soup&sex

At my big age, I’m still looking for a best friend. Same city, similar age range, similar stage of life, no kids, likes to get out of the house sometimes, understands that sometimes I want to talk on the phone for an hour and sometimes I disappear into my own little world, can be spontaneous without needing a month of planning, and genuinely wants a real friendship. Why is finding a best friend in your 30s starting to feel harder than dating? 😭😂

hello friendly reminder that you do not need a special occasion to use nice things! if you wait long enough your nice bath bomb won't be as fizzy! your favourite fruits will go out of season! candles are meant to be burned, not looked at! you're not enjoying your special tea if it's just sitting in your cupboard! you're allowed to have nice and special things on completely ordinary days! heck, it might just make that day special!!

I feel like I’m too much for people

Continuously reinventing myself until I find the “self” that I am comfortable and assured with.

"Stalking?" God forbid I'm detail-oriented and curious by nature.

it's not a thirst trap that's just how i look.