One of the most annoying situations within fandoms is when your favorite ship has to be in the middle of ship wars all the time, despite the fact that your ship's shippers are not involved in the slightest. And even less so, when the shippers of the rival ship find themselves talking more about your ship (in a negative way) than theirs.
And the most frustrating thing is when a fandom finds itself discussing some ship in a positive way, but yours is not mentioned at all, and in the end you understand that your pair is just a means to vent negatively without consequences (especially if it is rare ships or ships where there is no controversy but they make sure to find it in them).
Please stop always discussing something negatively, you just become annoying and boring, and you don't deserve to be in a fandom to continuously trigger war ships.
Keep the peace in the fandom and ship for fun!
