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The famous words of Emma Lazarus on the pedestal of the Statute of Liberty read: âGive me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free.â Until 1921 this was an accurate picture of our society. Under present law it would be appropriate to add: âas long as they come from Northern Europe, are not too tired or too poor or slightly ill, never stole a loaf of bread, never joined any questionable organization, and can document their activities from the past two years.â
President John F. Kennedy, 1963
It hit me like a ton of bricks that this is from 1963, fuck
This is a beautiful thing to spread.
Hey if youâre schizophrenic/psychotic I just want you to know that youâre a wonderful person and that you deserve so much better than the demonization, marginalization and stigmatization you face in this society.
Please consider reblogging this/other positivity posts for schizophrenic/psychotic people every once in a while. If you have more than 100 followers, odds are that a couple of them experiences psychosis and that they rarely see positivity posts for people with their symptoms.
Pen Sketching and Why itâs Good for You
Art is something that many people enjoy, whether it is creating or observing, many people take in art every single day. There are many different types of art, but letâs focus in on traditional sketching and drawing. Recently, Iâve found out about pen sketching through a Youtuber by the name of DrawingWiffWaffles.
It is a practice that is exactly what it sounds like. Itâs just sketching out your drawings with a pen. The best (and worst) part about pen sketches is the fact that you canât erase your lines. It helps you focus in on your drawing a little more and really think about where your lines are going, and pay more attention to shapes in a picture. I often draw from references, and since I started sketching with pens, Iâve noticed that I find more shapes within my references that helps me later then I am drawing without a reference.
Pen sketching also really helps me push my comfort zone and try new things. By working with something so permanent, it makes me care less about whether the drawing is perfect or not because I know that mistakes will happen and there is no way to fix them.
Art is all about practice and understanding what you are drawing. If you ask any artist how they got so good, most would answer with practice. Just filling sketchbook after sketchbook with tons and tons of drawings. No one is born right out of the womb with perfect artistic skills. By drawing more and creating more, it is the only way you can improve.

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You notice how Trump demolished the food safety laws and now, in the past month, we havenât been able to eat lettuce, eggs, Tyson chicken, and watermelon because there are huge bacteria outbreaks?Â
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and hereâs a link to an article talking about the changes trump has made to food safety protections
On Freedom
How free is freedom? How free should it be?
If thereâs one thing that the United States of America loves, it is freedom. America gave itself the nickname of âthe Land of the Freeâ and views itself as the protector and champion of freedom, going to war to protect and spread freedom all over the world. However, there are still various controversies surrounding freedom in the USA. These controversies surround things like free speech, freedom of religion, and the right to bear arms. Recently, between various social and legal changes as well as influential events, the meanings, interpretations, and other aspects of these rights and freedoms have come into question. With mass shootings, we have begun questioning our right to bear arms. Things like gay marriage and the increasing presence of secular people and beliefs have led to debates regarding our freedom of religion. The neo-Nazi rally in Charlottesville, Virginia as well as the increase in the hate speech used both online and in real life has led to debates regarding our freedom of speech. These things now beg two questions: how free should we be, and where should our freedoms end?
Personally, I believe that your freedoms end when they infringe upon the freedoms of others. Your right to bear arms ends when it begins to hurt my right to go to public places without the fear of getting shot. Your free speech ends when you start using it to threaten and discriminate. Your freedom of religion ends when you start imposing your religious beliefs onto others. By âends,â I do not mean that you lose the freedom entirely, but that your freedom does not extend to allowing you to do that. Examples of this include keeping prayer and religious teachings out of the curriculum of public schools unless teaching students about the worldâs religions; not allowing the use of specific slurs; and eliminating the legal sale of certain firearms. These policies still allow you to keep your rightsâthey arenât forbidding you from owning a gun, expressing yourself, or practicing your religion, and so onâall the while preserving the civil liberties of others.
Ultimately, people tend speak in extremes when regarding freedoms, and that is a problem. People donât acknowledge the shades of gray, the need for balance, when approaching freedoms. Many say that they donât want limitations on their right to say slurs, teach religion in public schools, own whatever gun theyâd like, saying that it makes them free, but they conveniently forget that the land of the free is not free for all to enter. Freedom is great, but we should keep everything in moderation. It should be balanced between protecting your rights and protecting the rights of others.
Nostalgia is Bullshit
Nostalgia - a sentimental longing or wistful affection for the past, typically for a period or place with happy personal associations. Or so it is defined in my online dictionary.
Especially in first world countries, itâs really easy to think the past was way better when you compare it to all the bad aspects of your life today. No homework, no responsibilities, no job. In hindsight, childhood seemed pretty fucking great. It seems like the past is the place to be. You had all this time to figure out who you are and discover your potential, with the whole world ahead of you.
And then one day you wake up, youâre entering your late teens, and your whole life is basically the equivalent skydiving with a busted parachute.
You traded long summer breaks for full time jobs. You traded fun for responsibility, and you probably wouldnât have taken the trade off had it been offered
However, despite all of that, Iâm still not nostalgic. Because although Iâve never been this stressed, Iâve never been this responsible. I was never this discouraged but I was never this engaged. I was never this tired, but I swear to God I was never this productive. And I was never this scared, but I was never this determined.
If you love a child and youâre worried that something about them is going to make them a target for bullying or other cruelty in the future, the best possible thing you can do is give them as much validation and support as you possibly can, and do your best to counteract the cultural messaging theyâre going to receive about the âwrongnessâ of being different. Show that child unwavering respect as a human being, and demand that others in that childâs life also treat them with respect.
The worst possible thing you can do for a child who is fat, gender nonconforming, disabled, LGBT+, or otherwise different from most of the other children they will grow up knowing, is to tell them they have to hide or get rid of their differences so people wonât be mean to them.
You need to refuse to become a childâs first bully. The world can be an awful, cruel place to kids who arenât like their peers â but you can counteract some of that cruelty instead of being the first to show it. Accept kids for who they are and teach them that they deserve respect and care as they are, that they donât have to earn love or kindness by suppressing parts of themselves to fit someone elseâs idea of who they should be.
Even if you actually succeed in forcing a child to be âmore normalâ, the lessons they take away from seeing themselves as unworthy without changing major aspects of their appearance, personality, etc., will stay with them forever. Itâs traumatic to be told who you are as a person is a bad thing.
Whether you succeed or not, the attempt will teach them that itâs acceptable for others to demand they change major aspects of who they are; that bullying is an acceptable way to show love; that they deserve any cruelty people show them for being different; and that if others around them are âweirdâ, theyâre entitled to bully those others into compliance just as they themselves were bullied â by you.
Children with eating disorders are in a worse position than happy fat kids with adults in their life who love and support them exactly as they are. Children who are bullied until they stop self-expressing in ways that defy gender roles are in a worse position than happy gender nonconforming kids who have adults in their life who stand up for them and love and support them exactly as they are.
Autistic kids who grow up in an environment where their differences arenât treated as burdens are better off than autistic kids who are traumatized by abusive therapies where theyâre trained to deny any uniquely autistic needs, pain, or body language and taught implicitly that who they are is lesser.
Donât try to change a child to make the world safer for them. By teaching them that who they are is the problem, rather than the bullying itself, you are being part of that danger. Instead, do everything you can to honour and respect the children you love for who they are.
Encourage them to think well of themselves and to not believe any messaging theyâre receiving from the world that tells them theyâll never be good enough until they conform. Seek out and create positive representation of people like them â and people who are different in a multitude of other ways â who are good, interesting, worthwhile people. Compliment them on the unique ways they express themselves. Teach them not to be afraid of not being exactly like everyone else.
A kid can grow up different and still be okay. But they need the support and love of the people around them to make it in a sometimes hostile world. And they need the adults in their life to work to keep that hostile world at bay as much as possible, and not be part of the hostility.
Approaching Pansexuality
If Tumblr is known for anything, it's probably that it's an incredibly diverse platform when it comes to gender identity, sexuality, race, nationality, and religious affiliation, although not so much on the political spectrum. So, it's needless to say that there's a lot of pansexual people on the site, and a lot more people who feel unrepresented in films. The solution: to portray pansexual characters in mainstream media, most recently in hits such as Deadpool 2 and Solo: A Star Wars Story. However, the two had distinctly different approaches to this task, and it's worth a bit of discussion.
In Deadpool 2, Wade Wilsonâs pansexuality was something poked fun at a bit, with him groping a fellow male character in one scene and his girlfriend teasing him for his same-sex attraction in another. Without context, this makes it seem like the film is taking a step backwards for diversifying its cast, but that's simply not the case. In reality, the Deadpool franchise weaves jokes about nearly everything into its comic books and movies, which is what makes Wade such a memorable and lovable character. By almost mocking of aspects of pansexual culture, the film is shedding light onto his sexuality in a lighthearted and almost flirtatious way.
On top of this, Ryan Reynolds, a writer, producer, and star of Deadpool 2, has made it very clear that he embraces diversity in the franchise. He has encouraged Wade to have a boyfriend in a future film, made several previously white characters black and MÄori, and weaved in an extra character not found in the comics so a member of the X-Men could have a girlfriend. He is an obvious advocate for diversity in films in a way that doesn't distract from the sheer awesomeness of moviemaking.
Solo, on the other hand, takes a more subtle and less controversial approach to its pansexual character: Lando Calrissian. While the man who plays him, Donald Glover, has proved that he's not afraid of making a statement by releasing his hit song about gun violence, âThis is America,â Lando did nothing to âproveâ his pansexuality. He wasn't seen showing romantic attraction of any kind, same-sex or not, so as to not ruffle the feathers of conservative moviegoers. By confirming him as pansexual in interviews, the makers of Solo can effectively silence liberal fans by giving them a scrap of sexual diversity to hold onto, making them unable to complain that they arenât being fairly portrayed.
Of course, one must acknowledge that Lando was a controversial character in the first place; having a black man as a main character in such a large franchise was unheard of when he first made his debut in the original Star Wars trilogy. Star Wars has also made it a point to cast more diverse actors in episodes seven and eight, since the two male leads are black and Hispanic, respectively. It put significant effort into making Rey a dynamic and interesting female character who plays an incredibly active role in the story, so it's difficult to criticize Star Wars for not representing demographics well. It's very possible that the franchise is âworking its way upâ to a queer character, so to speak, by covering more tread ground in the field of diversity, and will do a better job in the future. Deadpool was able to skip this step by originally establishing itself as for a younger and diverse demographic, as opposed to Star Wars reaching towards middle-aged and mostly right-leaning men who grew up with the original trilogy. We can only hope that it continues to advance in diversifying its cast to reach a younger, more colorful audience.

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Full offense but y'all need to stop fetishizing lgbt ppl. Lesbians arent straight menâs entertainment and sexual fantasies. Gay men arenât your âYAOI GAYBIES xDâ and you arenât âSINNING SO MUCH RIGHT NOWâ Bi people arenât here so you can have a threesome. Trans men arenât âuwu soft boys so pureâ and trans women arenât âbig muscle wife could kill meâ.
You arenât less homophobic for fetishizing gay ships. You arenât less transphobic for fetishizing trans people.
Stop.
anyway jeff bezos could eradicate homelessness. he could literally give each homeless person 100k and it would only take less than .5% of his entire wealth. what the actual god giving fuck
Why do you think they deserve it
Well shelter is a basic need, and would at the very least allow them a place where they can get back on their feet. Food water and shelter are necessary for a healthy body and psychology. Thereâs also the fact that theyâre people too, and a little help goes a long way in making a decent community. Thereâs plenty of reasons
Yeah they need stuff, but why does every homeless person deserve 0.5% of someoneâs income
You have five hundred apples, and just one day to eat them all.Â
You pass by a small crowd of hungry children, and decide youâd rather 455 apples go rotten than give them to some snotty brat who isnât your problem.
It doesnât matter how hard youâve worked for your 500 apples, or that you arenât the parent of any of those kids. in the moment you decide to walk away, it doesnât matter why theyâre hungry, or who owes who what.
You had the opportunity to help people, you had the ability to help people, you had the resources to help people. You had everything you needed to make a small, tiny little difference in someoneâs life, and you decided not to.
What are you going to buy in your lifetime thatâs worth more to you than your own humanity?
What are you going to buy in your lifetime thatâs worth more to you than your own humanity
Reblogging for the very, very important lesson
Sometimes I wish there were a Hell if only for the visuals of a bunch of rich shit heads wandering around on fire asking âWhereâs my money?!â
Racial Diversity in Ancient Europe
When you see things about Europe about two or three thousand years ago, you often think of impressive structures and a bunch of muscular white dudes. Diversity isnât something that really comes to mind. For instance, BBC faced quite a bit of controversy about a year ago when it released a cartoon showing life in Roman Britain and it showed a family with a dark skinned father. This spawned quite a bit of backlash online, with many people fighting over the legitimacy and accuracy of the cartoonâs portrayal. Many even went so far as to attack several scholars, like the classicist Mary Beard, and accuse them of trying to rewrite history.
Obviously, many of these attacks are fueled by hate and prejudice, but letâs look at the evidence. Firstly, Rome had a habit, especially in its early years, to station soldiers in places far from home. This was done to discourage their participation in rebellions and to encourage the protection of Rome. Additionally, many people forget how vast the Roman Empire was. It included much of the Middle East and Northern Africa on top of sizable portions of Europe. It has also been noted that the Romans even had battles against armies from places like China. These interactions, along with trade, made Rome much more ethnically diverse, and this included Roman Britain. There are also many records of North African and Ethiopian soldiers in Roman Britain, especially as members of the guards assigned to Hadrianâs Wall. The evidence is not just anecdotal, but also genetic, as a few skeletons and other remains have been found with DNA and other features common with people from the Middle East and Africa. But this also begs the question of why there are virtually no remaining traces of this diversity in the population.
The answer to that question is long and, to be honest, we donât quite know everything, but there are a handful of explanations. The main one is that there were simply too few people and that not enough of them had established permanent roots in England, and that those who did had their DNA gradually phased out by the randomness of genetics and inheritance. Itâs also not unheard of for an area to show little to no genetic evidence of the presence of certain groups. Britain also lacks genetic evidence of the the Danes, a group that had invaded England and whoâs defeat is rumored to be connected to the origin of soccer/football, in its population. We also are fairly certain that there were Norse settlers in Newfoundland about a thousand years ago, but traces of Norse DNA are almost nonexistent in the current population.
Europe was more diverse in the past than most people know. Perhaps if we were to teach more about that and stop erasing it, we could help combat racism and prejudice in the present and future.
Top 10 Reasons to know Sign Langauge:
1. You can communicate through windows 2. Sign language is a 3-D Language 3. You can sign with your mouth full 4. Hearing parents can communicate with their Deaf child 5. You can sign underwater 6. Sign Language is a neat way to express yourself 7. You can communicate across a room or via mirror without shouting 8. Sign language is beautiful 9. You can make friends with Deaf people 10. Sign language brings together Hearing & Deaf people
Also if you really want to learn most deaf people are so happy that you are interested in learning and will be super patient and work with you.Â
And itâs a really great thing to be able to do for any job because imagine having to go everywhere with someone that can translate for you or with paper to write or trying to read lips and just going to grab a cup of coffee and Hey, the barista knows sign language. They arenât great but you get to speak with them and order your coffee in the way thatâs natural to you like that would just make your day. Or a teacher that can talk and sign so classes donât have to divide?? Or a therapist that can sign?? Hearing people signing 2k15 honestly.
Iâve been learning to help my HoH/deaf customers, so have some links!
Dummies Guide To: Basic Sign Language (all still images, no videos)
ASLPro (video dictionary)
ASL University (video dictionary, lessons, terminology, and more)
Also a wonderful tool for helping babies and toddlers express themselves.
Unpopular opinion: straight people using âpartnerâ to refer to their SO actually helps normalize the term so that lgbt folx can use it without automatically outing themselves to strangers. It also helps other straight ppl get comfortable with the fact that strangers arenât entitled to information about other peopleâs gender or sexuality.
Give op their hard-earned notes
⌠I âŚ. I donât understand why ANYONE would think that is an unpopular opinion?!????
Because that is just truth? Like, that was part of the whole point???? Ally het-appearing couples in the 90s would call each other partners in a deliberate campaign to 1) de-centralize marriage in the eyes of the culture on behalf of any and all unmarried couples; 2) obfuscate gender as the primary fact about couples in general; 3) make the term more common in a deliberate act of allyship; and 4) signal to queers that they were allies.
It was on purpose??!?? There were magazine articles about it???!
(Not disrespecting OP, just confused at this fallen world we live in in which those assertions could possibly be either unpopular or opinions.)
I yammer on about this constantly, but the generation gap in queer culture is REAL.
What was done very deliberately in the 80s and 90s specifically was not passed down to the next generation of kids because of:
1) the massive number of people who literally died in the AIDS crisis
2) the massive culture crush that happened with the push towards assimilation
3) lost culture because of criminalization and a diaspora and the gentrification of queer neighborhoods.
Seriously I will scream to high heaven every single day and sometimes I get real feisty and use the word âgenocideâ because queer people and queer culture were deliberately and systematically destroyed and the kids today do not have a real sense of their history because nobody is teaching it and it is still being destroyed.
I would add that is not even the first cultural genocide of queer culture. When we look at the gender encloser - particularly around sexual and reproductive labor - which occurred through the 16th and 17th centuries we see a massive extermination and erasure of queer people and our practices. It is part of the reason people seem to transgender people are new. Itâs because the history of gender variant practices in Europe were so thoroughly erased we donât even consider that there were likely gender variant people in Europe prior to the late 19th century when early psychologist started categorizing sexual and gender practices.
Another instsnce of major cultural genocide occurred when the library of the Institut fĂźr Sexualwissenschaft was burned by the Nazis. And I am sure there are more examples of we look closely enough.
Queer histories and identities are quite frequently being distorted and erased, especially by colonialist cisgender heterosexual anthropologists and historians with adgendas to paint us as deviant and rare. And we are one of the few marginalized identity groups who do not teach our own history and whoâs history is often painted as too obscene to teach.

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General Strategies for Texture Sensitive People - 1
Scenario: You HAVE to touch something in order to DO something (for me itâs often cleaning, such as a paper towel to wipe up a mess)
Strategies:Â
Before this happens, try giving extra attention to texture when buying things you will have to interact with, especially on a daily basis. Wherever you can, create alternatives. For example, instead of touching a paper towel, which I hate, I could touch a microfiber cloth and use that to clean.
If you absolutely cannot change the texture of something, cover your hands. You can buy cheap gloves usually used in the kitchen at a grocery story, or use knit gloves usually used in cold climate. Our fingertips contain sensitive nerves, and so by putting on gloves you will be blocking the âfeelingâ of the fabric (but you will feel the glove).
If you canât wear gloves for some reason, try doing the task at the same time as something else to take your brain off the task. Try doing the task with music or a video on. This will hopefully distract your brain from the texture for enough seconds to do the task.
In the same vein as the last point, if you are in a comfortable area, you can stim while doing the task if you have a stim you can do without your hands to help you touch the texture.
Wearing ear defenders or headphones will help, even though you are blocking auditory stimulus and not tactile, because you will have a larger threshold for sensory input before you get âoverwhelmed.â
Trade tasks with another person or ask for help. For example, my partner will open silverware napkins for me at a restaurant because I canât touch the cheaper type of napkin. If there is an opportunity to, ask someone to trade tasks with you so youâre still contributing or ask for help.
The New Revolution
Revolution. Itâs something we all learned about, whether it be about American independence or an influx of industry or Les Miserables. Everyone has a different idea  as to what it means, but itâs hard to figure it out without taking part in one, an opportunity not many people have had. At least, not until now.
Since Gen Z came into existence, radical social changes have swept the world. Some of them are big, like Saudi Arabia allowing women to drive, 26 countries legalizing same-sex marriage, Donât Ask, Donât Tell being repealed, and most recently, taking another step towards ensuring net neutralityâs safety. Others are smaller and more subtle, such as gender-neutral bathrooms popping up, women being expected to pay on dates, queer characters being less controversial in mainstream media, and the expected years of schooling increasing to a degree in almost every country.
Of course, none of these changes have come easily, and some of them arenât finished coming. Thereâs still a lot of work to be done, but weâve laid the foundations for a better tomorrow, and itâs something worth celebrating. But, how did we do it? The Internet. And Barack Obama.
That said, itâs likely we wouldâve gotten there eventually, but without rapid communication and a black President to speed things along, thereâs no telling as to how long it would take. But, with the invention of the Internet in 1990, sharing information is faster than ever, and the distance-decay model becomes more and more irrelevant. Any two places in the world with an Internet connection can communicate with each other, and minorities have taken this opportunity and run with it. Poverty and language do act as a barrier to mass communication, but those who can connect use it to share their experiences and wisdom, creating friendships and communities. All of this peaceful sharing is well and good, but minorities have realized that their struggles arenât solitary journeys and that they have more impact than people than previously thought. The Internet has allowed communities to move from polite discussions to alerting people who arenât directly affected by the issues. From there, allies are made, and with newfound supporters for the cause they can make change on a national or even global scale. Without WiFi, that would never have been even a dream, and yet here we are.
A smaller stepping stone but an important one nonetheless was the United States electing Barack Obama as President in 2008. One could go on for paragraphs about all the wonderful things Obama did, and some of the not-that-respectable things that need to be acknowledged, but the most impactful thing he did during his presidency was become President. He showed that a black man could become the President of the United States, and laid the foundations for people of color and minorities to go out and do great things by taking such a monumental leap. That isnât to say that black men and women (Rosa Parks, Harriet Tubman, Langston Huges, the Tuskegee Airmen, and so many others) hadnât helped Obama do what he did by proving that it could be done, but he differs from the rest because of the duration of his presidency; Obama was the President the children of Gen Z grew up with and he helped to sculpt their worldviews. These kids were raised alongside the notion that a black man can be the President, so whatâs to say they canât do amazing things too?
Thanks to the Internet and the idea of Barack Obama, Gen Z and future generations will grow up believing that anything is possible and that social equality is normal. Gender is arbitrary, same-sex marriage isnât a big deal, a black man was the President, and itâs all amazing. Growing up with these things makes them seem less obscure, if they seem obscure at all, and itâll help children grow up and do great things some day. Something as simple as a computer and a presidential ballot have allowed the problems of today to be solved, creating opportunities for our children to solve the problems of tomorrow.