Anon Confessional

A safe and hopefully fun place to ask questions or just share what's on your mind.

Out of curiosity, what made you start this account, and do you ever feel down or demotivated from listening to all these secrets and vent posts? It's okay if you do, btw. We are all (probably) human /hj :)

I wish I was less good at hiding how I feel. Im so good at it, people would never suspect anythings wrong except some anxiety but that's normal right? But that's not all it is and everyday is a fight to keep myself from falling apart in front of everyone and screaming and crying if something bad happens if I've already been around people and I cant get diagnosed if I dont tell anyone and if I dont get diagnosed or tell anyone it'll never get better but I dont know how to tell anyone that'll get me meaningful help

I fucked up. I accidentally threw away the Windows 11 activation my partner ordered with the box because I thought it was just a confirmation slip at the bottom of a bigger package. The guilt is eating me alive because I already told them the package was empty because I genuinely believed it was. I can't tell them the truth now because they're already angry about it and I don't want the anger turned onto me, so I'll tell tve truth to a bunch of online strangers.

just sending an ask as a reminder to all who see this that it's disability pride month!! and if anyone doesn't know what that is, i encourage you to look it up :3

I currently feel like absolute shit. I have a lot of stuff I need to do (move out of my parents' flat, move in with my boyfriend, start learning German, get into uni for my master's degree, deal with some minor health issues that have been bugging me) and I am overwhelmed. I constantly can't sleep well due to anxiety (and minor cold, I wake up because my mouth feels like the damn Sahara desert) so I'm even more sensitive. I don't want to overwhelm my bf with all this because he's also very stressed for his own reasons and I don't really have anyone who I wanna trust with all this. I know I can do this but it's just so much stuff at the same time and I feel terrible

this is really stupid but i've been crying about this for hours and i'm too embarrassed to post about this on main because it's childish. also one of my irl friends follows this blog and already knows about this situation so hi s***** if you see this

Abusive relationship anon here again. I had the opportunity to talk to my dad for a while today without being overheard by my boyfriend, it was nice. My dad has a friend who works with disabled and autistic people helping them get jobs and housing, learn life skills etc, and I gave my dad permission to speak to her about my situation to see if she can help me find somewhere to live. I've met her before, she's a lovely woman who I've known to really fight for people who need help. Me and my dad have also made some plans and I think there's an end in sight!

To that one "friendship crush" anon, my advice is maybe trying to play off that you want to be friends by saying something like, "y'know, it's pretty hard to distinguish platonic and romantic feelings from time to time, like I think I had a crush on you, but lately I've only ever thought about you as a friend" or something along those lines.

Ok so there's this guy. Who is not famous but not not-famous either (let's say he's niche famous). And he's coming to play a show in my town, and I know he usually stops to chat with people after the show. How creepy would it be to approach him to say he has a beautiful smile and he's overall very pretty? (In addition to congratulate him on the show obvs). I'll be very honest: while i WOULD very much like to hook up with this guy, my compliment would be absolutely genuine and I don't expect anything in return - also I think it's nice to give compliments? And it's nice to be on the receiving end? I'm afraid to come off as creepy or harassing. I'm afraid of sounding creepy already just on this ask. I also might be overthinking this oh my fucking god

finally lost feelings for a crush i had since they basically ignored me for two weeks. not sure how to tell them I don't have feelings for them anymore politely?

im watching my current favourite tv show and im up to the fifth a final season and its so lame compared to season 4 (note: not talking about stranger things, though like i felt similarly about that too in the fifth season i think)

I met my (long distance) ex partner for dinner last week. I'm still in love with them. I didn't know one could have eyes that shade of blue. She's absolutely mesmerizing. Genuinely the most attractive person I've ever seen.

I'm so excited because I bought a plane ticket to Spain for next week to go see a concert. Yes I did see the same band in Italy last week and yes it was a financially unwise decision (even if the tickets were cheap) BUT it was so refreshing to do something impulsive just because I really wanted to. I hope it's gonna be a fun little adventure :) life has been kicking my ass lately but at least there's this! Just wanted to share this with someone, thanks for listening<3

i don't know if this is a hot take but people saying "everyone is beautiful" pisses me off just as much as people calling others ugly. because why are we even reinforcing the labels of beautiful/ugly. why can't we just exist in our bodies without being perceived as attractive or unattractive. there's more to being a person than being beautiful

I feel like such a fraud because I'm a classical music enthusiast who can't bear Mozart's Rondo Allan Turca which is one of the most iconic classical pieces. I heard 5 seconds of it this morning, it's past 23pm and it's still stuck in my head running my life even if I listened to 3 hours of other music during the day. I can't explain this hatred to anyone though because I sound insane when I say "when I was 6 my abusive father had a synth that automatically played this music and I used to listen to it on a loop when I was at his house and now I feel like I'm back there whenever I hear it" especially because it's such a joyful sounding song. Couldn't my baby ballerina brain find another less omnipresent song to imagine choreography and recitals to ?

I'm kind of annoyed at myself, like I'm not beating myself down because of this, but I'm a bit upset at the fact that I've made several steps back in life. My motivation has started to deteriorate, however I know what to do to fix that. My main issue is the fact I somehow can't handle hate anymore. I mean at first I really couldn't handle one hate comment and I would think about that for days, wondering what I did wrong, but I was a kid back then. Then all of a sudden it didn't matter. People would make fun of my looks, and I was like, I really don't care or I would laugh if it was accurate. However, all of a sudden it began to strike a nerve again. It makes me want to quit and avoid certain outings so I don't run into them again. I don't know, I just hate that if I joke or seem too happy, people that don't know me try to tear me down a peg.