Girls are unconsciouly aware that they are subject to random punishment, but they donât necessarily connect it to them being female, so they donât understand why theyâre being punished, and they internalise it as shame, because of course itâs their fault, why wouldnât it be? nobody else is punished like they are. The situation of random punishment for girls and women is never explained, because talking about it is taboo, because we canât expose the foundations of our civilization, which is literally the slavery of women.Â
Also when a girl says it is unfair she is punished at all or harsher compared to guys usually lead to more punishment, so that we learn to keep quiet and not complain
The abusers arenât willing to admit, even to themselves, that their actions are motivated by misogyny. Because they donât want to be seen as hateful and irrational. They do everything possible to conceal the fact that their hostility toward female people comes from misogyny, and try to make an example out of any girl who dares point this out. They insist that itâs always based on individual failings:
âSheâs just too loud. Sheâs too slutty. Sheâs too stuck up. Sheâs too weak. Sheâs too annoying. Sheâs too bossy. Sheâs too aggressive. Sheâs too shrill. Sheâs too fat. Sheâs too awkward. Sheâs too crazy. Sheâs too needy. I donât hate girls! I just hate each specific girl for being so unlikable and bad as an individual.â
Misogynists insist that each of the girls they hate has a unique character flaw that is 100% her own fault and has nothing to do with being female. âIf you want to be treated better, just change yourself into a girl who is worthy of respect.â For most girls, itâs only after searching for years for the nonexistent âgirl who is perfect enough to deserve respectâ that they start to see misogyny for what it is.
It's why "Karen" and "terf" are so effective. The terms are shorthand for "bad woman" and thus "acceptable target". Men can claim they don't hate women, they just hate bad women. Of course any woman who stands up for herself and/or her beliefs is considered a bad woman.
It's the same with female politicians. People are "willing to vote for a woman" in theory, but in practice they hold female politicians to unrealistically high standards and disqualify each individual woman for one reason or another.
