I'm starting to think...

Andrew, internally:

Andrew: no

Neil: hey a-

Neil: Andrew would you...?

Andrew: No

Neil: Ok i respect that

Andrew still a bit surprised that there is somebody respecting his boundaries: ....

Andrew: would you -

Neil, not even looking up: sure

I’m so sorry to have to do this but I’m currently unable to eat, so if anyone would be able to spare any money then I would be able to actually survive until my next student finance payment (which is the end of april).

I wouldn’t be asking this if it wasn’t urgent but I have a packet of stir fry sauce in my cupboards and that is literally the only food I have since I’ve been living off Farley’s Rusks and leftovers from a few friends.

My PayPal is [email protected] and literally any money that anyone can give would help, even if I’m just living off of instant noodles for the next month.

I’m just gonna tag random people, obviously there’s no obligation but of you could reblog that would be a life saver.

Self love tea: I’m needing a pick me up tonight so I made my self some special tea. And I’m going to relax in the tub with my new book on crystals, light a candle for Brigid and just steam for a while. Here’s what I put in my tea:

Rose petals for self love and beauty

Lavender for anti stress

Camomile for relaxation and good sleep

Sage for protection and purification and to help combat the night sweats I’ve had as of late

Mint to settle my stressed out tummy

Honey for sweetness, physicaly and metaphorically

if you looked down literally two centimeters in google search you would have seen the beginning of this page

and of this page

Not because it feels insulting, but because it define me depending on what I am not instead of what I am.

Cis does not mean “not trans”, it means “who identify with it’s gender of birth”.

Goy means “not jew”

Secondly, lots of groups have words for people who aren’t of their ethnicity? Gadje, Haole, Pākehā, Padakoot, Gaijin, etc. It’s pretty common for groups of small people, especially in a tribal sense, to differentiate from themselves and the greater world—especially when they’re a vulnerable population, which brings me to my last point…

harry goes to the kitchen for breakfast and is forced to eat harry potter shaped waffles.

the duvets get replaced with harry potter ones.

harry potter quotes are hung up all over the house.

the tapestry on the wall now has harry’s face on it.

“wtf  is this bobblehead of me doing in the loo- ALBUS SEVERUS POTTER!!!!!!”

all three of his children wear round glasses around the house.

albus creates a harry potter day, where he dresses up as harry and speaks only in harry potter quotes.

“al, where are you going?”

“to diagon alley.— harry potter”

“al, do you want more meatloaf?”

“no. — harry potter”

“NOT ONE MORE QUOTE, OR I’LL PERSONALLY KICK YOU OUT OF THIS HOUSE!”

“okay.”

“…”

“-harry potter”

“MERLIN’S PA —”

*family meeting* “anything with my face on it is banned from this house.”