Mandy Hale (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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6. Develop good relationships: Do your friends make you happy? Do you enjoy their company? Are they kind of people with your best interests at heart? Do they treat you with respect and help to boost your self-esteem? If not, then work on finding new relationships!

oh man. scorpios always destroy their relationships. they self sabotage too much. scorpios want love and someone that understands them but their constant paranoia and cynical attitude causes them to just push people away. scorpios look so deep into things and they’re always trying to read between the lines when its really not that deep. they makes shit deep when it really isnt that serious. they just cant let shit go and become obsessive and then they convince themselves that youre cheating on them or keeping shit from them. my biggest problem withs scoprios tho is that their actions are always justified. scorpios always blame others for their paranoia and if they act out its your fault because youre being shady. like nah scorpios chill. you guys have mad trust issues and you just cant allow yourself to be happy and be at peace in a relationship. youre always sleeping with one eye open cus youre terrified of betrayal. also whats annoying is that they make it so hard to gain their trust 100 percent. you could literally take a bullet for them and theyd still have doubts about you. lol whats so ridiculous to me about scorpios is that they demand you trust them and open up to them and tell them all your secrets. smh scorpios so you want me to spill my guts but your ass will never do the same ? makes me think its not even cus you care about me. you just want the upper hand. you just want to posses me and know how to push my buttons.you want to know my strengthens and weaknesses.  you want total control. I get it, though . All this stems from your fear of betrayal and hurt. which goes back to my whole point that this fear that you guys obsess over is the big reason that causes you guys to sabotage your relationships. i know its hard man but just at least try to trust people. trust yourselves. trust that youve selected people worth trusting. let yourselves be happy. 

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