Introduction & Return.
This bio written 2025-05-08, and last edited on the same day.
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Basics:
In kink spaces, (both online, and IRL), I go by Eric. It's not my real name, EricHave is a pun on èirichidh, a Scots Gaelic word meaning 'Rise Up!'. It was a political username, before a kink one, and while I don't talk much about politics on this account, I stick with the name, because I like it.
Pronouns: He/Him/His
DMs are open to anyone, but ask permission before turning the chat NSFW.
Mental Health:
I used to have a problem oversharing on various parts of the web, which I like to think I'm mostly past now. Here's what I'm both comfortable having on a bio, and feel is appropriate to it:
I'm autistic (diagnosed with Asperger's at 6.5), and went to a special school for autistic kids.
I have a history of anxiety, and depression. This intersects with, but is not caused by my neurodivergency. I am medicated for both, and have been for a long time.
I have ADHD, for which I was not diagnosed until well into my twenties. I am currently also medicated for that, and it's helping a lot, not only with my focus, but with my anxiety, which was completely unexpected, but certainly welcome.
I started therapy in January of 2024, and Jesus Christ has that helped. I had to go private-sector to find a decent therapist, but that's another story.
Currently unemployed due to disability, and on PIP. Took for-fucking-ever to get them to believe me, and a couple of people in the scene actually helped with that.
Kink Stuff
I have had one IRL sub before, and several online ones. The IRL relationship was short-lived.
I am not currently active in the scene, and haven't been for a while. I went to events relgiously for about a year from late 2021-2022, and have attended them sporadically since then. I stopped going regularly for mental health reasons, and have tried to return to that level of activity again several times since then. ATM it's not my biggest priority in life, but it's still an eventual goal.
My IRL experience with most stuff is severely limited, to the point that I'd still regard myself as a beginner to things llike shibari, and impact play, despite some experience with both.
For a long time, I thought I was purely a Dom, but I had a very interesting experience, and discovered that I'm a switch. I'm still dom-leaning, but am interested in exploring my submissive side at the moment.
I write erotica sometimes, and feel it makes for a pretty good creative outlet. I end up hating most of what I write, though.
Hobbies/Interests:
I love linguistics/foreign languages. If I have an autistic special-interest, then it's this. I read etymological dictionaries for fun, and have several conlangs I'll never finish. I'm monolingual, because I can't seem to focus on one language enough to actually learn the fucking thing, but the ones I come back to the most are German, and Latin.
I like Maths. I'm legitimately currently trying to teach myself Linear Algebra, for fun.
I love Sci-Fi, and fantasy. When it comes to the former, I tend to prefer either Philosophical/Political stuff (my favourite being Dune), or magnificently over-researched Hard Sci-Fi (If you're a fan of Rendevouz with Rama, then DM me immediately). When it comes to the latter, my favourite is the ASoIaF series. My second-favourite author in both genres is Ursula K. Le Guin, which probably makes her my favourite Speculative-Fiction overall.
I am extremely Left-Wing. As in, 'if I elaborate on this in public I'll end up on a watchlist' level Left-Wing.
On the off chance this needs to be said explicitly, yes that means I'm pro-Independence, pro-LGBT, pro-Immigration, pro-Trade-Unions, pro-PoC, pro-feminism, etc.
I try to live according to these positions. Sometimes I fuck up. I apologise in advance, and promise to fix it anytime I do, provided that I know how to go about doing so.
I have two pet cats. I love them, and will send you pictures of both if requested.
My favourite genre of music is 90s Hip-Hop. I'm a backpacking prick.
On this Blog:
I used to be somewhat active on the kinky side of Tumblr, then I accidentally ran into CSAM on this site in January of 2020, and logged out planning to never log back in. It's been over five years, and I've been repeatedly reassured by multiple people I trust that that sort of thing doesn't really happen here anymore, so I'm back. I hopefully will not regret this decision.
Upon rereading some of my old posts, I found that in my late teens/early 20s (for context, I am currently 27), a lot of shit I wrote was weird, cringe, creepy, or just expressed views I no longer hold. I have no scrolled through every post I made, and reblog where I added my own commentary, from the earliest post on the blog to the present, and added post-return edits between square brackets. If there are any pre-sabbatical posts left without such an edit, then this is an oversight on my part, and please feel free to inform me of it. Please note that I have not applied the same level of scrutiny to examples of situations where I simply reblogged something without adding my own commentary on it.
My main goals with this blog are:
Writing erotica and sharing it.
Finding cool stuff and reblogging it.
Also, this probably goes without saying, but: 18+, Minors DNI.



















