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I think you haven't properly grieved the connection, you're still grieving it. I think time will be on your side and help you. Really time is needed. But you need to stay busy and work on your projects, it will help you get your life in order and in check more, because you will process your feelings through action and through being in movement. You might be a bit codependent though, with Leo Moon in the 7th. I think there's a small chance to being back together. But the thing is it could still be unstable connection or very undefined or make you feel confused, lost or hopeless. Especially with that Mars and Venus of yours in the 12th house. He might not even fully see everything of who you are on an identity level and fail to appreciate it. You are very culturally different or in backgrounds or thinking, there's something, even lifestyle I would say, not only values. Try to check if this person's values and habits (realistically, not just in the positive times) are in-sync with yours? I bet you will find that the connection is better on a theoretical level rather than in practical levels. Probably day-to-day you weren't that content while in this connection. What I mean by this, you liked the potential. The person could try to change you at some point to better suite his needs (Pluto in the 1st, Mars in the 12th Synastry). There could be a lot of misinterpreted actions.

While this person is trying to move on, even if they are seeking connections with others is to try to emotionally regulate. I don't think that they are content in these new connection. This person can behave outwardly in one manner, but the real feelings on the inside will process much faster with this one.

Ohh definitely 11th house placements and transits.

Aquarius Rising

Uranus in the 1st house

ASC Uranus aspects

Scorpio over the 11th house

Libra over the 11th house

Aquarius Descendant

Mars in the 11th house

Ruler of the 11th house in the 11th house

Ruler of the 11th house in the 9th house

Ruler of the 11th house in the 7th house

Aquarius Moon

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Yes, Moon in the 8th house is sensitive in Synastry, because beware that 8th house is already changing at such a fast pace, but Moon makes it changeable and moodier even more.

For example my mom is a Pisces sun and had two Sag moon children and a Pisces moon child. (All Jupiter ruled)

Another person I saw is a Taurus sun mom and has two Taurus moon children. (Venus ruled)

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Hi,

do you also have Taurus over the 8th house being a Libra Rising?

I would wait until 35, 30 it's like you hardly finished your 1st Saturn Return.

Also, do you know your core values or keep changing them?

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Virgo Midheavens are always told "to stay in their lane". Meaning stick to work field they went to college for, work in one field throughout the career. People hate to see you changing career fields, they would be more comfortable with you sticking to one thing.

Meanwhile, Sagittarius Risings or Jupiter in the 1st house go through something similar, yet different. They get told that some professions are not available to someone with a particular skin colour, the city, state, region you come from, with background like yours. You get told "no" a lot throughout your journey in life. They really are the kings of rejection to the point they become unbothered about it (Gemini Descendant).

Early on in the connection, be it friendship or partnership, business relationship, the dynamic is set. It's based on your Ascendant signs. For example: if you are a Scorpio Rising, they are a Capricorn Rising, they will be the dominant one in the connection. It's because Capricorn is after Scorpio and usually they are already more evolved than you are. Same if you are a Virgo Rising, but the other person is Scorpio Rising, Virgo Rising will automatically feel "inferior" to Scorpio Rising person, thinking they have more experience.

Partnership will work long-term when you have same Ascendant signs or at least your Rising sign as their 1st house sign or planet in their 1st house. This is when you feel you met your equal. There's a mismatch usually and a lot of troubles in understanding and miscommunication when you have different ASC signs. This gives a feeling of "oh I'm selling myself short here in this connection" or like they are out of your league. And this can be seen not only through thinking, communcation, but quite literally, such as them being Aquarius Rising for example and have a Masters degree and you being Virgo Rising and went to community college. Actual outside differences become quite obvious, either different educational backgrounds, upbringing, intelligence level, being from a small town versus a big city and so on.

Mars in the 7th house makes the first move, reveals their feelings first, suggests a partnership, but will be the first to break the connection off. These people will be the first to leave, but also fast, the other person in the connection might not even understand what happened due to how fast the breakup comes out of nowhere and suddenly. However, these natives, with the Mars in the 7th house could possibly have someone else lined up already, so watch out for this. They tend to be checked out while still in the connection, so dating someone after really fast might not be surprising.

I think the hardest sign to find an equal in life and especially in dating is not Pisces Sun (however hard they already have it), but Libra Sun. They really work with Leo Sun due to sharing creativity, but Leo always ends up being too selfish for Libra. While opposite Aries Sun ends up being too selfish and immature. They love Taurus Sun, but miss the intellectual side of the relationship in the end. Therefore, I really think Libra Sun works with another Libra Sun in the end. That's one of the rare same Sun sign couples that could potentially work. Virgo Sun is too humble and lacks fashion style despite Libra Sun being a Sidereal Virgo Sun.

I already wrote in a blog post about how you feel and what happens to you during your studies. During Associate's degree studies is seen in 7th house. During Bachelor's degree is 9th house. Master's degree is 11th house. Doctoral degree (Doctorate) is your 1st house. But the new thing I observed in chart interpretations is that you tend to pursue your Master's if you have Aquarius Rising or Uranus in the 1st house most often, it's like you are meant to have your Master's in this lifetime. The same with Sagittarius Rising and Jupiter in the 1st house and Bachelor's degree. While with Gemini/Virgo Rising or Mercury in the 1st house you could have Associate's degree. A lot of people with Pluto in the 1st house or Scorpio Rising have Doctoral degree.

Aries Moons, out of all Moon signs, just don't like to be told "no". This can be positive and it can be negative. They can easily overstep someone's boundaries this way. But they are also incredibly persistent and get what they strive for in the end.

Libra Chirons can have narcissistic like traits, but not in a classic way, but appearing clingy and needy. They were compared to siblings, close friends or ignored by their family members, so now in adulthood they want their partner's full attention on them. So if they feel you will be inconsistent or not give them enough attention, they won't pursue a partnership with you.

I just found an interesting pattern in charts, that 8th house shows what kind of work you do much more than I previously thought. For example: Virgo over the 8th house can indicate you have an office job, but more so administrative work, you could be a personal assistant, secretary. Aries over the 8th house can be a team leader, manager or you work for yourself. Capricorn over the 8th house can indicate a governmental job, corporate job, public sector. Taurus over the 8th house they tend to work with food in one way or another. They could be delivering food, a chef, barista etc. A lot of Taurus over the 8th house people work independently too. Leo over the 8th house often times work in education (elementary/high school) or educational setting or an institution connected to education. Pisces over the 8th house often times works abroad, in a hotel, tourist agency or service job.

In Venus in the 8th house Synastry if you have child with the person, 8th house person might not want to pay or don't have the means to pay child support.

Sagittarius Moon/Moon in the 9th house are very strict in wanting to continue family's legacy or generational pattern in a way that they want their child to have the same recognizable traits, yet be better.

You get a job offer in the month your Sun/Mars sign or house or degree. For example: Taurus Sun: in May, Aries Mars: in April etc.

This is connecting astrology with numerology, but people born on the 4th of any Month are ruled by Uranus or Rahu, which is why they experience immense success at one moment or immense failure the next moment. Their life is unpredictable even to them and they experience both in one lifetime.

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I wouldn't go as far to say that every Scorpio Venus/Taurus over the 8th house/Venus at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) (either women or men) have a Madonna-whore complex, but there is a similar pattern that is happening. A lot of them either find someone cute, hot and are attracted to them, but struggle with developing proper, real feelings, because the attraction is overwhelming them. OR they have real emotion for someone who they are just not that physically attracted to. Which I think is why they could struggle with loyalty or betray someone, they are very much "divided" internally themselves.

On this point, a lot of Scorpio Venus/Taurus over the 8th house/Venus at a Scorpio degree (8, 20) have "unavailable" Moon sign, usually there is Moon Uranus aspect, Sagittarius Moon, Aries Moon or Moon Saturn aspect, Capricorn Moon that makes them emotionally unavailable or disconnected from their emotional world, which is why their attraction feels taboo.

Furthermore, they get plenty of chances throughout life to be together with really attractive, hot people, yet they are too insecure about their own physical appearance to actually develop real feelings for that person, they prefer to let them go. They tend to have self-worth issues that go deeper than insecurity, to being insecure about the type of clothing and how much clothes they have, how much money they earn, the aesthetics of their home, car, how much they can provide, their social network and friends.

Also, they tend to repeat the previous relationship(s) with the next, new one. They just continue what they were doing before, making it seem like the connection is not special. Going to the same restaurants, galleries, watching the same TV series, basically the same traditions.

I think the placements that really compare themselves the most are Gemini/Virgo over the 8th house, Pluto over the 3rd house, Pluto in the 6th house, weirdly Libra Moon (I believe, because it's sidereal Virgo Moon). They will compare randomly with a close friend, their sibling, cousin, the in-laws, a person on social media, a schoolmate, co-worker, especially when it comes to cars, education, knowledge, jobs. They also compare themselves in the most random moments.

I think in little ways both 8th and 12th house show how they will treat you after they are done with you. For example:

Leo over the 12th house: they will say you seek their attention after every time you do something that they dislike or don't approve of

Virgo over the 12th house: they turn very overly critical of you, they nit-pick apart your job choice, clothing, your natural features, everything will be criticised or they will express that they are deeply dissatisfied with you

Aries over the 8th house: they won't try to calm you down after an argument, they will just leave and let you calm down on your own

Taurus over the 8th house: they turn very unemotional, instead straight-up logical, also definitely tries to pretend like they never liked you in the first place or like you never existed

Cancer over the 8th house: they retract every emotional support or emotional validation, won't try to understand you emotionally anymore, instead listening only to their feelings, also will start having invisible beef with your family or dislike not only you, but your family members as well

If you ever doubt if they are cheating, just look at which signs, planets, degrees are in your or their 12th house, honestly there is your answer always. Usually it corresponds to the other person's Sun sign or they have that Sun - personal planet aspect.

You have heard that 8th house Synastry is raw, passionate, authentic. While this is true, something else is also true at the same time. I would argue a lot of 8th house Synastries share common themes: you met in work setting or any formal, public setting, even educational, some elements of the connection are forced or give off the feeling of being arranged.

Leo Chiron and Chiron at a Leo degree (5, 17, 29) get hurt in dating the most, their dating life tends to be public as well. The public knows the good and the bad things happening in their dating life.

I think why Selena Gomez seemed so obsessed with Bella Hadid for decades is because she has Saturn in the 7th house and Bella Hadid is Libra Sun. She wishes to be more like her in the future. She sees her as intelligent, poised and beautiful (Libra) which is how Selena wants to be perceived as, but she mastered it only after her Saturn Return.

If you have Cancer Moon, Moon in the 4th or Cancer Venus, Venus in the 4th house you could end up with or marry a partner who is younger than you. But if you have Capricorn Moon, Moon in the 10th house or Capricorn Venus, Venus in the 10th house you could date younger when you were young too, but could still end up long-term with someone older.

We are all looking at Pisces Moon for how emotionally chaotic they are, but I believe Sagittarius Moons are just as equally emotionally all over the place. Very similar traits to Pisces Moon, escapistic tendencies, especially travel, but also substance overuse (especially alcohol), too much sugar, the oversleeping, watching films, isolating themselves, experiencing unrequited feelings. They find it very hard to decipher what they are feeling in the moment.

Saturn in someone's 8th house Synastry is no joke. You might think it's nothing, because it's a generational planet. Until you have a situationship or a very short-lived connection where you are still dealing with the ending, the breakup for the next 10 years after. The aftermath and consequences of this connection are insane. Y'all are arguing about that one exchanged birthday gift after 5 years. Also, what you saw about them while the connection was still active, the public will be able to see and recognize in 10 years time, you just saw it first.