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In all the words of Aristotle, the text about leisure resonates with me more than anything. Of the four types of study that Aristotle mentions that are key to an education, leisure is placed first and he places, in my opinion, in the highest regard. While gymnastics, music, and drawing are important, it isn't until one has discovered how to simply enjoy life that he can truly be educated. It is a foundational principle which has been lost throughout time. Aristotle points out that work is important but "leisure is better than occupation and is its end". The question is, what do we do when we are done working?
For most in our modern society, this is a useless concept of life, of a virtuous life. We work and brag about it, brag about how many hours we work or how hard we work. I was guilty of this and it took most of my life to understand how backwards this thinking is. As Aristotle points out, "they should be out medicines, for the emotion which they create in the soul is a relaxation, and from the pleasure we obtain rest." What a novel concept this is and yet rarely followed. It has become almost sin to want to go home, spend time with family or just simply relax. The relaxed individual is a better person and consequently a better worker so why wouldn't this be a central form of our lives?
Now this isn't without some note though, Aristotle mentions that he who works in more stressful situations needs amusement more than those who do not. This seems fairly obvious and though again, it is backwards in society. Those that work the LEAST, really do have the most leisure and usually at the expense of those that work HARDEST. No wonder we're so stressed out all the time.
I was in Germany when my life changed, or rather my mindset on life changed. A psychiatrist I knew mentioned this to me, asked me why they have holidays in the middle of the week, or quiet hours (especially on Sunday). Why do shops close so early and most offices are closed Friday's around noon? Why do so many people just take walks in the middle of the day? Why are dogs allowed almost everywhere? Why are there so many festivals and street fairs?
I had no answers, no really good answers anyway.
His response was that they have learned what is important in life. Work is required for many reasons but, it isn't what drives them. Occupation isn't what defines who they are, it is family and leisure. They learned how to simply enjoy life, to have fun and consequently are much less stressed.
I haven't been the same since and unfortunately I live in an environment that does not feel the same way. I look around everyday and get truly angry and what we have become. This doesn't mean that we should all just party all the time, no even close. What I mean is we need to significantly shift what matters, what defines us. Aristotle's education is based on those activities outside of work, knowledge of work comes naturally but knowledge of leisure is surprisingly hard. I speak from experience, it took the majority of my life to understand how to simply relax, to appreciate life and its wonder, to learn about music or art and what it means to the soul. I witness every single day, students who are so focused on a grade or a society, why is this so important? Why should that matter? Why shouldn't we just learn and learn without boundaries or conditions? Why add that undue stress when in the end, it really does not matter.
As I mentioned before, this needs to change. We need a massive shift in this world, mainly in our country, to the idea that working is not what makes someone human. No job I have had has ever defined me as me. It is what I do, gives me the means to be who I am.












