The Moody Fish

Ugh, I have the Lilith square Asc placement. I think we're usually bullied as children because we're seemingly confident (even if that isn't the case). In the birth chart, she represents power-- astrologers compare her to Plutonian energy because they both represent the shadows, secrets + hidden demons.

Lilith attracts a lot of attention to the areas/houses we have it in or emphasizes the traits of planets it closely aspects. Since it's aspecting the ASC/1H of self and identity, some people will project their insecurities and therefore bully the Lilith person.

The Lilith person with harmonious aspects like the Sextile/Trine may enjoy the attention a lot more than the Lilith with a Square/Opposition.

During highschool (to even now) I was unreasonably gossiped about or objectified and slut shamed by both men and women. The (internalized) misogyny Lilith gets from others personally bothers me, but I find other Liliths express it with empowerment and I admire that.

The amount of stupid shit on Tiktok that gets classified as ‘spiritual’ or ‘physic’ or ‘this is for #babywitches’ makes me wanna cry. There is so much fucking misinformation and straight up bullshit on there, and people who are honestly trying to learn how to read tarot cards or how to translate their birth charts or how to perform real witchcraft can’t tell the difference because the are actual baby witches. I can almost guaranty that not a single Tiktok on how to use spells or god forbid curses, goes into an in depth explanation about how to protect yourself and your space while you practice this type of magic. Not to mention that I’ve seen a ton of white Tiktokers using and encouraging the use of Voodoo and other closed practices, crystals (which can be very unsustainable because of the poor conditions in which the are mined and the way the countries they come from treat workers) and smudging (also a closed practice as far as I am aware. Anyone who does practice this or Voodoo, feel free to fact check me :)). Don’t even get me started on shifting. Just don’t. I feel like this kind of ‘witchcraft’ totally disrespects content creators and real witches. That’s my personal opinion, and I am not trying to be some kind of gate keeper or anything; to be this just ties into another random rant I posted about doing celebrity/idol soulmate and natal chart readings. To me, that kind of information can be a really powerful form of self discovery and I don’t think that anyone has the right to twist astrology or tarot readings into an excuse for weirdly obsessive behaviour. Idk, maybe this is an overreaction, I just feel sad that these kind of Tiktoks are some peoples’ only way of seeing tarot, magic, astrology etc.

Hello my charming readers! I was thinking about making some post of the rulers of the houses in the houses since many of you are asking about them, I hope that you enjoy this!🧡🐣🧡

Ruler of the 7th in the 1st house:

💘Individuals with this need their partner to be similar to them in some way, and they tend to attract and be attracted to people who act like them.

💘They have a natural diplomacy and are able to say the right thing at the right time. 

💘These people are very romantic and detailed with their partner. Their partner plays / will play a very important role in their lives.

💘They are people who usually care a lot about what others think of them, they also have a natural aura that makes them attractive and wonderful in the eyes of other people.

💘They are very likely to increase the confidence of their partners. 

💘Their marriage is meant to be passionate, dynamic, funny and full of self discoverement.

💘These native are very likely to like people that knows how to take the lead of the relationship.

💘Tendency to like or attract people that has been through a lot of difficult situations.

💘They tend to evaluate and describe themselves based on what others say about them, other people’s opinion may matter to them a lot.

💘In their synastry or composite Mars can be heavily aspected or their Mars may be aspecting each other.

💘They can be attracted to Aries/1st house placements.

💘May meet their future spouse in a place that they frequent a lot. 

💘The other is likely to be the one that takes the first step.

💘Independant, bossy and sassy people are their type.

💘The future spouse is very likely to be physically strong.

💘They can have a lot of support from partners or other people in general (especially if the planet involved is well aspected). 

Ruler of the 7th in the 2nd house

💝This placement promises a stable, constant and long lasting marriage.

💝They may spend a lot of money in the wedding, it would be really luxurious.

💝These individuals are sensuous, coquettish and romantic, they enjoy wearing stylish and elegant clothes. If they like make up, they may be incredible at it.

💝Their future spouse will be very giving and may pamper them a lot with gifts.Also, their future spouse may adore hugging them from behind and any physical touch in general. 

💝Quality time and giving and receiving gifts are their love languages.

💝They take the idea of marriage seriously and may be too demanding in the eyes of other people.

💝In their synastry or composite Venus can be heavily aspected or their Venuses may be aspecting each other.

💝 Hardworking, attractive, detailed and romantic people are their type. Voice is also a major attractive quality for them.

💝The future spouse is very likely to have a lot of money, and will take the role of the provider in the relationship.

💝The family of their special person can play a huge role in the live of the 

💝These natives are jealous and kinda possessive with their partners, and also they tend to attract jealous partners.

💝Individuals with this may receive a lot of economical support from friends, coworkers and of course the future spouse.

💝They can be really private at first and quite distrustful when interacting with others. However, the bonds that they make with others are enduring.

💝Natives with this may be attracted to Taurus/2nd house placements.

💝They may meet their future spouse in a bank, while working or while walking on a park.

Ruler of the 7th in the 3rd

🧡These people are really sociable and they can fit perfectly with many different types of people. Sense of brotherhood with friends and coworkers.

🧡They are either very close with their sibling por very distant with them.

🧡 These people feel attracted to people that think the same way than them, intellectual connection is a plus.

🧡They are better holding conversations in one-to-one instead of talking with multiple people at the same time.

🧡These natives get annoyed when their partners interrupt them while talking.

🧡 May have many short trips with their future spouse.

🧡Intelligent, witty, talkative, creative and expressive people are their types.

🧡These natives are very likely to marry multiple times if the ruler is afflicted por bad aspected.

🧡 May be attracted to Gemini/3rd house placements.

🧡 May meet their future spouse thanks to a sibling, cousin or neighbor.

🧡In their synastry or composite Mercury can be heavily aspected or their Mercuries may be aspecting each other.

🧡Individuals with this are going to adore spending the whole day with their future spouse and they are both likely to be inseparable.

🧡You can be perceived as a social butterfly or someone that easily connects with people.

🧡 Also I have noticed that people with these tend to be the types that strangers go and talk to randomly. They are the type to smile at a stranger and the stranger smile back at them.

🧡They like that the people with whom they interact have their own opinions and, deep down, they may like to argue with their partners (especially if the ruler is Mars).

Ruler of the 7th in the 4th

💗These natives are really caring, protective and constant in their relationships of any kind, they take it very seriously and do their best to keep their relationships as wonderful as the first day. However, these people can have a hard time trusting others and may be introverted.

💗Their future spouse is very likely to have a strong bond with their family and may get along easily with the native’s family. Their spouse is likely to be more family oriented than career oriented.

💗May be attracted to people that are maternal, caring, protective and tender with them.

💗Their spouse is very likely to be from their natal country. And they may marry in their origin country/city.

💗In their synastry or composite Moons can be heavily aspected or their Moons may be aspecting each other.

💗People with this may be attracted to Cancer/4th house placements.

💗The spouse is likely to baby them and emotionally pamper them a lot. Is also very likely that they get clingy with their partner.

💗If the Ruler is afflicted it may indicate that the native needs the approvement of their parents or their family in general regarding to their partners.

💗 They may prefer marrying their partner after knowing their partner for a long time.

💗Their future spouse is very likely to be guided by their heart, to be private and reserved with their lives.

💗It is very common to see that people with this placement seek a partner that fills the emotional voids that they could feel in their childhood.

💗 If the Ruler is Jupiter, Moon, Mercury or Mars they may meet their future spouse after moving from home.

💗These natives are likely to be more restless or anxious/nervous than their future spouse. Their spouses are likely to be more grounded and stable.

💗I have noticed that they love staring at their partners for a long period of time.

Ruler of the 7th in the 5th

💖They tend to be really coquettish, loving and romantic in their relationships. They can marry someone not only because they love them, but because they can bring their playful and funny side out with them.

💖This placement promises the native a beautiful, warm, loving and lucky marriage.

💖They tend to show off their partners a lot and of course, these natives need to be shown off by their partners too in order to feel loved. 

💖In their synastry or composite Sun can be heavily aspected or their Suns may be aspecting each other.

💖Having the same interest and hobbies with other people (and of course their partners) is a huge plus to these people. 

💖Their future spouse is very likely to be confident, charming, funny and playful. They can practice a sport por work out constantly.

💖They are into creative, expressive, noble and generous partners. They hate being in a relationship with someone that has a difficult time expressing their feelings.

💖 Sense of humor, beautiful smiles and dazzling hair are some things that these people find attractive in others.

💖They are show offs when they are in front of the person they like, they can become the most sassy, talented and confident if their special one is close.

💖The future spouse is very likely to be perceived younger than they really are. And also, they are likely to give the first step.

💖In order to feel attracted to someone, they need to feel admiration towards them first, they have to make sure that they can be proud of the person.

💖These people are well recognized and may find it easy to have the respect of many people. Some could even be intimidated by them. Another point that is important to mention is how big is their sex appeal.

💖May be attracted to Leo placements/traits or 5th house placements.

💖They play hard to get, and may adore the idea of teasing their partner, deep down, they are in love with love.

Ruler of the 7th in the 6th

💚This placement promises you stability, support, devotion, wellbeing and improvement.

💚People with this placement are likely to be envied by coworkers. However, they can be really admired because of how hardworking they are.

💚Their future spouse is likely to make the proposal after some time and after planning it in detail. If the Ruler is Venus por if the Ruler is aspecting Venus is very likely to be something really romantic.

💚You may meet your future spouse at the gym, at work por when you start taking care of your wellbeing. 

💚They may be attracted by Virgo/6th house placements/traits.

💚You both will be willing to sacrifice whatever in order to help the other, here it’s really visible a devoted, caring and special bond.

💚Hardworking, empathic, stable, interesting, smart and secretive persons are usually their type.

💚Your future spouse is very likely to love spending time with you, talking about whatever subject no matter how “complicated” it can be. And besides having a loyal spouse, you can be completely sure that they will be also your stable company.

💚In their synastry or composite Mercury can be heavily aspected or their Mercuries may be aspecting each other.

💚They are incredible at listening you and they would love the fact of you two being confidents, partners, friends and every word that is synonym of union.

💚Very likely to start a business, a project or making reality a goal that you had after marrying.

💚This makes the person someone that is okay with working in team, they can easily respect others point of view and they are really professional in it.

Ruler of the 7th in the 7th 

💞The native’s marriage is very likely to be long lasting and wonderful (especially if the planet is well aspected).

💞Hopeless romantic: The native may have many relationships in the course of their lives. They are quite attractive people to others and it is very likely that they are very flirtatious.

💞Their spouse can be really calm, diplomatic, charming and have Libra traits.

💞Teamwork can benefit them greatly, and it is very likely that they will receive a lot of help from a large number of people, not just couples, but also partners and co-workers.

💞No matter how independent the native is, once they are in a relationship, their partner will be everything to them. 

💞They tend to charm other people easily, this placement makes them very likely to be recognized, loved and admired by many. They tend to get along with people easily.

💞They have to be very cautious and keep their feet on the ground, as there is a risk of becoming dependent on their partner or attracting dependent people into their life.

💞May meet their future spouse in a party, most likely a wedding. 

💞Also, they could meet their future spouse thanks to a coworker.

💞In their synastry or composite Venus can be heavily aspected or their Venuses may be aspecting each other.

💞May be attracted to Libra placements or 7th house placements.

💞They are the type of person that is always talking about their partners.

💞If the Ruler is the Sun, Mars, Pluto, Jupiter or maybe Uranus you can feel more attracted to people that make the first step or dominant people.

💞If the Rules is Moon, Venus, Mercury or Neptune you are more attracted to sweet, sensible people and you may like to take the lead in the relationship.

💞You can see these natives always in a relationship and/or interesting future spouse readings (lmao).

Ruler of the 7th in the 8th 

🖤These natives are magnetic, appealing, and reserved with their private life. Others may feel drawn to them because of their enigmatic and mysterious aura. 

🖤They may have trust issues and may find it hard to work with others. They can sense the energy, vibes and true intentions of others. 

🖤Their future spouse is likely to be jealous and the natives can be jealous with them too.

🖤Their marriage will change them and their partners life a lot. This often indicates being a powerful, loyal and deeply connected couple.

🖤Their partners may get obsessed with them a lot and many can consider them memorable and irreplaceable

🖤These native can have intense relationships over the course of their life, chances are good that their relationships have been filled with jealousy, intensity, and a lot of transformation for them.

🖤Their future spouse will be passionate, strong, secretive, someone they can rely on and really devoted to the relationship.

🖤You can meet your future spouse after going through a huge inner change, after the death of someone or after having an intense experience.

🖤You may be attracted to Scorpio placements/traits or people with 8th house placements.

🖤They are very likely to have few relationships, however, the ones they have are really intense and passionate.

🖤The ones that I have known personally tend to fall for people that have been through a lot and that has not so much luck in love.

🖤Your future spouse may help you accepting your darker side and also being/feeling comfortable with it.

🖤Your partner is very likely to have a lot of money, and your wealth (obviously) may increase after marrying this person.

🖤Natives with this may have many karmic relationships (remember, they aren’t all bad)

Ruler of the 7th in the 9th 

💓These people tend to have a lot of support from people who are mostly older than them. They tend to please many for their friendly, outgoing and fair attitude.

💓You may travel a lot with your future spouse and may have either wedding or honeymoon in a place that you both don’t know/haven’t visit.

💓 Their future spouse can be older than them, yet maintaining a jovial and youthful appearance.

💓You may marry a foreigner, someone with difference of beliefs, someone from another city than you or someone that likes to travel a lot.

💓Your future spouse is very likely to be like a teacher to you. You may learn a lot from him and they may love having long and deep talks with you.

💓You may be attracted to Sagittarius placements/traits or people with 9th house placements.

💓These natives tend to be attracted to foreigner, smiley, outgoing and intelligent people. Sense of humor can be really important to them.

💓This placement is really favorable if you want to work in something related to public relationship or just interacting with people of other cultures. They can see you as someone friendly with whom they want to talk constantly.

💓You may meet your future spouse while traveling, in college, on an airport or when renewing the necessary documents to travel.

💓Optimistic, philosophical, deep and interesting people attract the attention of them.

💓Individuals have a natural charm and ability to being seem positively by all kind of people regardless of the differences they may have.

💓You may feel luckier and fulfilled after getting married.

💓They have to take care since there is a tendency to marry hastily or suddenly.

Ruler of the 7th in the 10th 

🤎They are very perfectionist people in their relationships, and it is very likely that they have an ideal type, on many occasions they look for someone who meets those expectations.

🤎Your future husband can be a very powerful person, both socially and economically.

🤎You may meet your future spouse after having a promotion, after getting a job, in your work, or after having stability in many fields of your life.

🤎The future spouse is very likely to be older than you.

🤎They can be people who are highly admired and respected by many. Your job will involve a bit of public relations, diplomacy will help them succeed.

🤎They may not have many relationships, but the ones they do have will last.

🤎You may be attracted to Capricorn placements/traits or people with 10th house placements.

🤎Their spouse is very likely to advice them in things related to their career, since they have a lot of experience.

🤎You may be attracted to people who are hard-working, professional, independent and who impose a certain authority. Competent, ambitious and reputable people.

🤎Your future spouse may teach you many things in live, you are definitely going to admire them. There is a sense of responsability and protection in this connection.

🤎You are very likely to have a long lasting, wonderful and loyal marriage with someone that is going to their best to make you feel like nothing lacks you.

🤎Many people agree that it is difficult to know them in depth, since they only show their professional side and what they want to show.

Ruler of the 7th in the 11th 

💙People often describe these individuals as nice and friendly people but a bit weird as well.

💙They tend to captivate others by their way of thinking and acting. They should be careful as although they may attract many admirers, many may want to copy them.

💙These natives may make friendships with coworkers and may have business or projects with friends.

💙Your spouse and you are going to feel that you have finally found someone that gets the other perfectly, and you will feel free to show your real selves.

💙 What interests them most in a couple is a friendship that is given and received.

💙If the Ruler is bad aspected it can lead to marrying multiple times.

💙You may be attracted to Aquarius placements/traits or people with 11th house placements.

💙You can meet your future spouse through the internet, through a friend or acquaintance or in a place full of people.

💙Independent, unique, innovative, creative and eccentric people often catch your eye.

💙It is very likely that their friends fell in love with them or the natives could even like some friends romantically.

💙Marriage will be something that will change their lives completely and it is very likely that it will not become routine over time.

💙Your future spouse can be a very particular, liberal, friendly, cunning and altruistic person. They will always be ready to help people.

💙It is very likely that after you get married you will experience things that you have never tried before. Your future spouse will help you make many of your dreams come true.

Ruler of the 7th in the 12th

💕They are people that others hardly get to know. It is very likely that many have very different opinions of this person.

💕This placement tells us about a very beautiful marriage, where there will be a lot of devotion, affection and support. Both people will accept the other as they are and will encourage them to fulfill their dreams.

💕You may be attracted to Pisces placements/traits or people with 12th house placements.

💕They are often attracted to artistic, sensitive, empathetic, mysterious, and compassionate people.

💕These natives have to learn to follow their intuition as they can attract many “friends” who may want to betray them or take advantage of them in some way.

💕Their future spouse will be someone very in touch with their emotions with a tendency to hide a lot who they really are. Chances are they’ve been through a lot when it comes to love.

💕You can meet your future spouse in a place that has water, maybe in the beach, near a fountain, while travelling overseas.

💕These people would prefer to work alone and can be somewhat introverted.

💕They are very romantic people and they love in a truly beautiful way, they are usually idealists and their love is difficult to forget due to how sweet they are.

💕Your future spouse will feel that you are their muse, there will be a lot of mutual inspiration and romanticism and happy little details are likely to abound.

💕There is a desire (either on the native or in their spouse) to “fix” or “to save” the other. There can be an intense devotion in the relationship and they can both get lost in the other.

💕They are very private people with their romantic life and, unless they are very much in love, they will constantly talk about their partner.

💕The future spouse will be a very sensitive, helpful, dreamy, protective and very expressive person.

So I’m tired of people only posting about the negatives OR positives of placements and aspects. The fact is there are two sides to EVERYTHING that especially includes 8th house/ plutonic/Scorpionic stuff and 12th house/ neptunian/ piscien stuff. This goes for natal/ synastry and composite. With everything you have to take into count your energy and the other persons energy, EVEN TRANSITS! You have to take into consideration how developed the person/ people are. That’s it.

For example; personally my best relationships are/ have been heavy with 12th house placements and energy. And there was never a “disappointing revelation” that happened or has happened thus far and I’m talking about my relationships with my best friends and my siblings. So over decade long relationships. Sure we’ve had our tough times but who doesn’t? But these have been the most joyful relationships ever. On a personal note my 12th house is empty on my end soooo make your own conclusions about that as you will I’m just saying from experience.

Another short example is from personal experience with the 8th house. I’m plutonic mkay? My own Pluto sits in my 8th house and conjuncts my sun so guess what other peoples Pluto does? Sits in my 8th house. And conjuncts my sun. Everyone from my generation who I interact with transforms me in some way and I’ve always worked to develop my plutonic energy so I always end up transforming them and let me tell you it’s never in a negative way (at least for them) because I’m the type of person to want people to do better. Always. So I’m not gonna try to manipulate you for your downfall mkay? Just not me.

Just something I wanted to get off my chest and I can go into detail and talk about my own experiences with placements and aspects natally/ synastry/ and/or composite wise if anyone is interested in that.

I’ve been into astrology heavily since 7th grade so I got a lot of content in my head lol

moon square/opposition neptune people often cry when they’re drunk and become very emotionally vulnerable, there’s a heightened sensitivity to their own problems and experiences when they’re under the influence

moon square/opposition uranus change their mind about things a lot, that’s why people may often see them as flaky. they just accept doing something when they feel like it and some time passes and they cancel cuz first, the way they feel changed, second, there’s an unconscious need to rebel against commitments - they don’t like the idea that they have “conformed” to some plan, odd as it is. these people dislike planning and it’s best for them to be spontaneous in their endeavors. btw there can be huge overcompensating for this “flakiness” in the area of life ruled by the house of their moon - f.e. if they have moon in the sixth house, they may try really hard to be super consistent at work and to get overly exploited there because they spread themselves thin to compensate for how erratic they’re feeling.

a lot of musicians known for their more alternative vision and presence have scorpio rising - grimes, lana del rey, prince, marina. they just possess a specific type of magnetism, also with aquarius in the 4th house scorpio risings often feel like there’s an unique vision for something at their core and it makes them who they are, it’s the foundation of everything they do, and it shows in their work, there’s a pull to express it to society - leo in the 10th house.

many virgo sun/moon/risings adore lana del rey and really recognize themselves in her music. it’s like she has this femme fatale thing going on, but at the same the whole I’m baby vibe. and this resonates a lot with virgos who like being in control (which is a main theme of femme fatales) but at the same time wish someone was competent enough to see them as they are - innocent, tender, in need of nurturing and babying.

moon in aquarius people are amazing friends, truly great. they’re super thoughtful and supportive and loyal, like they may be a bit detached at times and also like to roast others, but when you need help and support, they will be there for you. also a lot of them enjoy shows like Friends or Adventure Time that are centered around a group of friends and their life. and they like to make gifts such as a photo album with pics of their friends with some inside joke that connects them and so on, something that brings their squad together and shows how special is what they have.

pisces suns have two types of aesthetic, I’ve noticed: a pink & pastel anime-ish one that’s super cutesy and looks straight out of Puella Magi Madoca Magica, or an earthy one - beige, rusty, brown, dark green but like not the edgy one, long skirts or wide loose pants, natural fabrics, a lot of hanging and loose shapes in general.

much has been said about capricorns and their power of concentration, but I’d like to point out leos can develop a super strong focus as well. the thing with them is that they have a lot of creative bursting energy that needs to be expressed in some way and this can make them scattered, but once they learn how to channel it consistently, they can be really concentrated on their field of choice and to work persistently on it, achieving excellence.

i don’t know a single aries rising that has no curly hair. never seen one. actually i knew a girl with straight hair but she was straightening it lol. aries rules the head so i guess when it’s your rising it makes for like…boisterous hair if that makes any sense.

if you’ve been told a lot that you use really strong words, like say “hate” and “love” for trivial things, you probably have mercury conjunct/square/opposition jupiter and you need to chill about it. or other people need to learn you guys are just being EXPRESSIVE.

the most noticeable difference between the negative (earth and water) and the positive (air and fire) venus signs for me is that the first really see love as a state of total reception, they connect it more to a passive state in which you can fully grasp and empathize with the other. and the second see love more as a pull towards the object of desire, an inspiration for movement. it’s like earth & water venus is the being towards which the fire & air venus gravitate.

scorpios can be really conservative, they have this innate desire to be loyal to something long-lasting and crave stability that they can trust, that’s why they might be very keen on “protecting traditions and the old ways” and stuff like that. i may have ranted about this already.

listen to a musician with the same mercury sign as you. you’ll feel so deeply understood it’s uncanny. (i mean probably not by everyone and by every song of theirs but yeah, there’s a big change you’re gonna find some that really resonate)

something weird i’ve noticed is that when i recommend a book or series or movie to a leo, they always pay attention and even write it down somewhere so they can check it out. and then they give me feedback on it even if some time has passed and it’s clear that they were really attentive to it - as if from respect for my recommendation or smth. it’s quite nice. and when i recommend smth to their opposite sign aquarius, it seems that they never really get around to checking it out. it’s like they’re scattered or smth, or maybe they just don’t have this thing where they connect emotionally to someone by exploring the art they enjoy. but i gotta say it has felt hurtful quite a few times when i’ve really wanted to share smth i love with an aquarius and they’re like super detached and never seem to have the time for it. (before any emotionally immature person comes after me, i’m gonna write a disclaimer here: I DON’T THINK PEOPLE OWE ME TO CONSUME THE MEDIA I SEND THEM, RELAX lol.)

there seem to be two types of aquarius sun/rising as physical appearance. i think it really shows that aquarius is ruled by two planets, uranus and saturn. and the uranian aquariuses have like round/diamond shaped faces, smaller faces and noses, and they seem kind of like flat and smooth, mm a celebrity example of that would be shakira. the saturnine aquariuses have narrow oblong faces, longer noses, bigger eyelids…an example for that is paris hilton. and you’d see that uranus is the stronger planet in the charts of the uranian aquariuses and vice versa with saturn (f.e. saturn is more aspected, aspecting the asc, strongly placed, etc.)

people with mars/aries in the 3rd house often come off too strong when they’re talking, they don’t beat around the bush to the point of being rude and then they wonder why people won’t listen to them or often react defensively.  bruh it’s a person you’re talking to, not a bull you gotta grab by the horns!! i have aries in the 3rd btw (: 

folks with 12th house stelliums involving personal planets like long distance relationships. they find it easier to reveal themselves there - not cuz they are necessarily hiding something on purpose, but cuz they’re often not in touch with important parts of their psyche and that type of communication help them connect to them

i’ve probably ranted about this already, but you’re more affected by the phase of the moon under which you were born - some people say they don’t feel any effects from the full moon for example, but actually they get kind of moody and emotional whenever the moon is in waning gibbous phase which is the phase in which the moon was when they were born. people born on a new moon often feel this is a very magical time for them while for me, per se, it’s not much of an influence. i was born on a full moon (well a tad bit after it) and that’s exactly when i’m HIT SO HARD by it.

all people with pisces in the big three need to pay extra attention that they don’t become super extreme (be it extremely emotional and sensitive or the opposite, extremely insensitive towards other people’s feelings and totally self-absorbed). they’re especially prone to falling victims of black & white thinking as a defense mechanism against the pain that the subtleties of the world cause them. it can be easier to paint people as totally evil and angels on earth than to look into the complexities of their existence.

virgo moons are super mysterious and have a lot of trust/intimacy issues but in a…chill way? like they’re very reserved about it and while it’s kind of obvious in, say, capricorn and scorpio moons and they often look edgy or emotionally unavailable, virgo moons manage to appear caring and soft YET somehow unavailable at the same time. how?? it’s really hard for me to get this placement

kinda random but i’m annoyed that we call the opposite signs “sister signs”. like who came up with this? why are they sisters? they’re…opposites. sisters are not opposites. IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE OKAY

the biggest deal breaker in synastry imo is harsh mercury contacts (square/quincunx/opposition/sometimes conjunction). ofc if there are supportive aspects and a lot of self-awareness in the relationship, it can be worked through, but it’s still really damn difficult. which makes it even more frustrating how mercury is sooo overlooked and underrated when it comes to synastry. this is YOUR COMMUNICATION for christ’s sake, if you guys can’t talk about what’s happening and understand each other you’re doomed.

anyway that’s the end. here are some links to more astro observations i’ve written:

And yes to Mercury squares in synastry! I had it with a person and…it was a struggle. Even more, because I have Gemini 7th house, Gemini Juno, Mercury in the 5th house so communication is important to me. It was like he didn’t want to say more than what is necessary and he also had Chiron in the 3rd and I noticed these are such shy communicators. Or I don’t know maybe such passive. It felt like I was interviewing him. 🙈

I like Mars in the 3rd people, yet they still tend to dominate conversation. So you need up feeling like they only talk about what they want to talk about with you. 😅

[Tweet by bo @chelicerage: the way that so many people have become incapacitated by immeasurable grief and depression and pain over the past year and it has been watered down to "burnout and how to avoid it so you can do better work!" makes me want to start smashing things]

We're going to see this A LOT as people get vaccinated, as businesses start opening up. "Sure, last year was hard, but it's over. We all got a long rest and now it's time to bounce back and pull together and get stuff done!"

...no.

We did not have a "rest."

We had a global trauma.

Which is NOT OVER.

Don't expect yourself or anyone else to be unchanged. Don't expect "back to normal." (In case you forgot: "normal" before was hellish and we all wanted it to change. We don't want to go back, but even if we did, that normal is gone.)

Be kind to people who seem lost, who can't finish projects, who keep forgetting to call back, who panic over deadlines, who talk endlessly about trivial worries, who can't focus, who are either louder or quieter than they used to be.

We are all walking wounded.

You may need to pressure people - to insist, "I really need this done today," to demand payment or a refund or another copy of whatever. You may need to tell people to do their job, pay their bill, get out of your driveway, or whatever.

But you don't need to be cruel about it. You don't need to insist that the person in front of you "snap out of it" or that, since you didn't cause their problems, they should pretend to be "okay."

7th House in astrology is known as a house of relationships. Mostly, it is focused with our romantic partnerships and people we tend to be attracted to but 7th House provides as with knowledge not only related to our future spouses. It is important to remember that 7th also represents our “open” enemies (opposite to the 12th house which is about those “hidden”).  7th House shows you relationships of all kinds. The negative ones too. Aries descendant - your enemies are loud but daring. They may be people who are considered some kind of authority in the community. They will make you their scapegoat and will blame you for everything that goes wrong in their lives. Immature and agressive, always ready to attack whether with words or fists. They hate to lose so they will do EVERYTHING what it takes to not let it happen. Their downfall is their impulsivity. Taurus descendant - your enemies are hedonistic but patient. They tend to put too much emphasis on material things, especially money. They will question your values. Lazy. Never admit if they are wrong because according to them they never are. They do not know how to really change themselves so they will try to convince you that there is no need for it. Their downfall is their stubborness.  Gemini descendant - your enemies are nervous but smart. They will always twists your words. They will try to make you angry and make you look like a madman. Shallow. They will question your knowledge and education. They can also make fun of you ideas and the way you talk. They spend too much time focusing on other people lives. Their downfall is their inner restlessness. Cancer descendant - your enemies are childish but intuitive. They will see the change in your behaviour and try to find out what caused it. They will hide it behind “concerned” facade. They will pretend that they care so you could feel you can trust them but it is all just to feed their own emotional needs. Their downfall is their selfishness.  Leo descendant - your enemies are prideful but bright. They know how to shine. They know how to make people like them. They are too stubborn to admit that they might do something wrong. They will always try to make you look like you are less than them. Less entertaining, less generous, less needed… It all will be projection of their own deep rooted insecurities. Their downfall is their need for validation.  Virgo descendant - your enemies are anxious but cautious. They know how to hold an image of a “good girl/boy”. They are great and planning and will make sure everything will turn out their way. Deep down they are messy and unhappy but they do not know how to ask for help because they take pride in being self-sufficent. Their downfall is their own self- righteousness.  Libra descendant - your enemies are indirect but charming. They are popular and very likeable. They are smart and they have no problem in ruining someone’s reputation. They always need a group of adoration beside them so they would not feel lonely because they have no idea how to face themselves alone. They cannot live without your attention. They may try to befriend your friends. They always talk about peace but at the same time loves to create drama and play a judge. Their downfall is their ignorance of oneself. Scorpio descendant - your enemies are moody but magnetic. They can be very sexy and make people fall for their mysterious aura. They will accuse you of being shallow and materialistic. They will will observe you and wait for a right moment to strike. It is, because they always think you are out there to get them. Ruthless and easily angered, they will feel relieved if something bad happen to you. Deeply down they know they are cruel but are too scared to stop because they do not want other to see their vulnerable side. Their downfall is their own paranoia. Sagittarius descendant - your enemies are preachy but confident. Friendly and optimistic, they easily make people like them. They are insensitive and have no problem in calling you out in front of everyone. They always think that their ideas are the best and that they hold the key to some higher kind of knowledge. Blunt and loud, they are most likely to tell you right in your face that they hate you. They will make fun of your beliefs and education, making you feel like an idiot. Their downfall is their arrogance. 

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lillith - ascendant

< 🖤Tends to get very sexualized even from a young age (common manifestation) & a common manifestation is that they were bullied for their unique nature (would depend on the orb)

Tends to be very physically attractive and this attracts a lot of jealousy especially from feminine energies who could try to bring the native down and tone down their nature there is also a manifestation of family members (or loved ones) critiquing their nature and how they “present” themselves

> 🖤 There is something unique and magnetic about them, it can be a literal feature, usually something stands out about these natives.

They tend to be very blunt and assertive! They know what they want and this can intimidate people. Women may attract men romantically who wanna “tone” them down a bit because they tend to be very sexually appealing to the eye of course this can go in general but it’s a very common manifestation for women with lilith - ascendant

Surprisingly they tend to be very insecure at younger ages until they realize their worth and that other people’s opinions do not matter, it’s common for them to be very anxious about their appearance to the world because there is a tendency to attract jealousy very often

>🖤 People tend to rant and say tabbo / unconventional things to these natives. They seem that they could “relate”. They tend to attract “weird” people.

Some manifestations could result into the native “sexualizing” theirselves often because they think that is all their worth, though it couldn’t be farther from the truth these natives tend to be very unique and have a lot of layers.

> 🖤 There could have been situations where they were granted the ability to use their charm and assertive nature to get out of situations that they could’ve gotten themselves into or not.

They can be “targeted” in a way. Authorities / Teachers anything could’ve seen them differently than everyone else, perhaps they got in trouble for things they didn’t do because it simply seems like they “did it”. Usually a lot of people tend to accuse these natives of stuff they didn’t do. Of course this is just a manifestation and it does not guarantee such things.

They tend to be very loyal to the people they love HOWEVER underdeveloped energies have the tendencies to be a bit malicious at times and could self sabotage. A lot however give loyalty to the wrong people, natives tend to be backstabbed / betrayed often (manifestation)

>🖤 Depending on how tight the orb is they could literally embody Lilith’s physical traits.

>🖤 As mentioned before they could seduce anyone if they were to try to. Women with this aspect could have a lot of men being obsessed with their physical appearance, they can use it a weapon.

>🖤 These natives when developed are one of the most loyal and honest people. A lot have trust issues or are seen as “difficult to open up” by others.

>🖤 These people are a lot more unpredictable than given credit before it can give off an Uranus energy of some sort. They do whatever they want and don’t like routine too much. A lot of people tend to obsess and question them a lot, there is no answer it’s their raw nature.

>They tend to be very creative in how they express themselves this could either shock / pull / repell / intrigue people.

>🖤 They could attract Scorpion or more Plutonian relationships / situations / people. (depending on orb) Conjuct and opposition could feel this more & are affected by it the most.

>🖤 Tends to obsess over anyone that sees them truthfully and somehow breaks their first layer, they have a lot of layers.

Tend to be vengeful in a way they do not care to wish “good” on someone they see as horrible or has caused harm on anything good or them. They don’t do second chances unless anything else in the chart indicates much warmer approach.

🖤> May encounter a lot of situations with people that have tried to make a sexual move on them, they could have some friends with benefits.

Can give off a “bitch” vibe thoughh they truly admire soft and pure intentioned people and actually hate people who can be vengeful as them, meaning they need good influence in their lives constantly. They hate deception in any way that’s a way to get these natives to loose respect and it’s over.

🖤> People tend to have very mixed / different opinions about them. They have a mixed reputation along with some lies around their reputation. They usually will have people having opinionated and fixed opinions on them. This could take a harsh toll on the native wondering what they did, and why they represent themselves a “certain way”. They tend to love their uniqueness and nature later on.

Truthfully this is an aspect that has its darker side since we are talking about Lilith but it can be very beneficial as it grants native with the gift of creativity and honest and sexually / physically attractive nature.

𝐼 𝑖𝑛𝑐𝑙𝑢𝑑𝑒𝑑 𝑎 𝑐𝑜𝑢𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑚𝑦 𝑜𝑤𝑛 𝐴𝑠𝑝𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑠/𝑝𝑙𝑎𝑐𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑠 𝑜𝑛 ℎ𝑒𝑟𝑒…𝑠𝑜 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑠𝑜𝑚𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑚, 𝑛𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑛'𝑡. 𝐵𝑒 𝑞𝑢𝑖𝑒𝑡. 𝐴𝑙𝑠𝑜 𝑖𝑓 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑏𝑜𝑑𝑦 𝐼 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑖𝑟𝑙 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑑𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝐼’𝑚 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑅𝑈𝑁 𝑎𝑐𝑟𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑎𝑛 𝑜𝑐𝑒𝑎𝑛,𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑖𝑛 𝑎 𝑟𝑒𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑒 𝑐𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑖𝑛 𝐸𝑢𝑟𝑜𝑝𝑒, 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑐ℎ𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑛𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑀𝑢𝑟𝑡𝑢𝑠.

MASSIVE CONTENT WARNING. 

𝐼𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑘𝑛𝑜𝑤 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 “𝑛𝑠𝑓𝑤” 𝑚𝑒𝑎𝑛𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑛 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑 𝑢𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑖𝑠 𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑢𝑡, 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑦 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑟 𝑓𝑜𝑙𝑙𝑜𝑤𝑒𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑏𝑜𝑑𝑦 𝑤ℎ𝑜’𝑠 𝑢𝑛𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑡𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑠𝑜𝑟𝑡 𝑜𝑓 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔, 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝐺𝑜𝑑 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑐𝑙𝑖𝑐𝑘 𝑎𝑤𝑎𝑦 𝑓𝑟𝑜𝑚 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑠

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🍑Moon in the 8th or Moon conjunct/trine/sextile Mars radiates sub energy- IM SORRY. 

🍑I said this on an old post but I’ll say it again: Saturn-Mars aspects can go one of two ways. Everyone I meet with some is either Asexual/has a low sex drive, or is into bondage.

🍑I feel like an air sign over the 8th would either give someone super breathy moans or somebody who pants a lot as opposed to moaning

🍑Women with Lilith in the 7th or women with Lilith conjunct/square/opposite Venus Aspects…first off, they’re incredibly hot, but uh- big femdom energy not even gonna lie.

🍑Mars in 6th/Virgo in the 8th tend to either like the idea of being degraded or degrading somebody. The ones I’ve met also tend to get a kick out of the whole Master/Mistress-Slave dynamic as well. 

🍑Venus Square Uranus or Mars Square Uranus TEND to be pretty vanilla or don’t like to ~e x p a n d   t h e i r   h o r i z o n s~ very much. At the very least, they tend to like to do the same thing over and over. Not one to want to change things up. 

🍑HOWEVER- Uranus conjunct Mars, Aquarius Mars, and Uranus in the 7th/8th are VERY MUCH experimentalists. They’ll try most things at least once. 

🍑Leo Mars (and occasionally other fire Mars people) are all sO LOUD (especially if they have Mars-Mercury aspects) you could be 200 miles away from one but the minute one gets horny you will hear “nAaaaAAAaiaiaaiAH~😫😫” at MAXIMUM VOLUME.

🍑Every Cancer dominant woman I’ve met is either a bratty sub or will tease the shit out of you if she’s dom 💀 so do what you will with that information

🍑Jupiter in the 5th/8th CAN point to having a lot of sex, but it can also point to ~finishing~ really easily, but also being able to go a lot of rounds.

🍑OPPOSITE SITUATION FOR SATURN IN THE 5TH/8TH. Might not have a lot of sex, but will probably be able to go about 1-3 REALLY LONG rounds before wiping out.

🍑I feel like everyone with Libra Mars/Eros is either completely repulsed by anal or thinks it’s awesome, and I can’t figure out why—- but yeah.

🍑Everyone says Cancer Mars/Mars in the 4th has breeding kinks, but I personally think that might be more Leo Mars/Mars in the 5th, since the Cancer/4th house rules family, while Leo/5th house rules children/fertility.

🍑Taurus/Capricorn Mars people always need to bring up their choking kinks at the weirdest times I can’t- like I truly don’t care if you’re into that,,,but they’ll bring it up while you’re searching for a baseball in the forest behind your house…like okay? I can’t do that to you right now give me a second

🍑Ceres in the 1st,4th,7th,10th, or conjunct/trine/sextile Juno/Venus are probably THE BEST with aftercare,,,there is zero doubt in my mind

🍑Pluto in the 8th, Pluto-Mars/Venus aspects (ESPECIALLY OPPOSITE OR SQUARE) definitely could make somebody “aggressive”, if you catch my drift. Could also make somebody a biiiiiiiiiiit of a sadist, but you didn’t hear that from me. 

(Keep in mind these are my own personal observations. Depending on the signs, what houses they’re in, their degrees, etc. this may not be your experience.)

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- Water Moon/Fire Mars people play innocent as a way to try to seduce. The type to wiggle on your lap a little bit or put their hand somewhere on you and play the whole “what did I do?” while batting their eyelashes.

- Venus/Uranus aspects or heavy Capricorn placements in natal chart can show someone who is attracted to people much older or younger. Some might have a mommy/daddy kink.

- Venus/Jupiter aspects in synastry, especially the softer ones, can give intense “I’m going to take care of you.” energy.

- Virgo risings are FREAKS. That’s all imma say.

- Pluto aspects synastry can show a BDSM relationship. However, in order for this to be healthy, both individuals need to be used to Pluto energy. Otherwise things can get dark.

- Scorpio Mars... what’s with y’all and physically ripping people’s clothes off????

- I’ve found Mercury/Mars aspects in natal show a love for oral. In synastry, this can show a lot of oral in the bedroom especially if the orbs are close.

- A lot of people I know with Mercury in their 8H or Mars in 3H love dirty texts and dirty talk.

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It's been a long time coming! So happy for spring being finally here! Here's the long ass observation post you guys asked for. Since it's quite a big amount of observations, I've decided it'd be a good idea to number them so that it's easier to reference them. As always, enjoy them!

🌸 1. Lilith in the 2nd house can indicate something fishy going on with the relationship between the native’s parents.

🌱 2. Malefic placements such as pluto, chiron, Saturn or Lilith in the 12th indicates a lot of skeletons in the closet when it comes to family and family history

🌸 3. Chiron in Aries/1st house or Leo/5th house is kind of bitch placement. The person basically feels like they can’t be themselves and there’s a lot of self-denial and/or not accepting themselves, how they really are, what they really want, etc. Lots of self-esteem issues

🌱 4. People with sexual placements in the 2nd house (Mars, Venus, Lilith, Eros, ruler of the 8th house) base their self-worth on how sexually attractive they are. If they don't feel sexually desirable to everyone, they feel like they're shit

🌸 5. Lilith is what people think Pluto/Scorpio is!!!! All that stuff about magnetic, sexual and intoxicating but dangerous? Lilith.

🌱 6. Scorpio/Pluto in 4th could mean that the person had to work hard to survive something growing up. It could be poverty, their parents’ expectations, an early trauma, etc. Whatever the situation is, the native felt like they grew up in a high-stress environment where they had to endure and survive

🌸 7. When it comes to degrees, the higher the degree, the bigger or stronger the effect. For example Leo degrees (5º, 17º, 29º) are fame degrees. 5th degree would give small fame, 17th degree would be normal and significant fame or recognition inside the person’s field and 29th degree is moreso widespread or permanent fame

🌱 8. Saturn in the 5th house is a huge indicator of turning your hobby into your job. Also these people can be very awkward in their personality

🌸 9. I’ve noticed people with Neptune in the 6th (maybe 2nd) house may have been hospitalized and if Uranus or Pluto are placed here also indicates getting surgery or operations for health reasons

🌱 10. People with Uranus or Pluto in the 1st, 2nd or conjunct the ASC could get surgery due to aesthetic reason

🌸 11. Mercury dominant people (or strong Gemini energy in the chart) like to have or get things quick and easy. For example they prefer a straight forward summary over an in-depth and elaborated explanation with too many details

🌱 12. Your moon sign shows how you see your past. Your 4th house represent how you see your childhood. But your moon represents under which light you always view your past and everything that has happened in your life in general. It also shows the type of stuff from your past you tend to focus on. Since Cancer and Pisces represent past and remenaicence, that's why Cancer and Pisces moons have trouble getting over the past.

🌸 13. Your 10th house on the other hand is how you see your future. Whenever someone asks you “where you see yourself in 5 years?” your 10th house is the one that’ll be answering that question

🌱 14. Gemini moon/mars are the LEAST likely to hold grudges (unless chart says otherwise)

🌸 15. The house where you have your Neptune indicates the themes you tend to lie about, don’t give much info, say stuff about it that are misleading etc. and in consequence people might not have a clear/correct idea of this part of your life

🌱 16. Virgo risings rarely or basically never pose for pictures. They just look straight forward to the camera, sometimes smile and maybe make a small gesture like putting one hand in their pocket or tilt their head but that’s it. (Virgo = minimalism)

🌸 17. Scorpios really don’t give a single fuck they just DON’T 😭💀 Remember this sign is all or nothing, they either care too or don't care AT ALL

🌱 18. I said it once and I’ll say to a hundred times more: Geminis are not two-faced, it’s LIBRA!! Seriously Libras are the FAKEST people I’ve ever met. Why? Because it's ruled by the planet of love (Venus), which means Libra has a knack for being liked by everyone and making everyone feel liked. HOWEVER Libra is an AIR sign and air represents mind, NOT feelings. In conclusion, Libra can make you feel "loved" (venus) and still not give a damn about you bc its air nature makes them prone to emotional detachment. That's why they are able to roast you and make it look like they're complimenting you, specially when they have Scorpio mercury.

🌸 19. Just like you look at where’s the ruler of your rising sign to get more info on your rising, check the ruler of your Sun sign for more info on your personal identity (check sign and house). For ex. I have Virgo Sun in the 9th. Ruler of Virgo=Mercury. I have mercury in Libra in the 10th house which makes me more serious (10th house) and diplomatic/people pleaser (Libra)

🌱 20. If you found that you “couldn’t” do what’s previously described because you’re a Leo sun, check the degree and decan of your Sun

🌸 21. I’ve noticed mercury retrograde people are the type of individuals who always know exactly the right things to say. You’ll always see them take a couple of seconds before answering but they tend to give very good responses

🌱 22. I’ve noticed many women with Virgo Venus/Sun/MC/Lilith have been slut-shamed at some point of their life or they’ve been seen as promiscuous/sexual/etc.

🌸 23. Capricorn moons are not emotionless machines. The thing with these natives is that their mothers treated them like an adult the second they came out of the womb, so basically they skipped the “love and affection” stage and went straight to the “grow up” stage, but they can love really hard and real deep (Capricorn is deep down a very sentimental sign). They are very ride or die people tbh, they are very patient, accepting and understanding

🌱 24. I've noticed that people at first deny their rising sign in Vedic astrology, but eventually they end up accepting it and they actually end up relating to it a lot. I feel like this is because our rising sign in Vedic astrology is usually the sign of our 12th house in Western astrology, which leads me to believe that our 12th house sign is not our shadow side but more like our deep subcontious personality and that's why we have a hard time accepting it when we see it as our rising sign in Vedic astrology. It's like your rising sign (in western) is the director of the play but your 12th house is the energy that previously wrote the script

🌸 25. So many celebrities have moon in the 11th house. Also this placement indicates that you had a mother that put you out there constantly like posting everything about you on social media, bringing you to big events or your mom was “famous” in some capacity

🌱26. Gemini risings tend to believe everything they are told. More specifically, once they find someone that knows a little bit more than them they’ll believe everything they teach them and will most likely rely on them intellectually, for advice, guidance, etc. This is bc they have DSC in Sagittarius which makes them see the people they associate with as masters and mentors while, as a Gemini rising, they identify as an apprentice.

🌸27. Both 8th house and 12th house have been associated with secrets. The different is that the 8th house represents what you CONTIOUSLY and deliberately hide from others and most likely deny to yourself (or not, depends on the person). 12th house on the other hand represents subconscious, things that are hidden even from you and you didn’t even know were hidden. 4th house is not necessarily secrets, it represents privacy, like when people have a sanctuary to just relax, unwind and feel secure, that’s the 4th house.

🌱28. Sun or Moon in the 4th house will make you a sociable but private person.

🌸29. Sun or moon in the 8th house will make you an intriguing and mysterious person.

🌱30. Sun or moon the 12th house makes you a very elusive or wishy-washy person

🌸31. I’ve seen many Scorpio sun/moon/mars/rising individuals obsessed with the idea of being prepared for a catastrophe. They could be the type to, for example, have some saved cash just in case something bad happens with their bank money, have a backup account just in case their main one gets deleted, could have a “leave before you get left” philosophy, etc.

🌱32. Is it just me or the astro community talks a lot about Aries moons???

🌸33. I’ve noticed people with 4th house in Virgo could have been raised in a very judgemental household where there was lots of taboos and prejudice as to what’s right and what’s not and the family was too preoccupied with a perfect and immaculate reputation. For example could have been raised with values such as “only criminals wear tattoos” or “you should stay celibate till marriage or else you’re a whore”, etc. and if the native broke those rules they could have been very criticized and almost loathed by the family. They native could have been highly criticized in general by their family

🌱34. I’ve noticed women that have their moon harshly aspecting Pluto, Uranus and Mars or overall have a very afflicted moon tend to have very painful period cramps

🌸35. Something I have noticed with Venus or Moon conjunct Saturn people is that the concept of unconditional love sounds like alien language to them. That of course doesn’t mean they can’t love but they have this deep belief that they have to achieve something in order to deserve love and stuff like that

🌱36. Also, I just noticed that people with Saturn conjunct sun/moon/Venus/ASC, Capricorn big 3 or Capricorn degrees in personal placements have gone through IT man, specially on an internal level. I've noticed going through depression is a common theme for people with this Capricorn/Saturn influence

🌸37. Virgo Suns could often struggle to find balance between having healthy ego and being humble.

🌱38. Also people with Virgo+Leo energy are the MOOOOST judgmental people out there. Imagine ego mixed with a sense of knowing what’s correct. They tend to believe they’re morally superior and easily liable people as inferior

🌸39. The underdeveloped energy of a sign asimilates negative traits of its sister sign. For example underdeveloped Virgo is overly perfectionist and judgmental to the point where they have unrealistic expectations (Pisces)

🌱40. On the other hand the developed version of a sign is balanced out by understanding its sister sign. For example Leo knows they are unique and special and deserves recognition but understands everyone is also unique in their own way (Aquarius)

🌸41. I’ve noticed a person can very easily manifest the stereotypical characteristics of the sign that naturally rules the house where their chart ruler is. For example if someone’s chart ruler (ruler of the ASC) is in the 7th house the person can easily manifest stereotypical characteristics of Libra like being a people pleaser

🌱42. Sagittarius ASC/Mars people are all fun, amicable and outgoing.... until they don’t get their way. They will get away from people and situations that won’t give them what they want and they can genuinely dislike people solely because those people don’t let them have their way. They tend to go around life like they have a free pass to get away with everything they want.

🌸43. People with ASC-Neptune aspects don’t have a very reliable vision of reality or themselves to be honest. I don’t know how people with this aspect haven’t lost their mind already. They are prone to subconsciously manipulating or easily getting manipulated. With hard aspects this is a lot more obvious but I’ve noticed with easy aspects this energy tends to go almost unnoticed and they easily get away with stuff

🌱44. Have seen many famous people with North node in the 2nd, 5th, 11th and 12th houses specially

🌸45. Air risings or air dominance with Sagittarius placements/degrees are people who love cartoons/animations/videogames regardless of their age.

🌱46. When I got into astrology I didn’t understand why Sun is in detriment in Libra, but oh man... All Libras I’ve met had HUGE issues with trusting themselves. They doubt themselves 24/7 and that’s not even an exaggeration and I’ve noticed they actually may have grown up doubting themselves for some reason or they had a family (their dad) that caused this feeling in them. Also I’ve seen that those Libras with Scorpio placements feel like they have to hide something about themselves otherwise they’ll be rejected. Yes they are endlessly charming, but that's because they have essentially created their personality around the desire of being liked/accepted. They always need to feel they have SOMEONE. Their sense of self, INDIVIDUALITY, independence and assertiveness is lost in the process. Unless they have fire and specially Aries placements to balance this out they can feel like they have no personality and that’s why they are often perceived as fake or shallow.

🌸47. Literally ALL Virgo placements one way or another will always suggest a way to solve your problems when giving emotional support

🌱48. I have a theory that, since 4th house is how you were raised, your home and your parents, your 10th house is how you’d be as a parent yourself and the type of home you’ll create yourself

🌸49. Contrary to my expectations, I’ve seen priests having a much more prominent 4th house (many times combined with 8th house/Scorpio energy) than 12th house. People with 12th house placements or stellium seem to prefer artistic fields rather than classic spirituality

🌱50. The house where you have your Pluto is a house you just can NOT take lightly EVER. This area of your life feels like a heavy topic to you in some way (you are either obsessed with it, find It traumatic, get extremely defensive over it, find it spiteful, you feel everything goes wrong, etc, etc.) Can also apply to the house where you have the sign of scorpio

🌸51. In synastry, Venus falling in the 12th house creates a healing dynamic in the relationship, the connection can feel cathartic specially for the house person. The house person might tend to always be comforted by the venus person’s support, always feel better (or even energetically “cleansed”) after being with them. The venus person never judges the house person and accepts them and is always willing to be there.

🌱52. I’ve noticed this pattern in people with mutable moons where they have absent mothers in some shape or form. Their mother is very inconsistent, she always comes and goes. Very often the native may have felt like their mother always “left them be” (virgo moon moms put restrictions but eventually are rather flexible)

🌸53. People with cardinal moons have bossy mothers. In many cases they can have the type of mother that is constantly making decisions for them, like their mother decides what/where they’re going to study for example (the house tells what type of things the mother tends to make decisions on).

🌱54. People with fixed moons have possesive and protective moms. While mutable moons have absent mothers, natives with fixed moons have mothers that are ALWAYS there in some shape or form. At the very least the influence of the mother is always there and they always have this sense of “loyalty” towards their mom.

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Tells about out intellect and how we communicate. Its own signs are virgo and Gemini. It is exalted in virgo, gemini is it's mooltrikona sign and it's Debilitated in pisces. It also signifies learning, business, trading, logic, short term travels, nervous system, skins, arms and intenstines. It also represents the maternal uncles.

(green is the colour of mercury, and I did the header color before I knew this, in sync much 😭 wow)

Mercury in 1st:

These are witty and inquisitive. These are the kind to always Google everything. They like to the know the weirdest of shit. They may have a soft looking appearance. Could be slender even. May be soft spoken even. Generally use their words wisely, if mercury is afflicted then they tend to blurt things out. Talkative. Afflicted mercury is prone to constant headaches. Not the best for leadership roles. Fidgets a lot. Restless energy. Cannot seem to relax. Always running late. Has heightened nerves. Can come across the most friendly. May be not so. Has a very youthful persona in general. Can be Careless with themselves. Could have a self depreciating humour. Has a sense of humour in general . Tend to find and make even serious situations funny. If afflicted, anxiety is common. Self critical. Kind to be very interested in personality tests. Does crosswords,sudoku, puzzles often. Laughs a lot maybe. Flirty. If mercury isnt afflicted, thinks on their feet.

Mercury in 2nd:

Puts a lot of thought into earning money. Maybe a reckless spender(if a fire sign especially) or has been a keen saver since young. Even if a reckless spender they they become practical with money as they age. May earn livelihood as a teacher. Could work as a stock trader. Actually could be great with this unless there are bad aspects. Worries a lot about money even they might be spending a lot. Maybe spends a lot on skincare. Has the ability to influence people. Manipulative .Observant. Ability to detect lies, would stare the shit out of you till you confess. Maybe did well in mathematics. Very adaptable with jobs. Kind to be willing to do any kind of work. Maybe an independent learner since young or used to take initiative to gain knowledge since young. Probably reads books a lot, have been an avid reader since young. Someone in their immediate family may have something to do with teaching. I think this is a bit introverted energy preferring their solitude with their books but mask on their social face when occasions calls for so maybe not that introverted but an ambivert. They may have soft facial features. May have sloppy speech if afflicted. Good debating skills. Has a sweet tongue maybe. Banters with family. Has very inviting eyes, idk but something about thier eyes just makes you wanna look into their eyes a lot. Overall a very learned Placement.

Mercury in 3rd:

Effective communication abilities. Sweet voice or has the Ability to convince people easily. Has an influential speech. Has a friendly relationship with their sibling or cousins. Relationship where your cousins are really close. Maybe has been in the same school since young. If afflicted, has fear of speaking or putting out their opinions. Get jittery when they have to speak publicly. Highly intelligent. You don't want to debate them, they will destroy you with facts. Very clever with words. Even manipulative. Probably uses a lot of emojis while texting. Amazing memory. Inquisitive. Tech savy. Believe in solving conflicts with dialogue. Maybe your sibling is intelligent or smarter than you are, especially if it's a younger sibling. siblings may have been really clever. They were probably very athletic as a kid, always playing. If afflicted they may not be the most ethical or have the most high morals. They are youthful, childish and flirty. Smooth talkers. They have to really work hard and put efforts to achieve their goals, things may not come easily to them.

Mercury in 4th:

Playful and youthful childhood. Mother was probably Talkative. Both parents highly educated. Parents may have encouraged a good education, probably went out of their way to provide a good education. Homes that have a library. Either of the parent may have been a teacher once or writes very well. The kid who gets handwriting books as gifts in early childhood. Parents may have put in effort to teach you. Either of the parent has had a very friendly relationship with you. If afflicted, their wasn't much inclination towards education on your part, and this has been a subject to a lot of scoldings from your parents. Parents may be insistent on pursuing a more lucrative career options especially if Saturn has aspect or is in conjunction. You were probably Talkative as a child, who asks a lot of questions. Loves socializing, close with family and relates families, had a lot of fun get togethers probably. If afflicted, they think and worry a lot about their family. The kid who troubles while eating. Varied interests since childhood. May have been parts of various clubs in school. If home life was stressful, they develop anxiety and trust issues. Difficulty in commitment when they age. Impulsive energy. Communication is important when it comes to family matters, they want their opinion to be taken into consideration. Have ideas of businesses. Grows to have a business where they may Operate from their home. Humour they get from their parents, or parents in general were very jovial and friendly. Why am I thinking of amy Poehler from mean girls as the mom. Lmao.

Mercury in 5th:

Multiple hobbies. Kid who participated in many extra curricular. Amazing sense of humour. Flirty. Writer placement. They may financially gain a lot from using their intelligence. They may have a tendency to learn more about, stock market and earning through it. Kindergarten teacher. Teachers in general. The cool teacher. Promiscuous . Could have twins or has a lot of experience with people who have twins. Prodigy child. Spontaneous. Outgoing. If afflicted, nervous speaker in front of an audience. Again they are highly intelligent. And just likes to know various disciplines. Optimistic. Jovial. Very friendly. Probably learnt instrument as a child. If afflicted, may get skin allergies or develop a much sensitive skin after pregnancy if a woman. Or the child may just have a very sensitive skin. Tech savy. Into electronic music, or just really loud music. Observant. Very romantic. Looks for someone who is mentally stimulating, good kind obviously. One of the placement where the emotion and mind is in a balance. They are sentimental yet can think logically. Good entertainers. Artist placement. Make amazing musicians.

Mercury in 6th:

Smart, witty, logical thinkers. Quarrelsome, love debating. Would kill you with logic you can't win against them if they have a developed mercury. They may have some hidden enemies, like they don't know about them, it's more of a two faced situation. They think they are on friendly terms with someone and the next person be developing some devious plan against them. Knows how to use their words. Makes a good subordinate. Not really a leader, they can be but somehow prefer not to. Hates incompetence. Lot of nervous energy. Anxiety prone. Sensitive skin. Quick learners. Teacher's pet. The kid who reminds teacher of homework. If afflicted they can really have some nervous system disease. Practice breathing exercises please. Take your vitamins. Maybe loves documentaries. Comes across as know it all, when they are just trying to help. Updated on latest news. Can get really critical of people. Have a dissing others sort of humour. Can be self critical as well. Extremely helpful. Independent. Hightened Senses, amazing observational humour. Comes across insensitive. All work no play if afflicted.

Mercury in 7th:

The unemotional one in the relationship. Well not 100% obviously but they do tend to behave more logically when it comes to issues of relationships. The kind to tell you to take the job even if it means a long distance relationship. Promiscuous. Good communicators. Thinks a lot about relationships in general. Could be a little insecure if afflicted. Anxious about having a relationship. Puts greater emphasis on communication in a relationship, wants to have a best friend kind relationship with their spouse. Friendly Banters with spouse. Judgmental when it comes to others. Jovial and friendly presence, yet very business like, like they mean work. When it's time to play it's play when it's work, it's work. Can be really critical of others. Very intelligent as it aspects ascendant. Witty and funny. Good leaders, the kind to work as a team rather than an actual boss. Teamworker. Likes bouncing ideas off others, not necessarily in a way of wanting validation, but to just see other options. Mercury here just loves variety. Needs someone intellectually stimulating as a partner. Someone their equal. Also the kind that needs to cared for in a relationship, because they tend to get careless. Can get a younger spouse. Or youthful spouse, who looks younger than their age. They themselves tend to behave a little childish with their partner. Sweet talkers, especially if venus is in conjunction. Not the best decision makers, as in a house of balance they are the one to look at the story from all the angles even the one they don't support to make the best judgement possible, they put a lot of thought into making decisions. Effective decision makers but not the fastest. Entrepreneurial skills. Has good business acumen. Good networkers. Tends to think about others in general. Puts a lot of focus on deciding about their love interests. Has really high standards. Has your back. Kind. Can sometimes pretend fake. Sitcoms, rom-coms.

Mercury in 8th:

Doesn't say much. Fixed opinions. Has a lot of secretive knowledge. Comes across very mysterious, because they doesn't revel much about themselves. Very logical and practical. Trustworthy. Sarcastic and dry sense of humour. Complexity in thought process. Is a step ahead in terms of thinking. Worries a lot. If afflicted, mentally challenging position. Can be harsh with words. Has punch lines up their bags. Has amazing intuition. Doubtful of others. Very cautious. Can be judgmental. Looks for hidden meaning behind things, not easily satisfied with that is provided. Hence a great placement for researchers. They may even go on to study at PhD level. Amazing occult skills if they want to pursue. Easily read other people's mind. Can become arrogant because of this. They tend to feel like they know everything, especially when mercury is afflicted, if in pisces there is this delusion the know everything. On the other hand, this can be exactly opposite they aren't confident in their knowledge. Sees through people's bullshit. Stares a lot, like scanning you for hidden information. A good writer placement. May like horror movies a lot or thriller. Can use knowledge for unethical gains. Very poetic and deep sort of voice. People just love listening to them. Has a serene appearance, they appear weirdly calm, but may not be so. If developed, they don't hurt people as much, because this a very intuitively smart placement. They know what to do when to do. This also makes them very cunning. Would have a friendly relation with their in laws. Can keep a secret.

Mercury in 9th:

Philosophical discussions. Avid learner. Father maybe played an important role in learning. Father may have acted as teacher I some form. Either spiritual, or academic or maybe as a guide or a moral compass. Kinda nerdy. Know it alls. Thinks logically. Can become teachers. If with venus, may make musicians and travel to foreign countries for the same. If someone has a business or chooses to have one, can travel frequently for business purposes. Funny. Travel journalism. Very open minded. Flexible with opinions. May learn many languages. Athiest. Doesn't follow traditions an customs without any significance. Very intelligent. May develop a sense of self righteousness. Wise and can be old souls with a spontaneous personality. Argumentative, doesn't accept defeat easily. Gives a good fight. There maybe a lot of chaos in mind when it comes to doing something, it's always better what they want to do and what is morally Ethical. There is a what's right and what's wrong debate in their head. Maybe many financial gains if mercury is strong because it's placed 5th from 5th house. Indie music. Animes. K-pop.

Mercury in 10th:

Skilled professionals. Amazing networkers. Entrepreneurs. Teachers. Maybe known for their speech or sense of humour. Very jovial and pleasant personality. Good firat impressions. Could be known for intelligence as well. Managing postion, leadership roles. The kid who did majority of the group project. Earns well. May have more one professions. May change their profession frequently. Maybe a lot of focus is on attaining good wealth and respect in whatever they do. Perfectionism when it comes to work. Very accepting and adaptable. Stage fear indicated. Very disciplined. Mother may have been very supportive, or she is herself very analytical. Likes writing. Easily liked by others. Their transition happens from a very extroverted energy to a more preferring solitude kind. As they age they may be the kind to randomly get a kick to study some discipline while at a job. So they may just leave their job and go back to school kind. Has a library in their home or prefers one. Determined and ambitious. Makes well thought decisions. Fast decision makers. Needs a mentally stimulating job or profession. May not like doing mundane work. May engage in pretend games to attain a good social position. Sudoku, crosswords.

Mercury in 11th:

Intellectual friends. A fun social circle. Amiable, jovial and accepting. They tend to value their freed a lot. Generally funny. Long trips with friends. Friends who are family. Very close with their friends. They use their intelligence to earn. Could be a teacher, be involved intl trading. Makes friends online. Does a lot of online courses. Complex thought process. Not very open except with a few people. Good speakers. Tend to be kind and generous as well. Maybe gullible at times. Always learning. Friends may be really supportive. They are really determined when they put their min to something. Beneficial if anyone wants to do business, as its in 5th house from 7th house. Afflicted mercury, gives a lot of nervous energy, skin allergies and even indigestion problems. May gain from multiple sources. If afflicted, may earn from unethical ways.

Mercury in 12th:

Poetic. Highly intuitive. Doesn't revel much. Very secretive. More introverted energy. May have a lot of chaotic thoughts. If afflicted, their maybe difficulty in learning as well, or maybe just not interested in learning. Schooling may have been a difficult experience. Speaks in a low voice. May have had speech therapy. Psychic powers. Interested in Spirituality. Make amazing musicians. Constant vivid dreams. Nightmares. Possibility of dreams that relate to their daily stress. Doesn't handle stress well, if afflicted. Prone to mental illnesses. It's not like their brain don't work. It works a whole lot, there's just too many thoughts. They need some breathing exercises to control their thinking pattern. Very generous. May teach young kids. Art teachers. Healers, spiritual guide. They also tend to get really careless with themselves. If afflicted, subject to substance abuse. Could be manipulative. Decieving. Tends to be lazy as well. Insomnia or sleeps too much. A late sleeper. Finds knowledge in foreign land. May study in a foreign land. Or have a business in a foreign country. Maybe a careless spender.

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Venus in Virgo / Venus in 6th: The way you guys are so caring and are given the title of “picky and arrogant” pisses me the fuck off. You guys are so incredibly loyal even if you’re not the person to make a grand gesture or a paragraph everyday, you guys show such ways of caring for your loved ones by helping them out / advice / nurturing them about their health / being there for them & making time. And not to forget y’all are the masters of making anyone feel better about the themselves because y’all are so analytical & observant. Let’s talk about how you can literally eat fast food & cheesy burgers for a week straight and still look so bomb, the way y’all take care of yourselves is admirable. Also a beauty indicator a natural one.

Scorpio Rising / Pluto in 1st: I know this may come off as a surprise but this placement is wayyyyy too sexualized. They are also incredibly misunderstood, these people generally have a hard time letting people in completely and have trust issues, but no one talks about the fierce loyalty and love these people are ready to give. All I see is “sexy stare”, lol don’t get me wrong these are very magnetic & beautiful but y’all stop sexualizing them so much, they have much more to offer.

Capricorn Venus / Venus in 10th: “They only want money” Is basically all I see for y’all. This placement seeks for stability and someone on the same level as them in matters of worth related to them as a person, they just wouldn’t just date someone and y’all are not ready to hear that. No one talks about the protection and admiration these people will give you when they are ready & the way they will stick with you through the hardest time, and to mention the best advice for your own life goals ;). I’ll marry one of you

Mars in Cancer / Mars in 4th: The amount of times I see “cry baby & manipulative” now, if extremely underdeveloped they have the tendencies to bring out their worse just like any other placement but, I barely see love for this placement. The way these people are literally so nurturing and caring & will literally take care of you so much. They remember the little things, your favorite color, your favorite Starbucks drink. Seriously, just because this placement isn’t comfortable being here does not mean it doesn’t have a good side. And the loyalty is 100%. Don’t screw them over though.

Virgo Rising / Mercury in 1st: This placement along with the 2nd house is lowkey.. crickets? Like where is the appreciation for y’all. The way you guys have such ways of fixing any situation for the ones you guys love!! And their honesty is 100%, while staying truthful to you they have tactfulness.. And who can not appreciate their sarcastic unexpected sense of humor?? If you prove yourself worthy their loyalty is astronomical;).

Moon in Capricorn / Moon in 10th: The many times I see people saying “psychopaths & unemotional” is extremely disgusting like do better y’all. These people are EMOTIONAL but they handle it with logic meaning they won’t have a tantrum of someone saying some shit they know shouldn’t affect them. And they’re not the Cancer moon type of nurturing, but they’re extremely practical and maybe a bit possessive over their loved ones, they truly want the best and if you misunderstand how they show their love that’s on you. They don’t give second chances though, so don’t screw them over or that stereotype will come true for you.

Moon in Aquarius / Moon in 11th: This one is like in the same level of misunderstood as Capricorn moon. But the stereotype being “detached & uncaring”. That makes no sense, Aquarius is a very humanitarian sign and it being in the Moon shows emotional compassion towards others, even if it’s from a logical sense they’re not uncaring. These people are so giving once they like you. They’re extremely kind and never rude, they have amazing manners. If this placement doesn’t like you, maybe check your behavior?

Moon in Scorpio / Moon in 8th: This one is often talked about, but still incredibly misunderstood. All I ever see is “traumatic childhood & manipulative”, like okay yes a lot have gone through some hardships but why only bring that up? These people are SOOOO passionate like the level of passion is insane and the way they’ll kick your ass to mars if you ever feel bad about yourself.. They are veryy intuitive and they are great at giving advice from a spiritual level! Please y’all stop giving this placement such bad reputation.

Sagittarius Mercury / Mercury in 9th: It really breaks my heart when I see someone labeling these people as dumb, like destroy your device.. Sagittarius/ 9th house is ruled by knowledge & spiritual knowledge & expansions. These people are incredibly knowledgeable and soo wise in their approaches. They know a lot about almost anything!! They’re also capable of giving advice from the very single point of view (open minded as hell). Please don’t spread misinformation about this placement and kindly delete your internet profiles if you’re even going to label anything as “dumb”.

Any Leo Placement: All I see is “attention seeking whores” like what? okay maybe we are at times;) is like people forget the amount of generosity literally any Leo placement has, in fact they give too much at times that they have to retreat to make sure they’re not loosing themselves in the process. If Leo placements are constantly seeking attention or too closed off it’s most likely because of a painful realization that they shouldn’t give too much love out right away.

Cancer & Pisces Placements: I feel like just in general water placements have a really bad reputation. Y’all forget that just because someone has water placements that they can also be logical. These placements usually tend to peep everything and at times absorb a lot of energy and become extremely exhausted & drained. All I really see is people labeling them as ditzy or nurturing (yes they are nurturing once they love you / like you). But people forget the intelligence of a Pisces placement they’re literally the wisest & have unmatched intuition. And for Cancers they forget once they’re wronged or peep something off how vengeful they get? And how closed off and unavailable they can get. They are truly kind but also very intelligent and they have ways they can use on people that aren’t usually seen.

Moon in Taurus: Just because the moon likes being in Taurus it does not mean these people don’t struggle like everyone else. A lot of Taurus moons have this beauty / standards they wanna be like and if something slightly crumbles in their life they can get to an extremely low point in their life as they seek for stability, they’re very very affectionate and loyal (it’s harder for them to see that you’re worth it though, so prove yourself.)

Moon in Virgo: These people are SERIOUSLY incredibly excluded. While they have more of a rational approach does not mean they’re uncaring. While they can be a little shy in their approaches, you’ll seriously know if someone with this placement likes you, they make time for you and are always sticking by your side / takes cares of you every day how you feel / your emotional state.

Aries Placements: All I see is these people labeled as “chaotic” no, y’all just don’t like seeing people taking risks because part of life is about having fun. Let’s talk about the best friend these people can be & the blast you have with them anywhere any time and the sense of humor they have and how they aren’t easily offended so the amount of jokes & passion these people give. And the fierce loyalty and the bluntness in their approaches, is so fucking amazing.