dream girl evil

I know Condal his parents disagreed with him because of the Bible, so he apparently decided the best way to cope was to make Alicent super religious and prudish. Yes, she believed in the Seven, but there’s literally ZERO mention in the book of her being a religious fanatic. Then he turns around and writes her as a hypocritical religious woman by having her sleep with Criston. But wait, he’s not done. They also decide to write her selling out her own sons, manipulating them, and then punish her sexually.

Does anyone have that post that starts with "consider this, dear women, you are rich if you own yourself"? It was about how it's really important for women to be true to themselves and assert their boundaries and I can't find it for the life of me!