Lonely Radfem

Porn Performer and Pornographer Confessions (and here)

{More quotes from pornographers can be found here}

To know more about Linda Boreman Marchiano’s story/Linda Lovelace, click here. (gif below)

The Real Linda Lovelace

MORE PORN SURVIVORS:

{Visit AntiPornographyOrg for more details}

JESSIE ROGERS:

VANESSA BELMOND:

DANIELLE WILLIAMS:

JENNI CASE/ “VERONICA LAIN”:

SIERRA SINN:

APRIL GARRIS:

JENNA PRESLEY:

JAN VILLARUBIA:

FORMER PORN PRODUCER FOR PLAYBOY DONNY PAULING:

“Donny Pauling recruited 500 1st time porn actresses. He says most were college students.” - (x)

Want to put a stop to this? Go to STOPPORNCULTURE for Information and Resources!

But still interested in feeding yourself? What if I told you that there’s a woman with a blog who had to feed both herself and her young son…on 10 British pounds ($15/14 Euro) per week?

Let me tell you a thing.

This woman saved my life last year. Actually saved my life. I had a piggy bank full of change and that’s it. Many people in my fandom might remember that dark time as when I had to hock my writing skills in exchange for donations. I cried a lot then. 

This is real talk, people: I marked down exactly what I needed to buy, totaled it, counted out that exact change, and then went to three different stores to buy what I needed so I didn’t have to dump a load of change on just one person. I was already embarrassed, but to feel people staring? Utter shame suffused me. The reasons behind that are another post all together. 

AgirlcalledJack.com is run by a British woman who was on benefits for years. Things got desperate. She had to find a way to feed herself and her son using just the basics that could be found at the supermarket. But the recipes she came up with are amazing. 

You have to consider the differing costs of things between countries, but if you just have three ingredients in your cupboard, this woman will tell you what to do with it. Check what you already have. Chances are you have the basics of a filling meal already. 

Here’s her list of kitchen basics. 

Bake your own bread. It’s easier than you think. Here’s a list of many recipes, each using some variation of just plain flour, yeast, some oil, maybe water or lemon juice. And kneading bread is therapeutic. 

Make your own pasta–gluten free. 

She gets it. She really does. This is the article that started it all. It’s called “Hunger Hurts”.

She has vegan recipes.

A carrot, a can of kidney beans, and some cumin will get you a really filling soup…or throw in some flour for binding and you’ve got yourself a burger. 

Don’t have an oven or the stove isn’t available? She covers that in her Microwave Cooking section. 

She has a book, but many recipes can be found on her blog for free. She prices her recipes down to the cent, and every year she participates in a project called “Living Below the Line” where she has to live on 1 BP per day of food for five days. 

Things improved for me a little, but her website is my go to. I learned how to bake bread (using my crockpot, but that was my own twist), and I have a little cart full of things that saved me back then, just in case I need them again. She gives you the tools to feed yourself, for very little money, and that’s a fabulous feeling. 

Tip: Whenever you have a little extra money, buy a 10 dollar/pound/euro giftcard from your discount grocer. Stash it. That’s your super emergency money. Make sure they don’t charge by the month for lack of use, though.

I don’t care if it sounds like an advertisement–you won’t be buying anything from the site. What I DO care about is your mental, emotional, and physical health–and dammit, food’s right in the center of that. 

The oldest daughter of R Kelly and his ex-wife Andrea is speaking out for the first time since multiple women made accusations of rape and abuse against the accused pedophile on the Lifetime docuseries Surviving R Kelly.

In a lengthy and emotional post that was shared on her Instagram page, 20-year-old Joann Kelly explained why she has remained silent about the allegations being made about her father while showing her support for the singer’s alleged victims.

‘The same monster you all confronting me about is my father. I am well aware of who and what he is. I grew up in that house,’ wrote Joann, who performs under the name Buku Abi.

She then explained her silence by stating: ‘My choice to not speak on him and what he does is for peace of mind. My emotional state. And for MY healing.

‘I had to do and move in a manner that is best for me.’

Joann’s mother Andrea, who participated in the Lifetime series, filed a restraining order against her ex in 2005 following an altercation.

One year later she filed for divorce, and in 2009 the split was finalized, at which point she claims Kelly chose not to be a part of his children’s lives.

actual real life lesbian: hi

This is Phoenix Coldon. 

On Dec. 18, 2011, she drove her 1998 Chevy Blazer out of her family driveway in St. Louis County, Mo., at 3 p.m. Three hours later, the vehicle was found at an intersection 25 minutes away in East St. Louis. The driver’s door was open, the car was empty and the engine was still running.Phoenix was 23 years old. She hasn’t been seen or heard from since.

But her disappearance represents a much larger problem: 

As of today, more than 64,000 black women remain missing across the United States.

Despite representing 12.85% of the population, black Americans accounted for nearly 226,000 — or 34% — of all missing persons reported in 2012. According to the FBI’s National Crime Information Center, the comparison with other racial groups is unfavorable: Whites and Hispanics are a combined 80.1% of the population, but account for 60% of missing persons.

Essence points to a 2010 report titled “Missing Children in National News Coverage,” which found that while black children accounted for 33.2% of missing children that year, the media exposure rate was an unimpressive 19.5%. While black men go missing at statistically higher rates, coverage of black female disappearances is particularly telling in light of the attention similar stories get when white women are involved.

They’re drawing attention to the fact that 235k people went missing from 2010 to present and 135k were black but media coverage was at a waning 19%. There is a disparity in coverage, they aren’t TAKING AWAY from the plight of white and Latino families trying to find love ones, they’re drawing attention to the need for media coverage to help African Americans find loved ones.

Source:

http://blackmattersus.com/1656-64000-missing-women-in-america-all-have-one-important-thing-in-common/

Protesting the high school dress code that banned slacks for girls, Brooklyn c.1940

(source)

“There is a global trafficking in women; as long as women are being bought and sold in a global slave traffic we are not free. 

There is a pornography crisis in the United States. Women in the United States live in a society saturated with sexually brutal, exploitative material that says: rape her, beat her, hurt her, she will like it, it is fun for her. 

We need to put women first. 

Surely the freedom of women must mean more to us than the freedom of pimps. 

We need to do anything that will interrupt the colonizing of the female body. 

We need to refuse to accept the givens. 

We need to ask ourselves what political rights we need as women. 

Do not assume that in the eighteenth century male political thinkers answered that question and do not assume that when your own Charter was rewritten in the twentieth century the question was answered. 

The question has not been answered. 

What laws do we need? 

What would freedom be for us? 

What principles are necessary for our well-being? 

Why are women being sold on street corners and tortured in their homes, in societies that.claim to be based on freedom and justice? 

What actions must be taken? 

What will it cost us and why are we too afraid to pay and are the women who have gotten a little from the women’s movement afraid that resistance or rebellion or even political inquiry will cost them the little they have gotten? 

Why are we still making deals with men one by one instead of collectively demanding what we need? 

I am going to ask you to remember that as long as a woman is being bought and sold anywhere in the world, you are not free, nor are you safe. 

You too have a number; some day your turn will come. 

I’m going to ask you to remember 

the prostituted, 

the homeless, 

the battered, 

the raped, 

the tortured, 

the murdered, 

the raped-then-murdered,

the murdered-then-raped;

and I am going to ask you to remember the photographed, the ones that any or all of the above happened to and it was photographed and now the photographs are for sale in our free countries. 

I want you to think about those 

who have been hurt for the fun, the entertainment, the so-called speech of others; 

those who have been hurt for profit, for the financial benefit of pimps and entrepreneurs.

I want you to remember the perpetrator and I am going to ask you to remember the victims: not just tonight but tomorrow and the next day. 

I want you to find a way to include them - the perpetrators and the victims - in what you do, how you think, how you act, what you care about, what your life means to you.

Now, I know, in this room, some of you are the women I have been talking about. 

I know that. People around you may not. 

I am going to ask you to use every single thing you can remember about what was done to you - 

how it was done, 

where, 

by whom, 

when, 

and, if you know, why - 

to begin to tear male dominance to pieces, to pull it apart, to vandalize it, to destabilize it, to mess it up, to get in its way, to fuck it up. 

I have to ask you to resist, not to comply, to destroy the power men have over women, to refuse to accept it, to abhor it and to do whatever is necessary despite its cost to you to change it.” 

- Andrea Dworkin, Remember; resist; do not comply. 

Gage has won the Oregon Playwrights Award, the Walden Writer’s Fellowship from Lewis and Clark College, the Oregon Institute of Literary Arts Writer’s Grant, and the Oregon Arts Commission Individual Artist Grant. Her short stories, poems, reviews, and political essays have been widely published in journals, anthologies, and women’s publications, both nationally and internationally.