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its why body positivity as a movement fell short….ppl can only fake positivity so much before it stops working, u have to get ppl to agree that there body is a machine designed to take food to create energy to stay alive, if they can agree to that we have progress, the body positivity movement failed culturally bc ppl don’t love themselves enough bc they donot have the building blocks to neutrally accept themselves as a living animal

like how do we get to positive by skipping neutrality? you dont…. u just get a bunch of ppl pretending to love their bodies and food and then crashing every few months back into self hatred, its not sustainable we have to deconstruct what it means to have a body that isnt rail thin in order to reach acceptance and nobody wants to do that bc nobody wants to let go of ego

Women stick thin and malnourished on the red carpet, and people are saying you can't point out that these women are dying because that's body shaming. Girl.

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

It’s like. People can tell if you don’t really like or connect with them. If you aren’t truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you don’t really like that person that much.

Many relationships would be a lot healthier if we romanticized honest, open and direct communication instead of idealizing the idea of a partner who's intuitively in tune with your every need. You don't need someone who can read your mind, you just need someone who's willing to listen when you speak.

jobs for people who cant do or handle anything

"it's just stress" oh thank god, it's just the silent killer that slowly kills you, perfectly harmless, no need to worry

the fascinating thing about being abused is that years later youre gonna be there sitting around going "okay so what now". cause like theres no instruction manual is there

youre gonna be buying groceries and then youre gonna remember you went through all that for literally no good reason and youre gonna go Oh Okay and put paper towels in your bag or whatever

i just want to be held and not be allowed to run away

fucked that you can’t fix other people especially when you really care about them. Oh so im just supposed to be there for you while you suffer. like a useless cunt gargoyle

I love vague labels that make people go "but that's confusing" or "but that could mean anything" Good. Keep guessing lol

"Queer doesn't actually tell me anything" who says I wanted to tell you anything. Who even are you.

Literally what did olivia laing say about loneliness leading to more loneliness. Loneliness being so repulsive that people sense it from you and stay away. Crazy crazy