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I wouldn't go as far to say that every Scorpio Venus/Taurus over the 8th house/Venus at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) (either women or men) have a Madonna-whore complex, but there is a similar pattern that is happening. A lot of them either find someone cute, hot and are attracted to them, but struggle with developing proper, real feelings, because the attraction is overwhelming them. OR they have real emotion for someone who they are just not that physically attracted to. Which I think is why they could struggle with loyalty or betray someone, they are very much "divided" internally themselves.

On this point, a lot of Scorpio Venus/Taurus over the 8th house/Venus at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) have "unavailable" Moon sign, usually there is Moon Uranus aspect, Sagittarius Moon, Aries Moon or Moon Saturn aspect, Capricorn Moon that makes them emotionally unavailable or disconnected from their emotional world, which is why their attraction feels taboo.

Furthermore, they get plenty of chances throughout life to be together with really attractive, hot people, yet they are too insecure about their own physical appearance to actually develop real feelings for that person, they prefer to let them go. They tend to have self-worth issues that go deeper than insecurity, to being insecure about the type of clothing and how much clothes they have, how much money they earn, the aesthetics of their home, car, how much they can provide, their social network and friends.

Also, they tend to repeat the previous relationship(s) with the next, new one. They just continue what they were doing before, making it seem like the connection is not special. Going to the same restaurants, galleries, watching the same TV series, basically the same traditions.

I think the placements that really compare themselves the most are Gemini/Virgo over the 8th house, Pluto over the 3rd house, Pluto in the 6th house, weirdly Libra Moon (I believe, because it's sidereal Virgo Moon). They will compare randomly with a close friend, their sibling, cousin, the in-laws, a person on social media, a schoolmate, co-worker, especially when it comes to cars, education, knowledge, jobs. They also compare themselves in the most random moments.

I think in little ways both 8th and 12th house show how they will treat you after they are done with you. For example:

Leo over the 12th house: they will say you seek their attention after every time you do something that they dislike or don't approve of

Virgo over the 12th house: they turn very overly critical of you, they nit-pick apart your job choice, clothing, your natural features, everything will be criticised or they will express that they are deeply dissatisfied with you

Aries over the 8th house: they won't try to calm you down after an argument, they will just leave and let you calm down on your own

Taurus over the 8th house: they turn very unemotional, instead straight-up logical, also definitely tries to pretend like they never liked you in the first place or like you never existed

Cancer over the 8th house: they retract every emotional support or emotional validation, won't try to understand you emotionally anymore, instead listening only to their feelings, also will start having invisible beef with your family or dislike not only you, but your family members as well

If you ever doubt if they are cheating, just look at which signs, planets, degrees are in your or their 12th house, honestly there is your answer always. Usually it corresponds to the other person's Sun sign or they have that Sun - personal planet aspect.

You have heard that 8th house Synastry is raw, passionate, authentic. While this is true, something else is also true at the same time. I would argue a lot of 8th house Synastries share common themes: you met in work setting or any formal, public setting, even educational, some elements of the connection are forced or give off the feeling of being arranged.

Leo Chiron and Chiron at a Leo degree (5, 17, 29) get hurt in dating the most, their dating life tends to be public as well. The public knows the good and the bad things happening in their dating life.

I think why Selena Gomez seemed so obsessed with Bella Hadid for decades is because she has Saturn in the 7th house and Bella Hadid is Libra Sun. She wishes to be more like her in the future. She sees her as intelligent, poised and beautiful (Libra) which is how Selena wants to be perceived as, but she mastered it only after her Saturn Return.

If you have Cancer Moon, Moon in the 4th or Cancer Venus, Venus in the 4th house you could end up with or marry a partner who is younger than you. But if you have Capricorn Moon, Moon in the 10th house or Capricorn Venus, Venus in the 10th house you could date younger when you were young too, but could still end up long-term with someone older.

We are all looking at Pisces Moon for how emotionally chaotic they are, but I believe Sagittarius Moons are just as equally emotionally all over the place. Very similar traits to Pisces Moon, escapistic tendencies, especially travel, but also substance overuse (especially alcohol), too much sugar, the oversleeping, watching films, isolating themselves, experiencing unrequited feelings. They find it very hard to decipher what they are feeling in the moment.

Saturn in someone's 8th house Synastry is no joke. You might think it's nothing, because it's a generational planet. Until you have a situationship or a very short-lived connection where you are still dealing with the ending, the breakup for the next 10 years after. The aftermath and consequences of this connection are insane. Y'all are arguing about that one exchanged birthday gift after 5 years. Also, what you saw about them while the connection was still active, the public will be able to see and recognize in 10 years time, you just saw it first.

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Trigger warning mentioned weight

If you end a relationship and you're a Taurus Venus, they will try to humble you. But if you are a Scorpio Venus, they will say "it's me not you" and try to hype you up.

Both Martian Moons (Aries, Scorpio Moon) care a lot about their physical body. They care about gaining/losing weight, because they feel so in tune with their bodies that they "feel" too much or too little weight in their body. Out of all Moon signs, they care the most about hygene, physical appearance, how put together they look, being nicely dressed far more than they let on.

Capricorn Moons usually have the most athletic body type even if they don't work out. But those disciplined Capricorn Moons, actually have the consistent energy to work out. Naturally very toned bodies out of Moon signs. Look at famous Capricorn Moons such as Benson Boone, Jaden Smith etc.

Scorpio Risings have this thing with weight in the past that now they openly dislike people, partners who can't control themselves or are undisciplined when it comes to weight, working out and eating. Some Scorpio Risings were chubby in early life, but not all of them, a lot of them are lean since birth.

With 8th house sign and Synastry they will either go all out for you or save their money on you.

If you have Gemini over the 8th house, you will end up using your partner's car more than your own. You have "what is yours is also mine" mentality here.

And the same it goes for any other sign you have over 8th house, it shows where you will merge with your partner the most and it will be out of your control. Such as Cancer over the 8th house: your family will become their family, Leo: your hobbies, interests, past times will become theirs, Aries: they will adopt your personality, identity and your favourite sports hobby, Taurus: your money/salary is theirs too, Aquarius: your friends are theirs as well. It shows what you share with people you have a deep trusted bond and you're physically intimate with.

Leo Descendants (5, 17, 29) could be prone to have a committed partner (even after marriage) that has a wandering eye, flirts with others, seeks attention (when they are bored with you) elsewhere, possible affair, but not always.

When you have Gemini Descendant and Gemini degree descendant (3, 15, 27), Virgo degree Descendant (6, 18) it gives you in-laws that compare themselves to you A LOT (also your partner's sibling).

If you have Cancer over the 7th house, your partner's mother could think you are not good enough for their daughter/son, they could compete with you.

If you have Libra Moon/Cancer over the 7th house/Moon in the 7th house/Moon at a Libra degree (7, 19) you could emotionally cheat. This is also a type to secure another relationship before actually ending the last one, like you could already have someone lined up.

If there is any Pluto or Mars contact with your 9th house in your Natal chart, there could be subtle tension with your partner's parents or they could easily frustrate you.

I think a lot of people from Neptune in Capricorn generation have a tougher, harder time with Capricorn Suns. You might constantly feel Capricorn Sun doesn't have your best interests at heart. This generational placement might also struggle with periods of longer unemployment or are generally confused about career, long-term goal or where they are going next in life.

A lot of Sagittarius Moons or Moon in the 9th house are recreational alcoholics. They just do it inconsistently enough, so they make you think they don't have a problem.

Virgo Risings have a partner that gives them stomacheache. Literally everytime they are in a committed partnership, Virgo Risings end up bloated or your nervious system is dysregulated.

If you have Pisces Descendant, you could have in-laws that act like they like you, but secretly dislike you, put you down behind your back or gossip about you when you're not around.

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Libra Chiron can feel more arrogant when they are in a partnership in comparison to periods when they are not. They tend to go into "hiding mode" or are not as visible when it comes to work, accomplishments, when they are not partnered up. It's like a relationship gives them more courage, strength to do things in life.

It kind of reminds me of Hailey Bieber (Libra Chiron) who we didn't hear as much from before marriage to Bieber and now she built an empire and is more courageous than ever to be in the public, before she kept a much more low profile in comparison. Similar to Selena Gomez who has Venus Chiron aspect, she wasn't making that much music when she wasn't dating. But as soon she partnered up with Benny, she was inspired to make new music again. So Libra Chiron tends to search for a muse in a partner and use them as an inspiration to do great things in life.

Leo Mercuries need to be appreciated for their ideas. A LOT. They like being complimented on their intelligence. Which is way they end up acting like a Gemini Sun most of the time.

A lot of Mercury Retrogrades in a Natal chart have a quieter, less ruminating mind during Mercury Retrograde in the year. But tend to ruminate, become more nervous and overthink again when the Mercury goes direct again.

A lot of feminists have Chiron in the 1st house.

Libra Jupiters tend to want a partnership of equals. Like you both pay, you both do sports together, they want someone with the same personality, mindset, temperament as theirs. They also like same educational level, same level of popularity.

Capricorn Venus and Venus in the 10th house, Venus at Capricorn degree (10, 22) to a certain extent tend to have an exclusive, formal, public relationship. But honey, as long as you don't start embarrassing them in public, then they will quickly disown you (publically) too. They don't play around with image and how they are perceived.

Libra Chiron out of all Chiron signs, tend to be the most cordial and neutral after a partnership ends. They are real sweethearts. They might take your decision and understand it, respect it, even if it's not something they personally desire. They can be objective and see both sides despite losing theirs.

Leo Jupiter or Jupiter at a Leo degree (5, 17, 29) likes someone who has the same identity, personality as theirs. If they are humble, they want you to be humble as well.

Chiron in the 11th house or Aquarius Chiron, Chiron at 11, 23 degrees (Aquarius degree) tend to be hated online one way or another despite the irony that they are online the most. They can have big communities of people who are a fandom, but tend to be disliked more. A lot of them have unfulfilled dreams or unfinished projects, because they had to give up a project or on a person so a lot of them have unfinished business still to this day they might be thinking about it.

Since Jupiter supposed to represent a woman's husband, I find that her Jupiter is very indicative of what kind of marriage, relationship her parents had. And she is subconsciously looking to build that with her husband she ends up choosing and marrying.

Libra Chiron, though, can be tough. Because a lot of the time, partners are with you, because you're hot and attractive. Which might make you feel like you have a superficial bond with them in the long run. You could start feeling like they don't care about you as a human or like they don't appreciate your personality traits enough.

A lot of people also end up marrying the opposite sign of their Jupiter sign most of the time.

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Trigger warning: death mentioned

People who have their Moon conjunct your Chiron, you might not find them attractive. But those who have their Sun conjunct your Chiron, you may find them drop dead gorgeous.

People want to hug Taurus Venus so much, Taurus Moon to certain extent as well. But I feel with Taurus Moon, people more so expect you to provide food for them or give them emotional comfort and support, like they just kinda expect that from you. But Taurus Venus often have people expecting they would share their finances with them.

Libra Chiron is tricky, because we all know the fear of rejection, but there are usually so many little specific things about this placement. Like not liking the aesthetics of your home, the way your parents/family members dress is usually not in accordance of your aesthetic preference. But also, feeling like you never earn or have enough money.

I think Scorpio Venus, Taurus over the 8th house or Venus in the 8th house can be quite vengeful after a relationship dissolves, along with some other random placements I frequently noticed, like honorable mentions Cancer Sun, Pluto in the 3rd house people.

Aquarius Chiron and Chiron in the 11th house have a fear around not having enough money in their savings account. So does Scorpio Venus or Taurus over the 8th house, that's why they appear stingy, because they fear debt or not having an emergency fund, enough savings if for example a car suddenly breaks down or an urgent situation.

Taurus over the 8th house or Scorpio Venus will take revenge on you, even if it was their fault, like if they cheated. When the relationship is in a good place, this placement is full of deep meaning, symbolism and depth. But if they are done with you, they will destroyed the built relationship completely. They destroy shared photos, pretend there weren't any good shared memories or pretend like they were never together with you. They hold so many grudges after a breakup.

I think it's underrated how much Nodes affect our daily life and shows what we like to do on a daily basis. You are constantly torn between North and South Node theme. For example: Capricorn North Node/Cancer South Node, you are always either doing one or the other theme, like you are spending a lot of time at work/online/building your career/legacy or you're at home with your family, close friends, cooking etc. Gemini North Node/Sagittarius South Node: you are with your friends/working on your health/walking or cycling or you are travelling/reading a book.

Cancer Rising can experience a mother dying before them early on.

Aquarius Jupiters, be careful who you surround yourself with, because you will slowly become like them in the future! This is much more true for this sign than others. Also, they are very social when they are around people and talking to them, yet most of the time they are barely around people, but when they are, they are very communicative.

Scorpio Chiron is known to have trust issues, but they can experience violent, sudden death, such as very bad car accident that results in immediate death.

Speaking on this topic, Rising sign and 1st house sign plus planets in the 1st can show the themes of your death. If you have Virgo/Gemini Rising it can involve car or any other transportation. If you have Sagittarius Rising it can show death abroad, in another country, while in transit or at a football match. Libra Rising can show your spouse will be near you or it may be due to diabetes. Leo Rising can show a heart attack. Scorpio Rising: your deep trusted friend or physically intimate partner can be near you.

Most women tend to marry their Jupiter sign. Or if it's not the Sun, it's usually Rising sign that conjunct their Jupiter. Often times resulting in cheating though, because your Jupiter sign person doesn't like to be restricted, limited or criticised. Women here are at a disadvantage, because Jupiter is not the most loyal partner, sure you marry him, but loyalty might not be there. Men tend to marry their Moon sign, which grants woman's loyalty much more. So I think men marrying someone have it easier here, even in astrology.

A lot of Aries Moons make an overseas trip at least once in lifetime, travel to another continent and find their purpose due to being sidereal Pisces Moons.

A lot of Aries Moons really like Lara Croft movies!

Some Scorpio placements are more obsessed than in love, because they tend to pick people who don't sync with their needs.

It's not talked enough how many Leo Descendants go back to a previous partner, an ex or a person they knew in the past romantically speaking.