Some people on this site are like hella sensitive and donāt understand sarcasm š¤¦āāļø
It was so obvious too.
OOOOOOO MY BLOOD IS BOILING
Iām only reblogging this to add my defense because the generic post makes me sound like an asshole.
First of all. I donāt go checking every blog (that comes up in followed tags) that I reblog something from. Thatās a lot of time wasted. And I especially am not checking every blog for who their comfort characters are and how not to offend them.
How the fuck was I supposed to know that your generic meme post about two characters (that actually only named one of them) was mostly about the unnamed one? How was I supposed to know that my tags ā(comfort character name), who? I donāt even know them. (other character) is the only oneā was going to ālegit offendā you? Thatās such a common, not offensive, internet joke that is riddled with sarcasm and usually means the exact opposite of how it literally reads. Itās funny. And calling me annoying for putting that in the tags is obtuse. And you need to get over yourself a little bit here. Also saying my tags are ārudeā and offensive, is like mind boggling to me. How? How were they offensive? How is that slang/joke offensive? How is it rude?? Why? Cause I said I didnāt know the character and the other one is the best? Cause again thatās not offensive?!?? Like? What?
Did I delete the tags to prevent a bigger confrontation with you? Yes I did.
Did I apologize so as not to ruin your day further and to prevent you from hating me? Also yes.
Now do I know you and what youāre going through in your life right now and how I couldāve offended you? No I donāt, hence my being nice. I couldāve responded, defending myself if I wanted to, because I have every right to. But I wasnāt going to, because I donāt know your situation. I donāt need that stress. And you, based on your initial reaction, wouldāve been an absolute pain in my ass about it. Am I still fucking pissed because of your overreaction? Abso-fucking-lutley. This is why I donāt go on twitter for this fandom.
Ngl, this character wouldāve also probably laughed at my tags. But go off I guess.
God I sound like an asshole but seriously, I did nothing wrong and some people are so quick to get angry and attack others because they misinterpreted written words.
Oh yeah and then you deleted our replies having this conversation on your post⦠fine whatever. Probably for the best but still. You removed the evidence of your ridiculous reaction, and my very nice response. Get fucked.
I think I realized why this whole thing made me so mad last night. The way this person responded to me made me feel unwelcome in the community. If my tags were really that offensive to them, there are much nicer ways to express that and ask for change. I know not everyone on the internet is going to be nice and accept criticism but being that harsh right off the bat is incredibly off putting.
This particular community has been my solace for the past two years, and Iām relatively new to it still but god do I just want to close myself off and never post again about it now. I feel like Iāve been kicked out of my own blanket fort.
I made a FUCKING SIDEBLOG to better participate in this community and I feel like Iāve been shunned and told to never come back. Why am I even taking it this hard? Like I just donāt get it.
Was it that offensive? Did I really do something wrong? Iām so lost.
Iām just tired of people in this fandom being so blatantly mad at others for existing in it too.
It just wouldnāt have been hard to ask me to delete my tags nicely. Instead I was called rude, and annoying, and essentially publicly shamed for participating in a way that I thought was funny.
Iām just tired.














