Tadashi's Closet

Please I’m officially unemployed and a subscription I didn’t know I apparently had charged me $155 (?!?!??) and could use some help so I can finally be completely independent.

Please I just had to pay over $700 and now they might total my car I need help

They are in fact totaling it so I don’t have a car. How can I have a job without one. It’s going to be winter. In the Chicago area. So biking (without a bike) isn’t much of an option, there are no buses within walking distance. I need at least a rental car or something. Like I’m in deep here.

UPDATE: I finally have access to a hand-me-down car! I just have to wait for viable plates and I can really get going on jobs! However I am still currently in the deep so I could use some help until I officially have a paycheck.

how the world opens up to you as a kid learning to hand sew when you realize you can do literally anything with the button holes and dont have to do an X or = stitches you can do anything. nad then like an image of a futuristic neon city

“Do it scared” “do it alone” are all great tips, but my biggest takeaway from therapy is do it messy. This is especially true if you’re getting out of a burnout, which I experience often. Literally just do it messy. You don’t need to pick the perfect trail to walk, the perfect playlist to listen to, whatever the fuck it is. You don’t need to have a meticulous to do list and wake up at the exact time you planned and drink the exact amount of water you planned to drink. Like the biggest thing for people like me to remember is sometimes it’s okay to do it messy. Put on a random yt workout and just get it done in sweats. Do 5 minutes of a daunting task and go from there. Sometimes just getting up is a win during intense burnouts or depressive funks. Literally just do it messy.