just so weāre clear, the threshold for ābinge drinking to the extent youāre doing medical damageā is waaaay lower than you think.
I work in an obstetrician and gynaecologistās office. we have to tell patients on a regular basis that they are binge drinking weekly when they think they are simply consuming a normal amount of alcohol on the weekends.
having more than 3 drinks in a single sitting if you have an estrogen based endocrine system is a binge that is medically significant.
having more than 5 in a sitting is a medically significant binge for someone with a testosterone based endocrine system.
every time you do this, it significantly impacts your risk of getting breast cancer, and damages your liver. it takes time to recover from that liver damage. if youāre having a 3-5 or more drink binge on a weekly basis, you are an alcoholic, medically speaking, and your liver is not recovering.
again: the bar for what binge drinking is, medically, is so much lower than what you think it is.
alcohol is a really toxic substance and not something you should fuck around with.
again: if you have an estrogenized hormone system (common for most women), then 3 drinks is a binge. if you have a testosteronized hormone system (common for most men), then 5 drinks is a binge.
anything above that number, consumed as frequently as weekly or more, and youāre medically a binge drinking alcoholic.
also, if youāre drinking any quantity of alcohol 6 days a week or more, thatās another threshold at which, medically speaking, you meet the definition of alcoholism. your liver needs more days without alcohol in your system than just one a week to recover and be healthy.
I donāt say any of this to shame anyoneāto me, alcoholism or substance use disorders arenāt a sign of weakness or moral failing. and most of us genuinely donāt know this stuff.
ratherāI point this out because itās important to reduce harm, and find ways to live healthier, happier lives. there is a life outside of constant binge drinking. itās not always easy to find it. but itās out there. you deserve a life where your emotional needs are met by something other than alcohol, and a life in which your liver is healthy, and the ways you cope and celebrate and find joy donāt put you at increased risk of cancer.