After 1 week I almost fought my coworker like I’m a 16 yr old and he’s my dad 💀 bc he’s so kind and giving me rides even when it’s inconvinient and it makes me so uncomfortable 💀 a few days later he starts lecturing me while telling me he’s going home but will come back to take me home. Stops to tell me “sorry. I just went full dad mode.”
This week (like 2 later) he picks me up at 7:30am in his pjs bc “he has to be in at 3pm for 30 mins. so he can drive me to n from work”. I don’t argue and show up that afternoon to his car w him n his kid like 10 minutes late bc he insisted I take my time to finish everything.
I think I’m doing a good fucking amount of healing in the time I’ve been here. This man is relentless in my comfort in being inconvinient.





















