On anon because if my anti-proship friends found us we would be dropped
Just ship what you want! It's literally fictional characters and it should only be flamed and set on fire if it happens irl <3
Just a little pos note 4 you since so much anon hate
I don't get much anon hate, it just looks that way because I hardly use the site, haha. Though on a much more serious note, I come from a heavily anti-aligned friendgroup and my mental health drastically improved once I took the step to open up to them about proshipping and accept whatever outcome fate had in store for me. It's most definitely scary and it took me months to even consider it, but it's best to do so (in comfort). It'll either distance you from people who aren't your true friends, or strengthen the bond between the ones who accept you. I had many reactions when I opened up to my friends. One anti showed discomfort but understood that it helped me cope, she and I stayed friends. One revealed that he never really cared about "antis" or "proshippers" and just went along with whatever made me comfortable. And of course, the others called me disgusting and said they were sick to've ever interacted with me. In the end, I may have lost a part of my history, but I kept the people that actually cared about me close to me, and helped them understand more about me. I lost the ones that were constantly pushing me into discourse and making snide remarks toward other proshippers, which drove me further into my shell and further into my trauma. Now there's nothing to hold me back, neither through my healing process nor creatively.
