Fag Poet

1. You will never be a “real” man. At no point in life will you be completely indistinguishable from a cis man. You may eventually pass as male in a social situation, but your body will always be female, or that of a surgically altered and mutilated female.

2. You may not be able to pass. Even on testosterone, people may be acutely aware that you’re trans. Do you really want to live life as a constant uphill battle trying to convince people you’re a man?

3. Before you pass, lesbians and straight men may find you attractive. Gay men will not. Trans men tend to get enraged by this. After you pass, gay men will not want to have sex with you, because you still have a vagina. You are still female.

4. Sex reassignment surgery is a huge risk to take (it can go horribly wrong), and you will never have a functioning penis. A flap of arm skin sewn onto your groin is not a real penis.

“The possible risks of transmasculine bottom surgery include, but are not limited to, bleeding, infection, poor healing of incisions, hematoma, nerve injury, failure of the transplanted tissues to survive, unsightly scars, exposure of the prosthesis, injury to the urinary tract, abnormal connections between the urethra and the skin, painful intercourse and anesthesia risks.”

5. It is okay to be a gender non conforming woman. It is okay to be a lesbian. It is okay to be a tomboy. It is okay to wear men’s clothes, play sport, have male friends, etc. None of this makes you a man.

6. Hormone therapy/puberty blockers are dangerous and we still aren’t aware of all the risks.

“Complications of masculinizing hormone therapy include:

Producing too many red blood cells (polycythemia)

Weight gain

Acne

Developing male-pattern baldness

Sleep apnea

Elevated liver function tests

An abnormal amount of lipids in the blood (dyslipidemia), with a higher risk in those who have polycystic ovary syndrome

Worsening of an underlying manic or psychotic condition

High blood pressure (hypertension), type 2 diabetes and cardiovascular disease, when risk factors are present

Evidence suggests no increased risk of breast or cervical cancer.The evidence that masculinizing hormone therapy increases the risk of ovarian and uterine cancer is inconclusive. Further research is needed.”

7. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness, no matter how anyone else tries to frame it. It is not an identity or something to celebrate. As with all other mental illnesses, you can undergo therapy to help you become more comfortable and accepting of your sex and “assigned” gender.

everyone who agrees with this post gets an F in empathy and an F in psychology! cool that you don’t understand transitioning, its purpose, the biological and neuroscientific basis, and the effects of it, but please don’t spread this to fuckign children.

everything you listed as “complications of masculinizing hormone therapy” are literally just the effects of male puberty. testosterone is literally found in everyone’s body. it is not bad for you. the “complications” are BECAUSE YOURE BECOMING A MAN.

and no i know your fucking chromosomes don’t change you mongoloid but chromosomes are LESS reliable indicators of sex than everything else about a person. as soon as you have a normal male amount of testosterone in you constantly, you’re male. genitalia and chromosomes aren’t the be all end all when it comes to sex; biology is complicated and summarizing it as “this one thing determines a giant part of who you are” is completely false.

according to you, men who have lost their genitals or have an extra chromosome aren’t male, because penis = male in your 30 BC shit brain. but if you knew anything about ACTUAL science you’d know ONE small part of the human anatomy and neurology doesn’t make or break shit. the changes that come with testosterone are the best indicators of sex and theyre what all useful, educated, and empathetic humans use to determine sex.

but if you really want to ask everyone to show you their genitals or birth certificate when you first meet, be my guest.

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Lesbians who date trans women are still lesbians.

Lesbians who date trans women are still lesbians.

Lesbians who date trans women are still lesbians.

They are not bisexual. They do not suffer from internalized lesbophobia just because they would date a trans woman. They are just lesbians. Why? Because trans women ARE WOMEN.

Trans women who identify as lesbians ARE LESBIANS

Trans women who identify as lesbians ARE LESBIANS

Trans women who identify as lesbians ARE LESBIANS.

They are not “predators.” They are not “straight.” THEY ARE NOT MEN. THEY ARE WOMEN.

This is just one of the god damn hills I will fucking DIE on.

If you’re a cis lesbian and you would/do date trans women, I am sorry people are assholes. I’m sorry people try to make you feel bad for loving all women. You ARE a lesbian.

Say that to your shitass community :

Look at this shit !!! That what you get when you say male (aka transwomen) can be lesbians

You can’t make the 2 opinions “trans women are lesbians” and “lesbian are female attracted to other female” “valid” together

Because first it is fake, trans women can’t be lesbians secondly it will always end up in homophobic shit

“Lesbians” who date trans women are BISEXUAL and Trans women who identify as lesbians ARE STRAIGHT saying the opposite is HARMFULL because it lead to what I fucking link you.

You whole IDEOLOGY (and not individuals) IS PROBLEMATIC, is HOMOPHOBIC and is SEXIST

You can’t “feel like a woman” and you can’t “feel gay” : you are by biological standard or you are not.

Lesbians can date trans women.

Trans people who get bottom surgery are not the sex they identify as lmfao. They have either an extremely cursed looking flesh tube that is barely functional or they have a inside out penis that's been shaped into a little pouch with some pathetic fused together fake labia made of scarred scrotum tissue on top that they have to dilate constantly to stop it from healing itself. It also grows hair and fecal bacteria inside the hole.

People who experience attraction based on someone’s sex ARE attracted to the individual’s genitals, and that is okay, but a vagina is a vagina whether you bought it or you were born with it. You can’t magically grow fecal matter and the shaft of a penis doesn’t grow hair anymore than a clit grows hair so no, the inside doesn’t grow hair either. It’s a vagina. They get a clit and everything too. They don’t have to dilate it because it is going to “heal closed” it’s just that their pussies are tight as fuck so they gotta stretch it out. There are cisgender women who have to do the same thing. There are cisgender women who get their own vaginoplasty to TIGHTEN the vagina. These are all vaginas.

Neovaginas do not function as vaginas. They are holes. They are holes made from penile and scrotum skin. They are male. I didn’t say it grows fecal matter, I said it grows fecal bacteria because, oftentimes, the prolonged use of estrogen causes the penis to be too small to be made into this fake vagina and tissue from the rectum must be used. Literally, trans women who don’t dilate like their instructed to by their doctors have their neovaginas atrophy. “Ignorant” Lmfao I have read multiple accounts from trans women who have actually HAD the surgery, I have read medical journals, and I have seen pictures. That shit looks cursed and fake. The fake-ass labia fuse together when the skin is healing post-surgery, most of them don’t even have a clitoris put in because the surgeons are absolute idiots, and the ones that are lucky enough to get their penile tissue rolled up into something vaguely resembling a clitoris, it doesn’t fucking look like one.

Real women who get vaginoplasty still have real vaginas. Transwomen who get “vaginoplasty” have their dick-skin, their ball-skin, and sometimes their asshole-skin used to cover up a manufactured cavity that literally isn’t supposed to be there, which is why the body tries to close it up just like any other cavity or hole that isn’t supposed to be there, and then get some sad excuse for labia sutured on.

I know I don’t have to date trans people. I definitely don’t want to. I don’t have a problem with people who have sex dysphoria, but I do have a problem with people trying to redefine biological sex, sexual orientation, etc. I also have a problem with the figureheads of the movement and literal “LGBTQBDSMIAHGOPEHGBSG” organizations stomping on gay rights and screeching “bigotry” “exclusion” and “transphobia” at anyone who asks them about actual homosexuals, actual fucking heads of the movement promoting “cotton ceiling” theory, literal fucking rapists heading the movement getting defended and anyone pointing out that they’re rapists or wife-beaters being called “terfs” etc. I also have a problem with literal fucking males screaming about how they need to be prioritized over all women because they’re trans and acting like typical male-socialized little pissbabies, sexually harassing women, going to homeless shelters for women only and terrorizing rape survivors, getting any survivors who complain about their rapey behavior getting kicked out of the shelter for being “transphobic” and making the shelter “unsafe” for the fucking RAPIST, etc. But I’M ignorant. Lmfao. Okay, man-stanner. You may as well have a shrine in your closet to “organic strap” going to bat for these fucking heterosexual creeps calling themselves lesbians.

Earlier, you dismissed a collection of receipts as “individuals” who are shitty. Those “individuals” are parroting the exact things as multiple figureheads of the trans movement and multiple public stances of trans organizations.

When you’ve had stable or at least protected relationships, I know that it’s hard to feel rejected, especially when you know that straight people aren’t all monogamous condom users. But the proportions are really high, in some places, gay and bisexual men appoint for more than half of syphilis cases for example.

It’s a real necessity to start talking about safe sex again, especially for the younger generations for whom STDs are a thing of the past that can be cured with antibiotics.