GHOST.... 2!!!

being anti-amatonormativity in a romance centered world is like watching half the people you know put all their eggs in one basket and then drop the basket and all their eggs break and they’re crying and swearing they’re never gonna do that again and then a month later they have all new eggs in a new basket and they tell you the problem was they didn’t have a strong enough basket or fresh enough eggs and then they drop the fucking basket again.

(this post is about putting all your time, energy, and care into one relationship, about staking all your happiness on a romantic relationship, effectively making the entirety of your joy and stability dependent on one person who could exit your life for any number of reasons no matter how great the relationship seems. it’s about the societal expectation to build your entire social life around one long term relationship, putting all your eggs in that basket, so to speak, instead of tending to larger social network and maintaining a variety of strong connections so that even if one very important relationship comes to an end, you won’t be losing your whole social life in one fell swoop.)

left on read by my bf for the first time ever since meeting him i would truly worry he'd killed himself if not for knowing he's taking a test right now

he was fine for the record

i love being so ambiguously queer that when people ask me what i am i say "i'm just [name]" and even better than this is the fact that i went to college and found a bestie and a boyfriend who both do the exact same thing. we were all made for each other

just woke up from a horrible dream 🛌 where i was on a looney toons esque runabout where my car 🚗 was stolen seven (7️⃣) consecutive times in a row and i had to keep tracking it down 🔎 and asking for it baccck 🙏 and i was crying every time i got my car 🚗 back because i was in italy 🍝 (?) and i thought it was scary 👹 to drive there. do you think my car 🚗 is in the driveway or was i having horrible yet insightful ☝️prophecies… ? 🫣

happy june everybody i hope you get fucked and/or sucked this month

what if we don't wanna be?

So Actually So Far We're Constantly Hurdling Dramatically Between The Two

could you imagine if it happened this pride month