Nulla's Wife🌹

as many of you likely know, there is conflict ongoing in our little fandom. it's disappointing to me that this is even considered a conflict, as i believe it should have been resolved long ago. but unfortunately, a few bad faith actors encouraging the behaviors of one malicious individual has lead to where we are now.

i know that is very openly hostile towards a certain opinion, but i cannot deny that there is a personal stake in this issue for me. this person has hurt people i love and care about, as well as caused me major offense, and the more information i know the more i cannot choose to stand by and say nothing while they are let off with a slap on the wrist.

i know my words likely do not mean much. i do not have much reach, and this blog has been majorly inactive. but i cannot sit by and let a community i was so excited to be a part of be rotted from the inside out.

my main statements are this:

do not take all that you hear at face value. always ask for evidence for claims made.

people are not inherently victims because of their status, mental state, or any other reason they produce. it is easy to lie on the internet. someone with the mask of a victim can easily go behind closed doors and be the perpetrator without consequences if they are not called on it.

harm caused is harm that must be met with consequences. take the time to understand all sides before jumping to conclusions.

if reading that upsets you, take a moment and consider why. have you considered the "people's princess" is not all she makes herself out to be? have you considered that she has hurt many, many people, and goes out of her way to do so. there is irrefutable evidence. i hope, with all my heart, those defending her will open their eyes to this fact once all the information is available to them. and believe me, all the information will be available.

i do not condone any of the actions of this individual, and am disappointed in the people choosing to defend them knowing what they know.

while there is a much lower chance of this individual seeing my message over tk's, i still feel the need to speak to them. if not to get through to them, then to simply state my thoughts.

you disgust me. the fact that as soon as one person was comfortable speaking their discomfort, many more came forward to corroborate those feelings is horrifying. especially for someone your age. it truly baffles me that even in this modern age, with all the information in the world, you still choose to act the way you do. because it is a choice.

while i have the slightest bit of sympathy for you, it is near constantly tamped out by how you choose to continue hurting people i love and pushing back on the consequences of your actions. because that is what this is, consequences. not some targeted bullying campaign as you continue to claim and whine.

you have hurt people. publicly, privately, and you have gone to horrifying extents to do so. the fact you have yet to receive no consequences for it until now baffles me. the fact that people continue to defend you knowing what you have done baffles me even more.

you are a bigot. a public, documented bigot. you bitch and whine about how hard this is for you, but have you considered the pain you have caused others? how they are doing now, watching you get away with hurting them once again? you make me sick.

most sickening of all? you have shown no remorse. you have done nothing but play the victim, obstructing evidence so that more people are willing to take your side. even in your pathetic joke of a statement, you did not say the word sorry. at all. you cannot do it in public nor in private. it's truly awe-inspiring how full of yourself you have to be to act in that way.

since you claim all these interactions to be "attacks," stick to your word and stay the hell away from me and the rest of this fandom. you are a poison, and you are not welcome on my blog and, ideally, the rest of this community.

justice will be served, whether you like it or not. perhaps it would be best to simply fess up rather than continue to play victim. but you and i both know you won't do that. i await the day the information against you is public, so that the people you have hurt can finally rest.

TLDR: do not believe what you hear until you are given evidence.

we exist in a world and, unfortunately, a fandom where people will abuse their power to get away with their misdeeds. many of which have occurred plainly in public, and are even still available on their page.

more details will be released soon. please stay wary. take what you hear with a grain of salt.

i sincerely hope this situation blows over in the way it should. it has been so exhausting watching people i care for be weighed down so heavily by an issue that should have been resolved with an apology ages ago. still, i hope this message is spread around so that, when the information goes public, we as a community can handle the aftershocks with grace.

i apologize to all the people whose asks will continue to sit in my inbox. i hope to continue to entertain when i am less busy and this issue has been truly and properly resolved.