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I DON’T KNOW WHAT I WANT!!!!!!!!! I WANT IT ALL AND NONE OF IT!!!

we all got that one losing dog we love to bet on

TRIP REPORT. Dosage: .25L hot chocolate, 15g marshmallows. t-5m: began heating water, feeling anticipation. t2m: extremely cozy throughout whole body.

when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

even my commitment to love and loving behavior isn’t driven by moralism but by belief that love and loving treatment has an effect on people that transforms them into freer and more interesting versions of themselves.

Rly enamored with that post that's like (paraphrased bc i can't find it) "this is a natural self-evident biological hierarchy. that's why we have to enforce it with violence" bc it's so succinct and so broadly applicable. Look at anything we take as natural, or inevitable, or a necessary evil, or regrettable but there's no other option - is there not? What happens when you try to make another option? What violence is necessary to foreclose all other paths? Who benefits from naturalizing this hierarchy, this essentialism, this economic system, this electoral system, these national borders, etc? How many things do you think are impossible (be it transgressions of sex and gender or be it socialism, anarchism, etc) because they're always demonized and punished and strangled in the cradle? "Natural" is a word that raises my hackles. How much work goes into maintaining "the way things are" (and always have been, and have to be)? How much violence has been enforced on your imagination, to keep you thinking that no other worlds are possible?