Iâve been experiencing this lately with people trying to argue with me about my views on sex work.
âYou canât compare sex work to other types of work because having sex youâre not enthusiastic about is really traumatizingâ
Iâm sure for a lot of people thatâs true but for me sex and masturbation occupy a similar emotional space to brushing my teeth or doing the dishes and I certainly donât feel traumatized about it and I know for a fact that Iâm not the only person who feels this way.
Also I think that someone physically and violently forcing me to brush my teeth might end up being traumatizing.
Sex is so taboo and mythologized that people have forgotten the mechanics of it.
Yeah sex might be sacred and important to you. To me itâs a chore Iâve gotta do sometimes. Like cooking. I love cooking and put great importance on it and who I do it with. A lot of people just cook to live though.
Yeah if to you sex has a lot of emotions caught up in it Iâm not gonna tell you that youâre wrong for feeling that way. Thatâs normal. Itâs not a universal experience though. And if you canât accept that, then too bad. Other peopleâs personal realities donât exist to confirm your personal worldview.
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