Mrs Edge Says

Please and satisfy me.

Do you want to wear that little thing around your little thing for her?

Before we get into some practical, concrete tips and advice, I wanted to take a moment to expand on something that I alluded to at the end of the FLR Info series: 

If you like some aspects of FLR relationships but are unsure how you’d feel about your man if he shows less assertiveness and more servility, just start slow and take it as far as you feel comfortable with. For example, agree to harness the power of orgasm/erection control, but make it clear that you don’t want him to change in other ways (defer to you, do more housework, treat you like a queen etc.). Then see if you want to take things further when you gain more experience.

This is so important. If you and/or your partner find yourself intrigued by the idea of mixing up the power dynamics in your relationship, especially as it relates to sex, you should go ahead and explore it on your own terms. That means:

Don’t get hung up on labels or nomenclature. You’ll come across a dizzying array of terms and labels when reading about this stuff (FLR, femdom, female supremacy, master/slave roles, sissification, feminization etc.), but don’t get confused into thinking that you have to belong to one particular “camp” and do just the activities that are most often associated with them. Pick and choose!

Mix it up. Vary. Alternate. In the real world, people are mulfi-faceted, fickle and ever-changing. Maybe the type of relationship I’ve described in my FLR Info series was the perfect fit for you and your partner for six months, and then it just wasn’t anymore. That’s OK! It really is fine if the woman wants to be totally submissive in the bedroom, while at the same time her husband wears a chastity device 24/7. Or maybe you have two weeks each as the dominant one. There are no rules.

Zero is a perfectly fine number. Perhaps zero is the number of times you plan on making your husband please you orally. Or the number of toys, tools and implements that you use in your relationship. It could also be the number of times you have articulated any demands or rules to your husband, even though you have enjoyed daily massages and orgasms for years, without returning the favors. Good for you.

It’s OK to take a break. Or just end things. When you read about these things, you’ll notice that there’s almost never any mention of sick children, losing one’s job, having a shitty boss, moving across the country, renovating a house, commuting several hours every day or any of the other million things that drain us of energy as we go about our lives. For most of us, there are times when the main goal is just getting through the day - nevermind caring about who does what in the bedroom. That’s also perfectly fine. Take a break, indefinitely if you need to, then revisit if/when you feel like it.

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On this, the first day of spring, I thought I would give some warm weather inspiration because

Summer Is Coming