it's something really special when he quietly goes to his mommy, and tugs on the hem of her shirt... and when she turns around, she sees him fidgeting, knees shuffling together, with his hand in his crotch, and a tiny wet patch already started... he's so bashful he can barely talk, but mommy is so gentle and sweet with him. his lil thingy is making a tent in his shorts, but he's being brave and showing mommy anyway as the wet spot glistens and grows a tiny bit. she boops him on the tip as his pee starts coming out beneath the fabric... he kinda really can't hold it anymore!

he's making piddles and dribbles down his legs... and it's hard to tell if he's trying to hold it back and he can't, or trying to go but he's shy. but soon enough he starts to pee pee full force. he's doing a cute little nervous marching-in-place sort of thing as more urine pours down his legs, dribbles off his knees, and wets his lil socks!

by the time he's all done and standing in a puddle, he feels like a total baby, 100%

Awwwwww, so cuuuuuute! Sometimes you gotta work through the difficult childhood memories to get to the REALLY good kink stuff, because that's often where the kinks started! At least mommy is kind and supportive, encouraging him to wet, probably telling him just how adorable he is - he'll be a good little pants-wetter in no time! And a rather needy one, probably-

maybe they were very blatantly potty dancing before and have suddenly stopped, maybe they can't help making a little sigh of relief, maybe they suddenly looked dazed and blissful, maybe they go "uh oh" when they go, maybe they crouch down or spread their legs while they're peeing, maybe the suddenly run off and try to hide, maybe the loud hissing of the stream itself gives them away, or a mix of any of these

either way, no amount of excuses is going to convince their cg that they *don't* need a change right now

Uh-oh, silly little thing - did they really think they could hide what they were doing? Not a chance! They're really not as subtle as they think they are, sadly... The only thing that will delay that much-needed change is an "I'm not done yet!"

little who uses their pullups more often in the winter, often times to the point that they have to go back to diapers

at first their caregiver isn't sure why this is happening, until they realize, their poor little just doesn't want to have to take their pants off and plop their butt on a cold potty

and when soaking their diaper is so warm and cozy while trying to use the potty is cold and miserable, it's no wonder they're being self trained to go in their diapers instead of their potty every winter

Oh noooo, of course! Who wouldn't prefer a nice warm diaper over a freezing cold potty? Bundled up under enough layers, the warmth from the pee could last for aaaaages - but if they strip to go potty, the cold will last just as long, and that's way yuckier! No wonder they ignore their potty training...

wettings that will eventually, inevitably be discovered, but no one else notices when it happens, leaving the wetter to just silently panic as they pee themselves.

examples:

-character A is sitting in the back seat during a car trip while B drives, and either they're too shy to ask for a bathroom break, or it takes too long to find a place to stop. A is totally silent as wetness slowly saturates the seat of their pants and a little puddle of pee wells up between their legs. it's so humiliating, and they feel so guilty, but they also literally can't stop. if B is trying to find them a bathroom, then B probably keeps saying little words of encouragement, like "don't worry, we're almost there" or "it's okay, you're gonna make it" even while A is watching the evidence that it's too late spreading across their pants.

-A and B are sitting in a dark movie theater when A starts needing to go. and, rather than getting up and interrupting the movie, A makes what ends up being the wrong choice, and stays seated. at some point, they lose a really big unexpected leak... one that basically soaks their crotch and butt all at once. A starts internally panicking, but they feel like they super can't get up now... the wet spot is too obvious, and they'd have to slide past B in order to get out, which would put the wet spot basically right in front of B and they'd know. but panic leads to bad logic... because the longer they wait, the more they wet. soon, A is slow leaking pretty consistently into the seat cushion beneath them. their pants are sopping wet, and A keeps re-wetting them, releasing more pee with each little gush. it's only a matter of time before tiny drips start to fall from their soaked seat cushion... hopefully the sound of it will give them away to just B, who can help them, before the movie ends and the lights turn on, which would reveal their accident to everyone else in the theater. maybe B finally leans over and asks (though they kind of know the answer already) "hey... did you need to go use the bathroom?" and that's when A quietly starts to break down. the un-quiet part is that they just start releasing the rest of their bladder right there, which makes a splattering sound on the floor. maybe someone sitting near them could guess that it wasn't just a spilled drink, but B works hard to get A out of there before anyone can look to see what actually happened, or who did it.

-A is a bed wetter who is trying to break the habit, and they've been having a string of dry nights lately. it's to the point where they haven't even been wearing diapers at bedtime, though the mattress is still protected. still... one morning they wake up incredibly desperate. it's so bad that they can't even get up! they have to squirm in bed, in an attempt to get it under control, trying super hard not to immediately pee themselves!! but just as they manage to sit up, B comes in to wake them. B is surprised that they're already up, and takes this as an opportunity to start chatting about what they need to do that day. as B bustles around the room, talking animatedly, A simply can't hold it anymore. A starts to quietly yet involuntarily pee the bed, feeling their PJ pants go warm while trying to look normal. wetting while asleep is one thing, but it feels a lot more embarrassing to wake up dry, and then wet the bed because they couldn't make it to the toilet. A doesn't have daytime incontinence, so there's really no excuse for this! the blanket is still covering everything, and A figures if they can just finish up, before B notices that they're literally going right now... then A can hide the fact that they basically had a genuine accident. (maybe B is none the wiser, or maybe A's nervous body language gave them away... who knows. the important thing is that A knows they're doing something they shouldn't.)

Oh, this is cute! There's something absolutely nerve-wracking about accidents that you TECHNICALLY got away with... But only for now! They're definitely going to be discovered, sooner rather than later, and then what will the wetter do?! A had better hope their friend B has better ideas than them...

so like... A and B are sharing a bed. maybe A was forced to share with B, a known bedwetter, because accommodations are tight wherever they're staying. and like, B wets just infrequently enough that they don't use padding... they're trying to break the habit entirely, and diapers seem to trigger it to happen more, so they always just sleep on a protected mattress, in case of the occasional accident.

and, well... sure enough, when A wakes up in the middle of the night, because their bladder alerted them that they needed a toilet... B has already heavily peed their shared bed. A can feel the wetness on one of their pant legs, just on the side nearest to B, and they can faintly smell it on the blankets... such a childish indicator that someone had an accident.

but... A can't really say they aren't tempted to try it. the sheets are already wet, and it's not every day you get the chance to pee in bed with a perfect cover story already in place, so no one would ever suspect you. they do have to go, and getting up is starting to sound less and less appealing...

...

there's a little bloom of warmth between their legs, before they can even think about it too hard.

it feels good... so A just sort of lays there on their back and tries to relax. it takes another couple of false starts... little warm spots in their pants, which quickly cool, just like their damp pant leg. when they finally start to release, the heat is incredible... they feel it trickling against the inside of their leg, pooling beneath them... spreading under their butt, saturating everything... they can hear it faintly hissing, and A panics a little, because they really can't stop now!

they feel a little guilty as their stream trickles, and the hot puddle spreads, soaking up the back of their PJ shirt, and making them feel like their "accident" is going everywhere.

by the time they're done, they're feeling anxious... what if the amount/placement of the pee stains gives them away? they can only find out in the morning...

Ah yes, who wouldn't be tempted in this situation? The bed's already wet, A has the most perfect excuse they're ever going to get, and getting up out of bed would suuuuuck... Why shouldn't they just add to the wetness a little? Just to see how it feels... But unfortunately, there's one thing they haven't considered: the crotch of A's pyjamas/sleepwear is going to give away EXACTLY what they did in the morning, there's no way THAT would have gotten wet unless A and B were practically sleeping on top of each other!

do everything possible to hold it in for as long as you can, become consumed by the feeling of a full bladder, spend all your energy on not peeing

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v.s caregiver that INSIST on checking in every few minutes to ask if they "need to be taken to the potty"

maybe the little has also been in pullups for a while and is wearing big kid undies for the first time today and the caregiver keeps bringing it up and how they're very worried about their little having an accident

Ohhhh dear - for a little that wants to be a 'cool big kid' for a day, there's nothing worse than an overly-worried CG who's concerned about everything EXCEPT subtlety! Little has absolutely no chance to handle their pottying by themselves, CG just keeps asking... Which, let's face it, is inevitably going to lead little to hold it longer because they wanna prove they can do it without CG asking! Which often leads to accidents...

oh!!!!! yes yes yes!!!

sitting on the potty while wearing a pull-up? literally top tier stuff

like, if they're being trained out of pull-ups, they're just so used to them already! the potty is something new! something scary!

so, their cg has to show them that using the potty is nothing to be scared of! sits them down and let's them wear their pull-up because it's like a security blanket in a way, where it's something comforting and familiar in a new situation!

and if they're being trained into pull-ups 👀

it's hard for a little to trust a pull-up if they've never used one before! they're so used to using a potty, their body may not even let them go if they try going anywhere else!!

so! their cg has to show them that using a pull-up is nothing to be scared of! that it can handle what the little throws at it! has them put a pull-up on and sit on the potty and to go! they're in a familiar position in a familiar place, so they just gotta relax and let go!

Oh, you hate pads? So did I. I hated tampons and the cups too. Then I tried men’s pull-ups. You should totally try it sometime. The packaging even has a guy on it! You won’t get that with pads.

They’re grey too, not pastel pink with bows. They dont even make any sound when I take one out of my bag and open it. I actually have one right here.

Yeah it’s so quiet! And feel how soft I the inside is. Remember how pads feel like sitting on a paper towel? Doesn’t this just feel like a cotton ball?

You should totally try it on. We’re probably the same size. No one would even notice. I’m wearing mine right now and it just looks like Ive got a dick. Made me question the point of all those expensive pairs of packing underwear I’ve seen online.

The best part? The more you bleed the bigger your “dick” gets. It almost makes it worth it for me. And if you really want to make it better, you could just pee in them too. That’s what I do when I’m dysphoric.

No of course no one notices, you didn’t! Yeah, duh, it’s so easy! Watch!

You can’t even see anything, can’t you? It’s perfect for us. You’ve got to try it. Yeah I mean now. We’re along aren’t we? Why not? We’ve changed together before, why not again?

I told you it was comfortable. Feel that. It really does pack for you and everything. You should see yourself with a pullup under your pants and then you’ll wonder why it took you so long to try it.

But you gotta try peeing in them. That’s what really makes it remember? How will you know how well it packs if you aren’t even using it right? That’s like trying to ply at basketball with a deflated ball. What if I went with you, how about that? I still have some in my system, I don’t just do the whole thing at one time.

Ok deep breath. For me it helped to squat at first. Yeah like this. And then you…yeah, there you go. Perfect. Can I just…yeah I can feel it getting big in my hand. You’re really packing some heat. Yeah I had to say it, it’s true! You can put your hand on it too. Or mine.

Nah you don’t have to change it now, it was only a leak. I usually change mine after I brush my teeth at night and then in the morning. You only have to when you can feel it getting wet. That’s why it’s just leaks, okay?

What do you mean you can’t stop? Well it’s probably fine. It’s just your first time, it’ll totally be able to hold that. But I have a lot of tricks up my sleave for being able to stop your stream like the other guys. It takes control and patience but I think you can do it.

"are you gonna have an accident" said to a squirming character

"its ok if you have an accident, i wont judge you" said to their squirming partner"