not to be all "normalize this" but we need to start just responding to shit, even things that are said in good faith, with "why are you using incel terminology"

what the FUCK is going on right now. what is going on

this post is so funny because it has over 10k notes and no context but all you have to do is look at the time stamp to know exactly what the context is

public transport princess

stoicism won’t save you. pick up a hobby where you make something with your hands

*this meeting could have been an email voice* this cgi could have been a puppet

headache? not in the mood to partake in any of your hobbies because of the headache? consider simply staring at the Make Headache Worse rectangle!

we need to hang on to things that mark the passage of time or we will collectively go crazy i'm not even joking

we need to buy seasonal vegetables for our table we need to decorate for our chosen holidays we need to engage with a weekly show we need to have semi-regular meal times we need to write down friends' birthdays and have movie night and attend fairs we need to change the flowers on our balcony with plants that can survive the cold and get soil under our fingernails we need to be able to plan and wait and anticipate and find comfort and joy in things leaving but returning we need RITUALS to survive

cis women will never be the primary group effected by “women’s spaces” rhetoric but the fact that cis women often get harassed in “women’s spaces” if they are butch / otherwise gender nonconforming or not wearing makeup or fat or Girl With Short Hair or just straight up Black kinda proves “women’s only spaces” straight up do not work as a method of shielding women of patriarchal violence on any level 💀