From Hell, With Love

taemin, opening his concerts: i am the crop top jesus 🫦🔥 witness my fancy descent onto earth while a sinful guitar solo plays. once i am down there, kinky things will happen, but i repent with a chaste piano ballad right after. my fans get cartoon eyes when i flex these cross-bedazzled pecs 💅🏼 my sweat is just holy water running down this wicked waist. my favorite topics are guilt and heaven

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Since BTS' announcement, I can't stop thinking of some Western artists, more or less famous and influencial, still craving that Grammy and even writing their album with a Grammy in mind. I will not name names, cause I don't want to start any war here, but I am sure we all thought of at least one artist right now.

If they don't win, they treat it as a personal failure or as if the album wasn't good enough even if fans loved it. Some artists allegedly secured nomination or a win due to favoritism or personal connections.

And here comes BTS, openly rejecting Grammy and announcing they don't need it. Acknowledging that fans' love and support is far more important and it's something they have an abundance of.

You can have a long lasting career with a fanbase as strong and devoted as ARMYs and without Grammy, but can you have a long lasting career with a Grammy collecting dust on your fireplace in living room, but without a strong fanbase? Not really.

I don't want to make it sound like wanting to win an award for your work is morally wrong or materialistic, cause that's not true. Heck, bts themselves won shitton of awards and they are definitely few that they treasure dearly. That subject goes beyond music industry. We all would feel great if we got an award for something we accomplished.

But it's about the mindset you have while doing what you do.

Are you creating because it's your passion, because you love it, because it makes you happy, because you have a fanbase that loves what you do and you want to share it with them and make them happy, or are you creating because at the end of a line there's a possible physical award for it? Given by some faceless individuals who don't know anything about you?

And if they don't give it to you, then is your creation less valuable, less relevant, less impactful, important, less good even if the fanbase was amazed and grateful and even if it was a financial success too, from a stricly business and capitalistic side of things?

But on a real note, funny how he opens the statement by saying he’s “saddened” and that he “understands and respects” BTS’s decision, but everything that follows undermines that and tries to make it sound like BTS are wrong for doing it.

And if he genuinely believed the category wasn’t trying to box artists, he wouldn’t feel the need to write a whole damn essay defending it. The entire statement comes across as insecure and contradictory, insisting the new category isn’t divisive, yet feels compelled to repeatedly explain why it isn’t.

If the reasoning were that solid, it wouldn’t need this much damage control, and this definitely proves BTS are RIGHT for refusing to participate.

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This decision really says a great deal about the kind of artists BTS have become. More than anything, it shows that they’re driven by the art itself rather than by the pursuit of recognition. I’ve said this before, and I think it’s important to acknowledge that, when they first set out to become artists, it probably wasn’t solely because they loved making music. Like anyone pursuing a career in entertainment, they most likely wanted financial security, success, recognition, and all the opportunities that come with achieving that level of fame.

The difference is that they’ve now reached a point where they already have those things. They’ve built a career that very few artists in history could ever hope to achieve. They’ve sold millions of albums, broken records across the globe, filled stadiums on multiple continents, and become one of the most recognisable musical acts in the world. At this stage, they’re no longer chasing validation. They’re continuing because they genuinely love creating music, because they still have stories they want to tell, and because they have a deep sense of responsibility and appreciation for the fans who have supported them throughout their journey.

That’s why this decision carries so much weight. The fact that BTS chose to take this stance while they’re arguably at the absolute peak of their influence makes it all the more meaningful. Their participation in an event like the Grammys is valuable. Whether people like it or not, BTS generate enormous public interest. Their attendance brings media coverage, online engagement, viewers, and ratings, something the Recording Academy has benefited from on several occasions, just as many other award shows have benefited from BTS’s presence over the years.

By effectively saying, “You’re not going to separate us simply because you’re afraid of us,” they’ve made a remarkably strong statement. Of course, that’s an interpretation rather than something they explicitly said, but it’s difficult not to see the symbolism behind their decision. The Grammys recently introduced a category specifically recognising Asian artists rather than allowing those artists to compete solely within the existing general categories. If I’m not mistaken, the category isn’t limited to K pop artists but includes Asian artists more broadly.

This isn’t an entirely new conversation either. Similar debates emerged when separate categories for Latin artists were introduced. Those changes were praised by some but criticised by others, who argued that they created a form of segregation rather than genuine inclusion. More recently, after Bad Bunny dominated at last year’s Grammys, there was renewed discussion about the Academy’s apparent reluctance to fully embrace artists who don’t come from the English speaking world or who don’t primarily perform in English. For years, people have questioned whether international artists are truly given equal consideration in the main categories or whether they are subtly encouraged to remain in separate spaces.

BTS have spent the better part of a decade challenging those assumptions. They have consistently broken barriers that many people insisted couldn’t be broken. They’ve demonstrated, over and over again, that artists singing predominantly in Korean can compete directly with the biggest Western acts and, in many cases, outperform them commercially, culturally, and globally. They’ve disproved the long held belief that English is a requirement for worldwide success. That isn’t simply an achievement for BTS. It’s something that fundamentally challenged long established ideas within the music industry, and I don’t think everyone has been entirely comfortable with that reality.

I also think another factor is that the Western music industry has never truly been able to control BTS or the company behind them. Despite HYBE expanding internationally and acquiring American labels over the years, BTS themselves have remained remarkably independent compared with many global artists. They’ve never fully fit into the traditional Western industry system, nor have they relied on it in the way many international acts historically have. That independence has always made them something of an outlier, and I don’t think the industry particularly enjoys dealing with artists it can’t easily influence or shape.

Another thing the industry has never really been able to control is BTS’s fanbase. Just as importantly, it has never been able to recreate anything quite like ARMY. Of course, every fandom has its flaws, and I’ve criticised aspects of ARMY many times on this blog. No fandom is perfect. However, if you look at it purely from the perspective of the music industry, what BTS have built is extraordinary. It’s one of the most organised, passionate, dedicated, and influential fan communities ever seen. That’s the sort of relationship every entertainment company wishes it could create, yet very few have managed to replicate. That connection between BTS and ARMY has been one of the defining reasons they’ve reached the position they occupy today.

Because of everything they’ve achieved, BTS are now in the rare position of being able to make decisions like this without fearing the consequences in the same way other artists might. They don’t need to prove their legitimacy anymore. They don’t need a Grammy to validate their career.

That’s particularly striking when you consider the album they’re walking away with. Arirang is, in my opinion, objectively one of the strongest albums they’ve ever released. It’s the sort of record that could very realistically have received multiple Grammy nominations and perhaps even won several categories. And I’m not referring only to the music itself. The album’s artistic direction, its visual identity, the cinematography of the music videos, the production quality, the storytelling, and the overall creative vision all make it feel like a complete artistic project rather than simply a collection of songs.

What’s even more remarkable is that Arirang hasn’t only been embraced by BTS fans. It’s also been widely praised by critics, casual listeners, and the general public. It has been recognised far beyond the boundaries of the fandom. That’s why this decision feels so significant. I don’t quite know which word best captures it. “Risky” doesn’t seem entirely accurate because BTS are in such a secure position. At the same time, “brave” almost feels too simplistic. It sits somewhere between confidence, conviction, and principle. Whatever word eventually fits, it’s a decision that carries genuine weight.

To me, it once again demonstrates the scale of BTS’s influence and the confidence they have in both their artistry and the audience they’ve built over the years. More importantly, it reflects a great deal of self respect. It also reflects respect for their fans, because they’re making it clear that the values they believe in matter more than simply adding another trophy to an already historic career.

By essentially saying, “Don’t divide us. Music is music, and it shouldn’t be separated by language or geography,” they’ve also reopened a much broader conversation. I hope this decision encourages people to once again question whether the Grammys have long standing xenophobic tendencies in the way they approach international artists. More broadly, I hope it prompts discussion about whether the Western music industry as a whole still operates with similar biases, even if those biases aren’t always explicit.

It’s going to be fascinating to watch what happens next. I’m especially curious to see how other K pop groups respond because, whether people like to admit it or not, BTS have spent years setting the tone for much of the industry. If other groups continue submitting their work to the Grammys, and many of them almost certainly will, with some likely receiving nominations and perhaps even winning awards, it will be interesting to see how those decisions are viewed alongside the very clear position BTS have now taken.

After all, we’re talking about the biggest and most successful Korean group the music industry has ever seen. When a group of that stature makes a statement like this, people pay attention.

And do you know what makes this decision even more remarkable?

In all likelihood, and I’m saying this as objectively as I possibly can, the introduction of this new Grammy category probably represented BTS’s clearest opportunity yet to finally win a Grammy.

I don’t say that because I’m trying to diminish other artists or because I think BTS are entitled to the award. I say it because, considering the impact of Arirang, its critical reception, its commercial success, and the influence BTS continue to have worldwide, they would almost certainly have entered that category as one of the strongest contenders.

I’m also fairly certain they understood that. Their management almost certainly understood it too.

And despite recognising that this may well have been their most realistic path towards finally receiving a Grammy, they still chose to step away.

To me, that’s what makes this decision resonate even more deeply. They willingly turned away from what was probably their best chance of achieving the one accolade people have spent years insisting they still “needed” in order to complete their legacy. In doing so, they sent a message that was far more valuable than the trophy itself.

The members each posted the following statement:

“We have decided not to submit to the Grammys this year. Music as music itself, rather than being distinguished by region or language. I hope you can be heard and loved. Thank you to ARMY and everyone who is always with us.”

Grammys clearly doesn’t want another Bad Bunny situation, where non-English albums win over the status quo nominees, so they announced that they are creating new separate Latin and Asian categories immediately after. This was controversial because it feels like they established a consolation prize category while they save less competition for the “real” categories for English-speaking artists.

Would Bad Bunny have won Album of the Year of Year if the separate Best Latin Artist category existed? Everyone who listened to DTMF knows it fully deserved the accolades, but would the Grammys have awarded it if they had siloed the album instead into that segregated Latin category?

(I’m not delusional, I don’t think BTS would have been in contention to win Album of the Year lol, but a nomination was absolutely in the realm of possibility. Just giving context and the scenario about why these categories were created and why they’re controversial.)

The irony of the Best Asian Artist category is that BTS don’t qualify for this category with their Arirang album as it doesn’t meet the requirement to be 80% non-English lyrics lol. After the breakthroughs into Western media the past decade or so, it’s been increasingly common for Kpop acts to release English-language singles to appeal to international fans - but these same acts would thus be excluded from this category for doing so. BTS and BlackPink (more specifically the ladies as soloists) would be the most competitive artists in this category and neither of them would qualify. Are artists from Asia not Asian enough for this category? It’s a whole additional controversy when trying to figure out who is this even for.

REST IN PEACE, SAM NEILL (1947-2026)