Hi! I'm a new follower, but I hope this isn't too sudden. I'm also a baby EXO-L and I was just wondering why some EXO-Ls don't like it when Suho gets called 'eomma' and Chen by 'Jongdaddy'? I got called out for calling them this on Facebook, and I never really had the intent to insult them or disrespect them at all. I'm also curious about the context on why this isn't acceptable. I hope I'm not bothering you too much.
first of all, hello and welcome to the fandom! i hope you can enjoy it ๐ฅฐ second iโm sorry iโm answering this so late, i havenโt been here for a whileโฆ
With the eomma word, well eomma means โmomโ in korean, and since suho is a male you better not call him mom obviously.
With jongdae, i guess itโs because exols generally donโt like him anymore since he is a dad now with 2 kids. If you ask me, itโs not a bad word or saying. But exols take it too far (as many times) and way too serious. He is a dad (or daddy hehe) and you canโt change that, tbh i donโt see anything too wrong with it? There are way meaner sayings out thereโฆbut nowadays when it comes to him, i guess some exols just donโt want him near anywhere exo now just because he has decided a private family life now, no stressful idol life anymore and you know what? Good for him!!! Maybe someone else can explain this better or see why itโs problematic? fjsjsj iโm sorry
Lastly, you are no bother at all and iโm always glad when people ask whatโs wrong with things instead of just ignoring! i hope you understand me trying to explain, if not donโt hesitate to ask again! ๐
