're doing so well.

happy shifting, my love!

my phone glitched and closed youtube and even went from home screen to apps and opened discord chat AND ALSO SCROLLED

but the thing is. there were 2 messages right next to each other where it scrolled, one in which i say shifting isn't real and one in which im saying it is

idk mad sus but my hands are sweaty so maybe that

omg that's crazyyyyy

might be a sign for you to decide your position in the multiverse-- will you embrace it, or continue living immanent?

hello, my lovely anon! i apologise sincerely for taking so long to answer.

well, if group shifting is a thing, then it's most likely possible that group respawning is, too!

i would think that it requires just that little bit more planning, though, as respawning is permanently binding yourself to another reality and severing your connection with this one.

AND EVERYONE, REMEMBER:

RESPAWNING DOES NOT EQUAL SU1C1DE!!!!!

happy shifting, and stay safe <3

of course! the law of attraction is for anybody, just like how shifting is. there are no rules to the law of attraction, and we use it almost everyday.

while i'm probably not the best person to ask and it would be best to get a second opinion on this, i genuinely believe that the law of attraction can be used by anyone, regardless of faith, belief or doubts.

the law of attraction is the mindset that what you want is what you already have. unavoidably, there is room to question who is giving it to you, and that can be anything-- god, the universe, patrons, matrons and etc.-- it can also be yourself, which is the most interesting part of religion:

it's whatever you want it to be.

i hope this helps!

i have an exercise for you, and it’s not only limited to writers. but if you like writing, this is some fun for you. 

write yourself fanfiction. 

I know! i know. but get this-- it helps. write about a memory using ‘me/myself/i’ pronouns or ‘you/your/you’re’ pronouns. write about scenarios. if you want, include it in your script, but i suggest doing it off to the side. 

here, let me give you an example of something i wrote:

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Charlie squints into the darkness when I sneak into his room early into Christmas, long before the sun has woken and plagued with anticipative excitement. He stirs, not really scared because there’s a part of him that senses it’s me without really knowing, and when his eyes finally focus on the slender, petite silhouette marring the moonlight, he lifts the edge of his covers and beckons me in, folding me against this chest and tucking his head into my neck. He wants head scratches, and he’s just so cute I suppose it’s fine if I wait a little longer.

He’s sleepy, barely conscious and halfway in dreamland. His voice is gravelly, longish orange hair sitting in wild tangles atop his head. Three hours, we drift in and out of sleep before Christmas finally dawns on him, and he glances up at me with a fond smile.

“Merry Christmas,” he whispers up at me, and I blink the sleep out of my eyes.

“Merry Christmas,” I say back, kissing the top of his head. He blushes scarlet, but looks at me like I can’t see it at all— I let him believe the darkness obscures his embarrassment, and that dumb, goofy smile that makes me want to giggle. “I was going to say something earlier, but I didn’t want to ruin the moment.”

“Never,” he tells me. “I think this is the best Christmas I’ve ever woken up to, actually.”

“Aw, Charlie!” I squeal, turning us over and burying my face into his chest. “You’re too sweet, really. I can’t say I don’t feel the same, though.”

“Really?”

“Yes, really.” I look up at him, fold my hands beneath my chin. His face is startlingly close to me, so beautiful and sincere. So kissable, I can’t pull away— and selfishly, I don’t.

 We don’t speak, even though there’s so much to say. Instead, his arms tighten around me, squeezing me so tight as if I were to disappear the moment he let go. I let him hold me, squeezing him just as tight and praying he doesn’t hear how fast my heart beats against his cheek.

“Let’s go,” he says suddenly, and I jump.

“Go?” I prompt, and he nods. “Go where?”

“Anywhere. Come on, it’s still early, let’s go on my broom. The sky is beautiful at this time.”

“Just us?”

“Yes, of course. If you don’t mind. If you want to wake up Bill, I understand, but-“

“No,” I interrupt. “I want it that way.”

He blushes, looking away. “I”ll lend you a sweater or two, it’s cold out.”

I bite back another squeal, but he sees my face and laughs. My excitement is uncontainable and infectious, and he sweeps me off his bed and spins me around in circles until we’re both dizzy and laughing in a heap on his floor.

 I love him, I love him, I love him.

 I never want this moment to end.

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And that’s an idea! It’s a little embarrassing, since this is so personal. But it helps me get into that mindset, and since I love writing, it’s no chore for me. 

I suggest you give it a try!

Happy shifting,

yes, yes, yes! take your time, shifting yours and always will be. i'm so excited for you to open your eyes and see a completely different world, maybe through a filter of tears from all the relief and homesickness.

all the exciting adventures you will go on,

and all the lives you will live.

shifting is yours, my love! you are a master shifter, there is nothing you can't do. it's as easy as breathing, and you are in control. your doubts will not limit you, and you are so much more powerful than you think you are-- the multiverse is yours for the taking!

and omg, yes, there are neck muscles! they twitch too!

aww bb, i get you completelyyyy

there's no shame in admitting how badly you want something! even if it's already yours, we can't help but yearn for things like this. like, i want food, i have it, but i still want it haha

and here's some motivation to soothe you, because you deserve to shift and experience your dr parents. you deserve to feel safe, to feel happy, to feel cared for.

you deserve to be spoiled by your dr parents so much, to be held by them, to be doted on by them. you deserve to be daydreaming in a cramped cottage made golden by the mid-morning sun, day dreaming by the window and picking berries when you've run out of things to think about.

you deserve it all, remember that! it's only a matter of time.

@minhamelodia

it’s a shame i can’t respond directly to you, I really hate that. But i’m not going to tag (unless you reblog) so it can be sort of like me replying, haha. 

somebody asked a similar question, so I’ve included another post. 

so, this is what you said:

hiii, i know this post is kinda old but hopefully u can still answer my question??? i've been in the shifting community since i was like 12/13 and i'm confused as to what you mean when you say you can't script a permanent residency bc i've never heard that before? do you mean that you can't permanently shift to your dr or ???

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there are two ways of permanently shifting:

1. Shifting for a long time until you die in your dr and wake up in your cr. Or scripting immortality and shifting but just deciding to come back when you want to, still having a default ‘current reality’

2. Respawning. 

Disclaimer: Before we continue, let’s clarify that respawning has NOTHING to do with offing yourself. Don’t spread misinformation, always get to know the true facts especially if you’re seeing it off some post with no evidence. 

Please see my attached post for evidence, but I will attach some links at the bottom. 

Shifting permanently is when you shift to your desired reality and live there indefinitely until something intervenes and takes you back to your current reality. When you shift permanently, that’s not to say that you shift and can’t come back. It’s shifting indefinitely, which means you can come back whenever you want but choose not to until your time there ends naturally. 

When your time ends naturally after shifting permanently, you will return to your current reality (unless you script something like, i will wake up in my waiting room in the event that my time in my desired reality ends naturally). So shifting permanently is basically shifting without the intention to come back (but you can!).

Respawning is when you sever your connection to your current reality and create a new one with your desired reality. This is like shifting permanently, but you’re not coming back.

That’s not to say you can’t come back! You just won’t be connected to this reality anymore, and you would have to shift. But here’s the thing: we are constantly shifting realities. This also means that when we shift, we’re not even returning to the same reality. 

Some methods of respawning are literally the same as shifting, but your affirmations change. You can also respawn through astral projection. 

In the context of ‘scripting a permanent residence’, you can’t really do that, as scripting is not what gets you to shift or respawn. Scripting is just structure, it describes a reality that already exists with a timeline of things that were already supposed to happen. They’re your plane tickets to another reality, but to actually get there you need to jump on the plane and all that fancy stuff.

I hope this helps! Please leave questions in my inbox so I can answer directly to you, love <3

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https://aminoapps.com/c/desired/page/blog/respawning-vs-permanently-shifting/xLkq_62t2uZBbwYvxKado0r0ew2PejKro

https://aminoapps.com/c/realityshifting/page/blog/respawning-guide/BQQ3_6wgFwu2vmpbB1knYJ7NvG32KR56WL

https://aminoapps.com/c/desired/page/blog/about-respawning/qZ5N_4zTRunJ2NNX7WGpdYbrQpNoPaWE3B

https://aminoapps.com/c/desired/page/blog/all-about-respawning/W5wM_8lIXulGQ5p5Rrbqw2ar5bKDnZv8M

final note:

amino is the most reliable place to get shifting information before tumblr. it’s a protective community of people who actually know what they’re talking about, and one of them being respawning.

I can’t stress how important it is to know that respawning is NOT suicide. It’s not.

And why do people respawn?

Because sometimes, people are born with lives that don’t get better. 

And sometimes we have to respect that, even if we beg to differ, because a lot of the time we don’t realise how privileged we are to experience the light at the end of the tunnel. Some people don’t have that light, so they have to make it. 

yes, yes, i know today could be the night, but every night is ‘the night’, and i mean it.

every moment is every moment. 

let it happen.

hello, it’s orphia again!

i think the big question is not to what to put in your script, but how to do that. 

i remember when i was getting into scripting, i would just save all these things I wanted to put in it but not know where or how to put it in. and that was really frustrating! there weren’t many formats for me to follow and I was basically winging it, not knowing if i was doing it right or not.

and let me let you in on a little secret:

there is no right way to do it. 

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my favourite platforms to make my script:

google docs

google slides

canva

I usually make up a hybrid of the first two, but my favourite is to use google docs because i can section it and stuff.

if you want to go into detail because you’re wordy person, use google docs

if you prefer images and work better with something visual, use google slides

note: canva is also good for images, but for minimal writing, as the formatting is really trippy.

now, if you’re like me and like to keep things organised, i would definitely use google docs. but i do like having a hybrid of both, so i usually use google slides for the people, brief biographies and their aesthetics, or like wardrobe and dr visualisation. but most of my affirmations go into google docs. 

use paragraph separators/text dividers 

if you google that exact thing a bunch of links come up, but that’s my favourite source for cute things. btw, i didn’t get my current separator from there. i got it from a different link and i can’t find it rn but i will! i’m just copying and pasting from previous posts lmao. 

but anyway 

use tables to organise information relevant to the same topic

use different font sizes to differentiate between titles, sub titles and text.

i’m too private about my scripts, but i’ll give you an idea of what my front cover looks like and a small section on the bottom (scroll to the bottom)

and that’s on google docs!

i’ve also included an image from my google slides script for a different dr

there, i’ve collated a mini moodboard for one of my friends in my dr. next to it is a little personal history with them, including how i perceive them, how we met, etc. 

sometimes i even include a ‘resources’ page, where i link multiple of my favourite subliminals, my favourite motivational posts, pinterest boards or movies that get me into my dr mindset

also my name is not E.M Vellichor LOL i wouldn’t even have the guts to go out in public if that were my actual name in this reality

i’ll be frank with you-- your script might end up being more than like, two pages. mine is thirty pages long-

if you want to hand write it, same goes

 use highlighters so you don’t get bored of your script

scripting is not a chore! scripting is fun! it doesn’t have to be this aesthetic, i just like it organised. 

experiment, see what works for you. 

also, you know how you have a pinterest board (i mean if you don’t, that’s alright)? that also counts as a script

I hope this helpsssss

i see a lot of people shifting for their comfort character, or to romance someone in their desired reality. even if you’re not, that’s okay! these tips can work platonically, too, just skip over the parts that don’t apply to you. 

I think it’s important that when you script for romance/relationships, you go into detail into why it’s special to you, and how it comes about. If you want to see how things unfold, then it would be good to set up a foundation for it flourish so it feels organic and genuine, you know?

anyway, that’s all from me! if you have any questions or anything to say, please message me. and hate isn’t tolerated on my page, i just thought you’d like to know-- like, it’s really sad that haters have all this time to get a life but they spend it on being jealous and pitiful, bullying people who do have one. us shifters don’t have time for people like them, so if that’s what you intend to do, scoot your boot honey because your stupidity is showing-

ahem.

-- Orphia <3

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- why do they love you?

instead of scripting: (name) loves me, say why. what makes you loveable? what are you insecure about that they absolutely adore? do they pick up on little habits that you don’t even realise you have? what qualities do you have that they will rave about to their friends?

- they respect it when you need your space

- they take care of you (if you haven’t scripted out mental illness, periods or sickness, this is a really cute one)

- they like (something you like)

- they ask you on dates you will enjoy

- they are creative in their gifts

- you are creative in your gifts

- they reciprocate your energy

- you’re always cold/warm (for cuddles)

- you’re a good kisser

- you’re/they’re immune to bad breath

- arguments are logically discussed in level voices

- they are immune to cheating on you

- your relationship will always make you feel safe

- you’re immune to toxicity

- they brag about you to their friends

- your/their lips are immune to being chapped

- you’re immune to forgetting birthdays

- they’re immune to forgetting your birthday

- every date, planned or not, always ends up fun and memorable

- you give the best compliments

- they understand you without speaking (you know that weird telepathy you have with your friend when you don’t wanna speak or can’t? yes, that.)

- you/they understand social/romantic cues (asking for a kiss/hug without speaking, that kind of thing, kind of connects to the one above.)

- they are patient with you

- they respect the differences in your love languages

- your friends support you

- they know your favourite snacks

- they respect your decisions

- they respect your goals

- they respect you

- how did you meet?

- did your friends ship you from the beginning?

- how did you confess? (if you want to let that unfold, try: when did we confess/what made your feelings uncontainable?)

-  when did you realise you liked them? did someone else have to tell you for you to realise, did you see them with someone else and get confused by your jealous, etc.

- why do you like them?

- you have a shared playlist

- you have a movie marathon of both your favourite movies

- they know gentleman moral code (opening the doors for you, giving you their jacket)

- it’s not always about you (i get really sick of people who are willing to drop everything for me. i found it also unrealistic. if you’re the same and like people with their own goals, then this is a good one because it means your relationship is more organic, and you’ll have more to think about during your shifting experience instead of all the fluff. but if that’s what you want, then go for it! it’s all about livening up your experience.)

- they know the lyrics to your favourite songs

- how did people find out about your relationship?

- did people see your relationship coming?

- are you guys more of a dynamic duo or partners in crime? (works for poly too)

- what’s your romance dynamic? (nerdy x goofy, good x bad, gentle giant x smol demon, etc.)

- do you guys have your own, secret special meeting spot?

- what is your combined aesthetic?

- how do they say ‘i love you’ without saying the exact words?

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a few scripting exercises to get you in that mindset:

- what is one memory you have with them that makes you smile just thinking about it?

- write a love letter/letter of appreciation to them. (if you want to go the extra mile, sleep with it under your pillow!)

- make a playlist that reminds you of them. 

of all sounds to hear, why did it have to be birds?

i mean, it was a nice, sing-songy twittering kind of bird, but that exact thing is what summons murder to mind because girl’s gotta get some sleep and shift, yenno

BUT BIRDS

MAN I WAS SHIFTING BUT I WAS SO ANNOYED THAT I SLAMMED MY PILLOW OVER MY HEAD AND IGNORED IT OMG

no :(

but i've gotten so, so close. and i've mini-shifted- wait, does that count? well i've gotten to cuddle with a couple of comfort characters for a fleeting moment and watch the view from the hogwarts express.

nothing major, but I haven't fully shifted. lately i've been trying to change up my methods and take a break, so i haven't made much progress lately.

but i'll get there!