⚠️⚠️TADC EP9 SPOILERS⚠️⚠️
The way people are speaking about Jax and saying she deserved to abstract, that she ruined everything for everyone and that she was "a grown ass man treating people like that" really speaks volumes to how they would treat someone in their life with a mental illness who makes them unlikeable.
What Jax did was not okay, don't get me wrong, but it seems like a pretty normal self-defence mechanism, however awful it is. Pushing Ribbit away was both self-defense and self-harm, she isolated herself from the only person who truly knew her because she wasn't ready to be known. Ribbit did what she could to bridge that gap, and it failed because Jax wasn't ready, I'm not saying she could've/should've done anything different in that regard, but I don't think it's fair to villainize Jax for reacting like she did.
I mean, home girl literally thought she had killed her mother after coming out, I think her fear was pretty valid, even if unreasonable. Jax is a deeply troubled character who needed a support, both inside and outside the circus, that she didn't get Not forget she was also homeless, which I can't imagine did any good to her mental health.
Mentally ill people should be held accountable for their actions, yes. Your mental illness is not an excuse. But they don't deserve to DIE because their mental illness makes them do (or not do) things they regret. They deserve the opportunity to make up for their mistakes. Jax didn't take that chance and chose to repent by leaving the people she hurt to heal without her, and that makes sense narratively, but it irks me to see the way people jump to hate on her character and say she was an awful person (we don't really see her BEFORE this, and she seemed pretty normal with kaufmo and Ribbit) and she deserved to die.
I'm not really sure where I'm going with this, tbh