always a delight to find out that a goofy person is actually also very sincere

the true duality of man is silly-earnest

“source?” i can feel it in me bones

you have no competition. don’t disrespect your potential by comparing yourself to other people. acknowledge your own blessings.

I noticed that the same trait that one person finds annoying is something others will find endearing or admirable. for example, a funny and confident person can be judged by a few people as annoying or loud. but others will admire your confidence and ability to make them smile and laugh! shyness can be seen as apathetic and boring, but others will enjoy your quiet company, and admire your amazing ability to listen & say thoughtful words. whether it’s due to insecurity or incompatibility, there will always be someone who will dislike you for being a certain trait, but there are so many more people who will love you for it. if you feel the need to hide and isolate yourself, it means you haven’t been lucky yet or havent met enough people. it does NOT mean you’re not lovable!!!!!!!! I promise!!!

having to come to terms with the fact that love is not an everlasting performance in which you attempt to retain the attention of your significant other but rather a release of control and putting faith into them and trusting them to choose to stay with you no matter what you have to offer

to love and be loved is to rest