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He is familiar with my occasional chaos in my mind, when insecurity hits, when I have doubts if I am doing my part right or if I being mean.

He always knows to say the right words, calm me down and boost my confidence.

In one of our check ins, while I was in a peak of confidence and self worth, I asked him to come up with ideas to help me through this phase other than his kind words, in exchange for an unscheduled release

When dearest is horny and desperate to cum he always comes up with brilliant ideas and so he did that time.

He brought two small boxes.

The first was a box for his chastity key, that locks randomly between 1 and 7 days, that even I can't open it.

So when I get this uncertainty feeling, I will lock his keys, so it will be completely out of my hands, so I won't be "the bad one".

In the second box, he asked to write 10 outcomes for when I finally get my keys back, to randomly choose from.

Two when I felt insecure.

Three when he annoyed me and I was in the mood of punishing him.

And five when I felt at the peak of my confidence and entitlement.

I must give it to him, he was persistent and he tried everything, but I was a tough cookie, conservative, prude in my upbringing, reluctant to open up to kink.

What he was offering was strange to say the least, but he was dripping information so gradually , casting the light so brightly on the benefits of the whole idea, that once I asked him about the keys I accidentally found in his briefcase, clueless about their actual use, I wasn't completely shocked when he offered to show me.

He told me that he needed them for a couple of minutes and he will show me, I told him that he gets two minutes and that I want them back before he shows me.

By the time he showed me and I got my initial shock, dearest was locked and I held the keys....it took us six more months until I assumed full control, but that's history now,

Once I gained enough confidence, assertiveness and self worth, there was a specific day, We both remember and made as an anniversary, that I said the above statement.

I made sure to make the talk when my dearest husband was unlocked but still desperate to cum

I told him that this is the day he needs to decide, either we accept a WLM and I take full control of his cock, or we go back to pure vanilla life.

That both are fine, but as a final decision.

That I have decided what I prefer, hence I bought him a new, fancy secure cage as a token of my love for him, but it is his decision now.

We both agree they are important for a better understanding and for enhancing evolvment.

I added the idea, of the check ins serving as a prolog for the evening.

If dearest behavior was all and all satisfactory and above we head up to a loving intimate date night.

It was also because of the fact I was rejoicing myself, being genuinely happy, pampered and empowered by my loving husband.

At the same time, I was exploring my confidence, growing my self worth and expanding my assertiveness.

Soon, I ended that game phase, taking the reins, evolving our marriage to the WLM and cock control phase, replacing the master of the material with a strict loving mistress.

My darling husband basic state is horny, it was true before WLM anx cock control was introduced into our marriage and it's tenfold truer now, whenI relentlessly tease him and control his releases.

As for myself, horniness used to be compartmentalized to the times sex and intimacy were aparent, I would have never out of the blue send him a sexual remark or mem in the middle of the day.....things changed though, I can readily find myself spaced out thinking about I would make my dearest do to me weather service oriented or sexual, or things I might do to my darling desperate to cum husband, pushing his limits or boundaries.....

He is also a pliable man

Dearest defied me, I used it, he was sorry, it wasn't enough, after a while, he was very sorry....I forgave him.

It proved very useful, so is the humble.