Purple Way To See

HAPPY 10 YEARS OF SENSE8

It might actually be worst than the nazis?

Nowadays they think money first: once the physical proof disappears they can control the narrative, censure and limit acces to knowledge, culture, information. AND they might even try to forcefully sell you the one they don’t permanently erase, because their AI will be the only plateform having access.

Especially since most countries are putting age verification barriers to their internet access. They can work with governments to decide which information is relevant for which kind of population.

It might actually be worst than the nazis?

Nowadays they think money first: once the physical proof disappears they can control the narrative, censure and limit acces to knowledge, culture, information. AND if they might even try to forcefully sell you the one they don’t permanently erase, because their AI will be the only plateform having access.

Especially since most countries are putting age verification barriers to their internet access. They can work with governments to decide which information is relevant for which kind of population.

If the idea of being cuddled and kissed and doted on after a scene makes you want to crawl out of your skin, that doesn't mean you don't need aftercare, it might just mean that what aftercare looks like for you is being left alone for a little while.

Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. Maybe you need a snack. Maybe you want to watch a youtube video. Maybe you just need to have a calm conversation to debrief about the scene you just had. Or maybe you do want to snuggle.

Do what works for you, because doing aftercare you hate because you think that's what it's supposed to look like or skipping any aftercare to avoid a particular kind isn't going to work out well for anyone in the long run.

Also, while I'm here:

check on your dominants. They need aftercare just as much as subs do but we so often see aftercare framed as "dom-comforts-sub" that folks forget about that.

While I'm at it, safewording isn't just for the sub either, and it doesn't make you less of a dom to use it. In fact:

Safewording when you need to makes you a good play partner.

Any reason you feel like safewording is a good enough reason.

You aren't boring or less fun to play with for knowing your limits or having a lot of them. The fun part happens inside the bounds, and knowing where those lines are can only help you have a better scene.

I only take pleasure when I know for certain my partner is also enthusiastic.

Even it's a minor thing, I need to know. So I can also be open about my own issues. So we can be safe together. If I lose trust over little things how can I trust you for bigger scenes?