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ok this is entirely crazymaking and Iâm not even enjoying any of the fresh stuff in my tags. good sense and cortisol reduction demand we walk away from tumblr for a hot minute
previous pinned post with my one reasonably good opus of hypnokink. if you need to find it.
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i hate drag i hate drag i hate drag i hate drag i hate drag i hate drag i hate drag i hate drag
it/its are normal lesbian pronouns, everyone knows that
not that it matters or that any of you deserve to know, bc this is my blog and i'm allowed to post whatever words i fuckin' feel like, the "little sister" in question in all of my sisterposting is fuckin'. @sapphireh3arts. a 31 year old woman and my girlfriend, who enthusiastically loves and supports everything I post. Not only that, she's a million times more perverted than i am.
does she get hate for her posts? not really. she gets "hey you have perfect tits and correct opinions". does she get hate for being a sex worker? not often. do you know what she gets?
faux concern about the bruises in pictures in her pinned post from over a year ago. bruises she asked me to give her. bruises that are tame when compared to any of the other thousands of posts on this website.
but because i'm an evil scary tranny, people fake concern about whatever they can to try and paint me as a predator. as an abuser. as whatever they can because they already have the spectre of what i am in their mind.
Catastrophize Benedictine
Suicidal Naan
Dyslexia pesto
weak central coherence taco
Dissociation buffalo wing
Time blindness broccoli beef
spaced-out macaroni is this anything
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I love my job, but reblogging employment jelly for someone else I love.
Light Pollution: The Overuse & Misuse of Artificial Light at Night
The Dark Site Finder map lets you get a good sense of where near you might be good for stargazing.
the autism thing of having to learn to preface every question you ask with Holy Shit I'm Just Curious Please Dont Yell At Me because it turns out a lot of questions seem to Mean Something and people will get mad if you ask them
and usually its just asking Why
its interesting being a weird autistic tranny as a kid and letting yourself get accustomed to the idea that youre just some magically antisocial loser who is "introverted" and is happy being alone and then you grow up and realize that actually you love being social you love hugs you love going out and hate being alone you just hated all of the social opportunities available to you growing up so much you let yourself romanticize solitude as a slightly less miserable state than interacting with people
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ever since I was a little girl I knew I wanted to unionize my workplace
sorta disgusting about how people presenting the idea of transitioning but not in the exact way you wanted as worse than non transitioning at all. its no different than regular fearmongering about transitioning. and its almost always associated with people who treat forcefem like we're actually for real kidnapping and injecting hormones into people and not like. roleplay and fiction.
saw someone today that said "there are people who have committed suicide over being forcefemed" and like. fucking source???????
and even if that was true (which it isn't)...
id rather everyone in the world have access to hormones and easily get the treatment they want even if they regret it later, than for one single trans person to be forced to remain in the closet.
"wahh, i transitioned from female to male but i regret it now. i went through a male puberty and it was incredibly traumatizing"
no shit? how the fuck do you think i feel? i experienced everything you complained about, except it was forced upon me
yknow, this wouldn't be an issue if estrogen and feminizing hormones were readily available and accessible. not only would it stop trans kids from killing themselves, it would allow dumbasses like you to go back to being cis.
but no, you'd rather shoot yourself in the foot if it means killing the person you're stepping on.
The "guy who died from being forcefemmed" thing is probably a reference to David Reimer, a (cis) boy who was "raised as a girl" following a botched circumcision.
He eventually rejected the assignment as female, showing dysphoria much like a trans man. Even after reverting to his desired gender, he continued to be (understandably) troubled, and eventually completed suicide at age 38.
His story established that gender is (at least for some of us) internal, inherent, and unchangeable. Not purely learned.
This shows why trans people like myself NEED transition to live. Living as a man was never really an option for me, just as living as a woman wasn't for Reimer.
Unfortunately, transphobes somehow take exactly the wrong lesson from such episodes.
In case it isnât clear- the circumcision was so botched that John Money, who was a psychologist working in the field of coercive assignment of sex at birth in the context of intersex kids and believed that gender is inherently neutral until socially enforced, was able to convince the parents it would be easier for David to grow up as a visually ânormalâ girl than a boy with a disability. He was in part motivated by the fact that David had an identical twin, Brian, who could serve as a control in his experiment. He made the brothers rehearse sexual performances from a young age in order to reinforce Davidâs âgirlhoodâ. David would find out the truth and make use of the same resources available to trans men - T, double mastectomy, and phalloplasty - to transition away from the neovagina and E that were forced upon him as a kid. Both brothers would eventually commit suicide due to the psychological and sexual trauma of their childhood, and their story being publicized helped intersex advocacy groups fight back against coercive surgery on the next generation of our brethren.
All this to say that gender autonomy is something we all deserve. We have the medical knowledge to undo nearly all the physical changes of transition, resources that intersex adults have utilized the same way David did. If someone transitioned and regrets it, they can transition again. Making surgery & hormones less accessible makes people feel they must go all or nothing, forces them to rush in and then regret that they didnât control the pace of their progress. Cutting us off entirely to lock people in gender closets will cause far more suicides than the small percentage of people who regret transitioning entirely.
sorta disgusting about how people presenting the idea of transitioning but not in the exact way you wanted as worse than non transitioning at all. its no different than regular fearmongering about transitioning. and its almost always associated with people who treat forcefem like we're actually for real kidnapping and injecting hormones into people and not like. roleplay and fiction.
saw someone today that said "there are people who have committed suicide over being forcefemed" and like. fucking source???????
and even if that was true (which it isn't)...
id rather everyone in the world have access to hormones and easily get the treatment they want even if they regret it later, than for one single trans person to be forced to remain in the closet.
"wahh, i transitioned from female to male but i regret it now. i went through a male puberty and it was incredibly traumatizing"
no shit? how the fuck do you think i feel? i experienced everything you complained about, except it was forced upon me
yknow, this wouldn't be an issue if estrogen and feminizing hormones were readily available and accessible. not only would it stop trans kids from killing themselves, it would allow dumbasses like you to go back to being cis.
but no, you'd rather shoot yourself in the foot if it means killing the person you're stepping on.
The "guy who died from being forcefemmed" thing is probably a reference to David Reimer, a (cis) boy who was "raised as a girl" following a botched circumcision.
He eventually rejected the assignment as female, showing dysphoria much like a trans man. Even after reverting to his desired gender, he continued to be (understandably) troubled, and eventually completed suicide at age 38.
His story established that gender is (at least for some of us) internal, inherent, and unchangeable. Not purely learned.
This shows why trans people like myself NEED transition to live. Living as a man was never really an option for me, just as living as a woman wasn't for Reimer.
Unfortunately, transphobes somehow take exactly the wrong lesson from such episodes.
In case it isnât clear- the circumcision was so botched that John Money, who was a psychologist working in the field of coercive assignment of sex at birth in the context of intersex kids and believed that gender is inherently neutral until socially enforced, was able to convince the parents it would be easier for David to grow up as a visually ânormalâ girl than a boy with a disability. He was in part motivated by the fact that David had an identical twin, Brian, who could serve as a control in his experiment. He made the brothers rehearse sexual performances from a young age in order to reinforce Davidâs âgirlhoodâ. David would find out the truth and make use of the same resources available to trans men - T, double mastectomy, and phalloplasty - to transition away from the neovagina and E that were forced upon him as a kid. Both brothers would eventually commit suicide due to the psychological and sexual trauma of their childhood, and their story being publicized helped intersex advocacy groups fight back against coercive surgery on the next generation of our brethren.
All this to say that gender autonomy is something we all deserve. We have the medical knowledge to undo nearly all the physical changes of transition, resources that intersex adults have utilized the same way David did. If someone transitioned and regrets it, they can transition again. Making surgery & hormones less accessible makes people feel they must go all or nothing, forces them to rush in and then regret that they didnât control the pace of their progress. Cutting us off entirely to lock people in gender closets will cause far more suicides than the small percentage of people who regret transitioning entirely.
sorta disgusting about how people presenting the idea of transitioning but not in the exact way you wanted as worse than non transitioning at all. its no different than regular fearmongering about transitioning. and its almost always associated with people who treat forcefem like we're actually for real kidnapping and injecting hormones into people and not like. roleplay and fiction.
saw someone today that said "there are people who have committed suicide over being forcefemed" and like. fucking source???????
and even if that was true (which it isn't)...
id rather everyone in the world have access to hormones and easily get the treatment they want even if they regret it later, than for one single trans person to be forced to remain in the closet.
"wahh, i transitioned from female to male but i regret it now. i went through a male puberty and it was incredibly traumatizing"
no shit? how the fuck do you think i feel? i experienced everything you complained about, except it was forced upon me
yknow, this wouldn't be an issue if estrogen and feminizing hormones were readily available and accessible. not only would it stop trans kids from killing themselves, it would allow dumbasses like you to go back to being cis.
but no, you'd rather shoot yourself in the foot if it means killing the person you're stepping on.
The "guy who died from being forcefemmed" thing is probably a reference to David Reimer, a (cis) boy who was "raised as a girl" following a botched circumcision.
He eventually rejected the assignment as female, showing dysphoria much like a trans man. Even after reverting to his desired gender, he continued to be (understandably) troubled, and eventually completed suicide at age 38.
His story established that gender is (at least for some of us) internal, inherent, and unchangeable. Not purely learned.
This shows why trans people like myself NEED transition to live. Living as a man was never really an option for me, just as living as a woman wasn't for Reimer.
Unfortunately, transphobes somehow take exactly the wrong lesson from such episodes.
In case it isnât clear- the circumcision was so botched that John Money, who was a psychologist working in the field of coercive assignment of sex at birth in the context of intersex kids and believed that gender is inherently neutral until socially enforced, was able to convince the parents it would be easier for David to grow up as a visually ânormalâ girl than a boy with a disability. He was in part motivated by the fact that David had an identical twin, Brian, who could serve as a control in his experiment. He made the brothers rehearse sexual performances from a young age in order to reinforce Davidâs âgirlhoodâ. David would find out the truth and make use of the same resources available to trans men - T, double mastectomy, and phalloplasty - to transition away from the neovagina and E that were forced upon him as a kid. Both brothers would eventually commit suicide due to the psychological and sexual trauma of their childhood, and their story being publicized helped intersex advocacy groups fight back against coercive surgery on the next generation of our brethren.
All this to say that gender autonomy is something we all deserve. We have the medical knowledge to undo nearly all the physical changes of transition, resources that intersex adults have utilized the same way David did. If someone transitioned and regrets it, they can transition again. Making surgery & hormones less accessible makes people feel they must go all or nothing, forces them to rush in and then regret that they didnât control the pace of their progress. Cutting us off entirely to lock people in gender closets will cause far more suicides than the small percentage of people who regret transitioning entirely.
I used to be a kinda ugly antisocial guy⊠being a hot and likable girl⊠is a turn lol
I used to be a neckbeard who was slowly developing incelish thought patterns.
Now Iâm a polyamorous grunge girl lesbianâŠ
Between you and us, thatâs two great examples of I Have a Suggestion (or, more watered down: âEverybody Get More Feminist NOW!!â)
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Itâs not introjection⊠cause my headmate already existed⊠but itâs like sheâs absorbing characteristics of a fictional character?
When any of us do that I begrudgingly (and I know I have work to do on this front) classify it as plain olâ kinning
"đ„Ș" is shorthand for "đđ§đ đ„Źđ"
can you people stop reblogging this my notes look like lunchtime
