s[he’s] br[ok]en [because] s[he] be[lie]ve[d]
Men lie and they break a woman. Within the last two years I have ended two relationships because men keep wanting to lie. They’re “happy,” they “love you,” they “want to be with you,” and “can’t see myself without you.” I call bullshit. I’ve called out both of them for saying such things, and then they up and get defensive. Don’t say it if you don’t mean it. Don’t say it just because I did, or to make it seem like you need me. That’s the problem with today’s world: no one means shit they say. I, on the other hand, have always been honest and never ran anyone’s name into the ground.
Honestly, I can’t say the same for people who claimed to have “loved” me.
The first guy I broke up with (April, 2016) said he loved me for years before it ended, but had cheated several times, all the while telling me he loved me, and even getting into a relationship with another woman! When I called him out on it, he said he hadn’t felt it for awhile. Okay, so why didn’t you say something? *Stares blankly* Then, after the breakup, I find out how many girls he’s actually been talking to, for over 2 years of our relationship! He told them I never supported him, that I always talked down to him, and things of that nature. I’m sure me getting a place for us to live, with no help from you, is support. I’m sure those recording sessions at all hours of the day and night that I let you do in our living room is support. I’m sure being there for you when you lost a job, when you left me alone in a city all by myself for months, and being there for you when your damn car was impounded because you refused to pay the bills, is support. Even until the end, I supported you when you left me with no place to live, losing my own home from underneath me. All of my things, the place I made MY HOME, gone. That’s me not being supportive. OKAYYYY.
The second guy knew I had an issue (which I will not put out there right now). He knew about it for 6 weeks before we dated. Fast forward to our THIRD MONTH OF DATING and all the sudden he has a problem with it. We break up, but he keeps coming around and laying down with me, then getting mad at me because of my situation. Okay, it takes two. Don’t blame me because you can’t control yourself. Then we get back together, break up 6 weeks later for the same reason we did prior. One day I read his message, I’m half asleep and forget to reply so I reply when I see I never responded. Because I read it and didn’t want to reply, he tells me it’s my fault that we quit speaking. Because of an unread message, when you do that to me all the time? You also say we are going to hang out, then I drive an hour and a half to spend a half hour with you and then you disappear and leave me all alone. Multiple times. So, I don’t have the right to be mad at that but you do over a stupid read text message? OKAYYYY.
