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Probably the most popular case is thinking that a therapist would have to turn you over to the police for thinking bad thoughts. Despite the fact that they have years of schooling and degrees that contradict the whole "bad thoughts = bad person" idea.

Somehow they've convinced themselves that they know more than every licensed therapist on the planet. That every paid professional is a fraud, despite the fact that they utilize what they learned in their schooling on the way to getting their professional degrees.

And then there's the idea that, when applying for a job, your potential employer will need to be made aware of every single unconventional fandom, ship, or kink you may have.

When I was growing up online, it was Internet Safety 101 not to post your real name or pictures of yourself online. Anonymity was key. Now apparently young people online think you have to list every single social media handle and blog name on your resume when applying for a job.

And background checks are to make sure you haven't been processed as a criminal at any time in your life. Shockingly, shipping Pinecest doesn't count as a crime, and a background check isn't going to show your ao3 history regardless.

And of course the favorite comeback when encountering a person (usually a woman) over 30 enjoying themselves in fandom, "Shouldn't you be filing your taxes?"

Something that can be done in a single afternoon. Or in no time at all if you hire someone to take care of it for you. And of course something that happens only once a year. It would be like talking to someone in June and asking why they haven't finished their Christmas shopping yet.

It just shows a blatant ignorance to how the world actually works once you're out of high school.

You very obviously don't know what that term actually means.

I'll give you a hint; "pro" isn't short for problematic.

Essentially, being "pro-ship" means you are in favour of shipping. The term was literally coined as an opposite to "anti-ship".

Pro-shippers are literally just people who separate fiction from reality, who believe that people shouldn't be harassed or shamed for what fictional content they enjoy, and who are anti-censorship.

It doesn't inherently mean that you ship problematic ships. Hell, you don't even have to like every ship. It just means you don't think people should get harassed over it.

Might have been better to keep it to yourself then otherwise you wouldn't have gotten flack like this.

You know.

Like that one person. You seemed to want to give flack towards. For writing something.

If writing traumatizes you maybe get out of fandom because it's pretty clear your a fragile person, probably in need of therapy.

Also also, we CORRECTED your bullshit definition of "pro ship".

Violence is a very easy topic. No person will say that being dead is better than being alive, unless they are suicidal. When talking about pedophilia, some people actually advocate it by saying such things as "children are too sexual people", etc. Thus it is easier to make people believe that it's okay. Not simple, just easier to make people think that raping minors is better than killing people. Especially if those people are minors themselves.

House is usually watched by people far from medical sphere, but when people who are medics watch it, they already know that they will get punished for doing so. Game of thrones and South park have a very well known fanbase of people who engage in really weird online behaviours, but even if they didn't, GOT shows a pretty realistic environment. People know the context of the medieval Europe and stuff that happened there. As for South park, it is pretty much an absurd comedy. You won't take it seriously.

You very obviously don't know what that term actually means.

I'll give you a hint; "pro" isn't short for problematic.

Essentially, being "pro-ship" means you are in favour of shipping. The term was literally coined as an opposite to "anti-ship".

Pro-shippers are literally just people who separate fiction from reality, who believe that people shouldn't be harassed or shamed for what fictional content they enjoy, and who are anti-censorship.

It doesn't inherently mean that you ship problematic ships. Hell, you don't even have to like every ship. It just means you don't think people should get harassed over it.

Might have been better to keep it to yourself then otherwise you wouldn't have gotten flack like this.

You know.

Like that one person. You seemed to want to give flack towards. For writing something.

If writing traumatizes you maybe get out of fandom because it's pretty clear your a fragile person, probably in need of therapy.

Also also, we CORRECTED your bullshit definition of "pro ship".

Violence is a very easy topic. No person will say that being dead is better than being alive, unless they are suicidal. When talking about pedophilia, some people actually advocate it by saying such things as "children are too sexual people", etc. Thus it is easier to make people believe that it's okay. Not simple, just easier to make people think that raping minors is better than killing people. Especially if those people are minors themselves.

You very obviously don't know what that term actually means.

I'll give you a hint; "pro" isn't short for problematic.

Essentially, being "pro-ship" means you are in favour of shipping. The term was literally coined as an opposite to "anti-ship".

Pro-shippers are literally just people who separate fiction from reality, who believe that people shouldn't be harassed or shamed for what fictional content they enjoy, and who are anti-censorship.

It doesn't inherently mean that you ship problematic ships. Hell, you don't even have to like every ship. It just means you don't think people should get harassed over it.

Might have been better to keep it to yourself then otherwise you wouldn't have gotten flack like this.

You know.

Like that one person. You seemed to want to give flack towards. For writing something.

If writing traumatizes you maybe get out of fandom because it's pretty clear your a fragile person, probably in need of therapy.

Also also, we CORRECTED your bullshit definition of "pro ship".

And yeah, I actually don't mind if you write down that trauma that you have, do as you like, IDGAF. But the moment you post it online you are romanticizing child abuse. I should explain why it's bad, shouldn't I?

You very obviously don't know what that term actually means.

I'll give you a hint; "pro" isn't short for problematic.

Essentially, being "pro-ship" means you are in favour of shipping. The term was literally coined as an opposite to "anti-ship".

Pro-shippers are literally just people who separate fiction from reality, who believe that people shouldn't be harassed or shamed for what fictional content they enjoy, and who are anti-censorship.

It doesn't inherently mean that you ship problematic ships. Hell, you don't even have to like every ship. It just means you don't think people should get harassed over it.

Might have been better to keep it to yourself then otherwise you wouldn't have gotten flack like this.

You know.

Like that one person. You seemed to want to give flack towards. For writing something.

If writing traumatizes you maybe get out of fandom because it's pretty clear your a fragile person, probably in need of therapy.

Also also, we CORRECTED your bullshit definition of "pro ship".

Finally I think callouts post are always evil, probably because I hang out with enough queer people who go false accusations of serious crimes because of petty shit and were harassed into nervous breakdowns and depression 🤷‍♂️

degenerate, filthy and disgusting used in the context you do is always a giant red flag btw

(Also my cat is the cutest ever and I will gladly die for her)

Look, my main take away from this is that you think everyone has the same experiences as you and that you feel everyone should cater to your thoughts and feelings. I'm not here to do that, not to you or anyone. Plain and simple.

I want you to THINK about this. Don't skim it, don't read it and think immediately of what to say back, just take your time to digest this.

Do the creators you follow and defend TRULY care about whether you defend them or not? Are they sending you out to fight for them? What do you GAIN, from defending them? Does the content you consume help you in becoming the best version you can be, or does it provide you with a fraction of a moments' satisfaction? Do you surround yourself with people that care about your actual happiness and uplift you when you need it, but give you advice and sometimes even call YOU out on behavior that is harmful to you or others? The call may be coming from inside the house.

My call outs don't discriminate, they target anyone who fits into the criteria.

"Also if you’re in a fandom built around a work made by someone whose into problematic stuff I feel it’s very hypocritical to criticize those people."

I'll be frank with you, since you blog says 21+. Do you know the innermost thoughts and feelings of Yana Toboso? Are you sure she doesn't include some content because a higher up told her to, or because some people are willing to pay more for said content? I don't know the answers to these questions, and I sincerely do not care to know. You may not know the meaning of hypocrisy. Google defines it as :"the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense". My behavior is not hypocritical, since I don't cheer on Toboso's past actions, or even present ones. I play Twisted Wonderland because it's cute and entertaining, not because I want to make "ships" or "headcanons" on characters. Whatever the reason people play for, is not my business, only when they cross a line is when I get involved.