Fun facts about us/Before You Interact
We're parotraumagenic, which means we intentionally formed to deal with trauma. We are both parogenic and traumagenic.
We do not have a diagnosis of DID, OSDD, UDD, or any other disssociative disorder. We do have CPTSD, and a wonderful psychologist who accepts and works with our plurality despite the lack of a diagnosis.
You may interact with us if you are a sysmed, if you want to syscourse. Do not send hate. You will be blocked.
We're bodily over the age of 18. If you are a minor (in the body, not talking about Syskids), know that we don't particularly want to interact with minors too much. Feel free to like and reblog and follow, but don't expect us to become internet friends. And please, for the love of Thor, if you're a minor, TELL US so we know not to use NSFW jokes and language and stuff around you.
We are a parotraumagenic system. This blog, therefore, will sometimes delve into mature subject matter, like tr-uma, the various treatments thereof, add-cti-n, etc. We will try to tag things on request, but we are forgetful. Not everything will be tagged.
A systemmate named Deidamia and her sysmate Lei run this blog most of the time. They love syscourse and are very pro-endo. They browse the syscourse tag every day for arguments. If you're not into syscourse, you probably shouldn't have put your anti-endo rant in the syscourse tags, because hashtagsyscourse is for syscoursing. If you don't want to syscourse, tag it as "do not reblog" or don't tag it as syscourse at all. Still, if you ask nicely, chances are we'll remove any syscourse posts we replied to that you started.
We do not, in any circumstances, condone real-life abuse. Period. End of.
We believe that consenting adults should be able to do whatever they wish in the bedroom. We really aren't here to have discourse about that. Any attempts to do so will likely be ignored.
We have a life partner. We do not want any romantic or s-xual involvement with anyone on this site.
We are pro-ship because we believe it is the right of the author to express themselves however they please, and the responsibility of the reader to control what they choose to read if they dislike certain material.
Just because we are pro-ship doesn't mean we participate in any of the ships a person may find unpalatable. Actually, we're not in any fandoms at all right now. We just respect author's rights. We also don't really wish to get directly involved in shipping discourse, though we may reblog posts reflecting our thoughts on it from time to time, Anti-shippers... I guess you can like and follow and reblog, but DNI to have shipping discourse. Go have that elsewhere.
We do not wish to engage in system-hopping, but we support others who do so safely, cautiously, and consensually.
We are anti map for our own physical safety. Maps/nomaps/clovergender/kindergender/whatever DO NOT INTERACT.
On that note, our syskids and system littles are CHILDREN. We have a side blog for things that our littles reblog or things that we reblog for them. They will probably not be active on this blog, but if ever they are, treat them no differently than you would treat a physical child of that age or you will be blocked without hesitation.
It is a well-known fact that some traumagenic systems have alters or systemmates who have positive feelings about the type of trauma that they went through. We are chronically ill and physically disabled. We were formed partially from medical trauma. Therefore, it makes sense that we have systemmates who romanticize our conditions and disabilities. I understand that the glamorization of illness can make some people uncomfortable. But it's a valid trauma response, one that has proven extremely useful to us, and therefore one that we don't intend to change.
Branching off of this, some of our members support the transabled. Because we are cisdisabled, the systemmates who cope by romanticizing our medical trauma would find it flattering if someone cis-abled were to want to be disabled like we are.
Unfortunately, as much as many of us very much want to wax poetic about our disability, it's rare enough to potentially, when combined with other details about our life that we share here, identify us to former abusers and jeopardize our safety, so we must ask that you refrain from asking what we have when we vaguepost about it.
I can't believe we even have to say this, but terfs and trans exclusionists DNI
We have a carrd.
--Deidamia/Minerva






















