are you really there?

whenever lesbians bring up the conversation of "genital preferences" & homosexuality, we usually get a gaslight-y, disingenuous response about it being "totally okay and valid (just don't be a transphobe)"

but when you examine what actual TIMs & TRAs say, it becomes very obvious that there is an elephant in the room. and it's coercive language. it's co-opting lesbian sexual terms, bringing morality, again, greatly coercive language & plain accusations of bigotry.

it's actually, a very common phenomenon. but when homosexual women bring this up, bring their experiences up... it's always: "this doesn't happen."

it does though.

If you are between 11-18 and consuming violent misogynistic media of women being degraded, choked, beaten, on their knees begging, participating in any “bsdm” /“cnc”, screaming in pain etc. during sex. And you are watching these films in extremely vulnerable moments, and 2+2=4 THEN UOU WILL OBVIOUSLY INTERNALIZE MISOGYNISTIC VIEWS ON WOMEN.

And Binky when we were having naps