PSA: Parents. Please do not emotionally manipulate your children.
They will grow up completely untrusting with a general sense of sadness and guilt.
-Ā āI just wish [something passive aggressive involving your child]ā
-Ā āYou do whatever you want to do.ā and then getting mad when they make theĀ āwrongā choice
- Not believing them when they tell you something someone did or said to them, including their friends, your friends, family members, or even you
- Doing something shitty and then pretending you didnāt in hopes theyāll forget?
- Getting upset when they open up to you. About anything. Even if itās something angering or disappointing. Donāt show them itās dangerous or counterproductive to talk to you.
- Making them feel bad for the friends/significant others they choose, career path (or lack thereof), school choice (or lack thereof), gender/sexuality (or lack thereof) literally anything that either they didnāt choose or that they would be miserable without
- Do NOT EVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES pressure them to talk to you about personal things.
- Kids do not owe their parents anything. They did not choose to be born. You chose to get pregnant/chose to carry to term/chose to raise a baby (even if you didnāt choose all of these things, you at least chose one) under the assumption that you would love this child no matter what.