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@prettyace
tip for anyone who has someone come out to you (especially someone on the ace-spectrum): donāt assume anything. donāt speak about what their romantic orientation is. donāt label their sexual orientation for them. because chances are, you might be missing something and accidentally make them feel invalidated in their identity. wait for them to talk, and if you have questions, just ask
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i love how even within the spectrum of adhd, everyone has theirĀ āthingsā they can focus on and how even though something i canāt focus on to save my life may be my friendās hyperfixation
hear me out
what if the a in lgbtqia+ doesnāt stand for ally
but it also doesnāt stand for asexual/aromantic/agender?
what if weāve been fooled and all along itās been for
Ā āØthe allosāØ
the unstoppable force of me wanting to write a novel with an asexual main character meets the unmovable object of my executive functioning issues so it takes everything to sit down and write
[image description: the meme which shows a man squatting next to a freshly filled-in grave and grinning while doing a peace sign.
The gravestone is labelled āFreudā and the man is labelled āasexualsā. /end ID]
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when someone brings up a flaw of yours, itās okay to respond with humor. however, stand your ground and tell someone when they say something hurtful, even if itās your closest friend. if you turn everythingĀ into a joke, youāll begin to see your emotions and yourself as a joke too. coping is okay. destroying your self-image is not.
ADHDvice #1
if you feel the urge to stim, then stim!!
when i get anxious or overwhelmed or just plain bored, i tend to snap, spin, hum, click my tongue, rock back and forth, and more. up until recently, i tried to repress these urges to stim, but came to the realization that they arenāt unnatural or negative qualities. i like to think of it as my brainās version of fuzzy blankets and warm hot chocolate- theyāre just my internal coping mechanisms manifested in physical stimulation. stimming is not something to be ashamed of (even if many people donāt understand it), so if it makes your brain happy, then do it!
worried about people noticing your stimming? i understand. personally, i get uncomfortable stimming in front of people, but thereās 3 things i do to cope:
1)Ā hold off stimming until iām in a safe environment where i wonāt have to fear for my emotional or physical safety (can get very uncomfortable though and sometimes builds up anxiety and makes it very difficult to focus)
2) try to stim in smaller ways that donāt draw as much attention to me. iām fortunate in that i have many stims that work pretty much all the time, so i have a few in my toolbox that are quiet or even silent, for example tapping my fingers on my thumbs (or any surface, really). this allows me to get just a little bit of that stimulation and comfort that my brain craves while keeping the anxiety at bay
3) surround myself with people who are chill with my stims. i didnāt realize the power of this point until recently, but now i have a small group of people that iām like 75% comfortable stimming around, which lessens the stress on me a lot. they also can help me get to a safe space to stim when iām feeling overwhelmed
these are just my personal methods of coping, but every single person is different in how they handle it! it took me too long to figure out these and iām still learning, but i figured iād share for anyone who needs some advice
happy stimming :)
freud: everyone has a sex drive from birth and wants to fuck everything
asexuals:
