If you do hardcore porn and you think you're better than someone who does full service sex work then you're a fool and a traitor.

hiii everyone, its puppet again, terminated for no reason. getting really tired of this. as always, its a homeless and disabled trans woman living purely off donations from tumblr, even as it keeps getting nuked. paypal here if anyone can help. anything's appreciated.

I've increasingly been encountering cis "allies" saying they're replacing "woman" in their vocabulary with "AFAB" to be more inclusive of transmascs, e.g. if they're talking about people who get sexually harassed by men. I used to think this was a well-meaning position born of ignorance, but I've discovered that you press them on whether they think transfems get sexually harassed by men, amazingly they will often admit that they know they do. You then ask them to reconsider why they refer to "AFABs", and they just repeat that they want to be inclusive of transmascs.

I get harassed for even wearing eyeliner outside and people are very comfortable commenting "that's a boy!" whenever I do ANYTHING to dress feminine. I've had male hawkers corner me in public to hit on me while trying to sell me their products while around my TME exes and nothing was done, not even from my partners at the time.

transfem affection and attraction is painted as inherently predatory to a degree that drives us to be constantly on edge. it makes us fucking paranoid. do you know how awful it is to worry if it’s safe to lean your head on your close friend’s shoulder? to be openly desired and even flirted with but never flirt back for fear of being labeled a creep? to be unable to cuddle up with your date because you’re terrified of how they might respond? do you know how much that fucks a person up?