Role Reversed Jule

For me, the appeal of gfd and role reversal stems from the idea that the woman is a caregiver of sorts (not quite at the ABDL level) who handles her man with care and sweetness. Obviously the role reversal part plays a big part in that the gender stigmas are kinda swapped. And I know that using such stigmas in my explanation just perpetuates the stigmas themselves but I’m at a loss of how else to explain it.

Alex Law does a really great portrayal in the comic Bubblegum Lovers wherein it’s the woman who pursues the man. The woman who asks him out on a date, the woman who initiates and kinda controls the progression of intercourse. The idea that the woman is so besotted with her boyfriend but it doesn’t come off as desperate or clingy it just reads as someone who considers herself incredibly lucky to have such a precious gem as her lover.

There’s a classic sense of cherishing and protection and a more traditional style of romance. And when it does come to sex Alex Law does such a great portrayal of role reversal without blurring the lines of who is the man or woman in the relationship. The woman appears to have a bit of a higher sex drive than the man and sometimes he’s not always into it and just wants to do other stuff like cuddle or play video games.

Guys can still be man-dudes metal-head vidya game burger beer people and be role reversed, that was kind of the original intent. (For example I for one have no interest in sowing or what have you, but if others like that sort of thing then cheers mates)

I was on the hunt for resources for male submissives, here’s some of the blogs I found so far, feel free to add to this list!

@takemycontrolplease

@sub-boys-make-me-melt

@soft-femdom

@love-in-submission

@cute-af-femdom

@mecha-lewd

@gfdandrr

@bassicallykinky

Introducing Role Reversal Classifieds!

I noticed that there is a significant role reversal crowd on tumblr and decided that I could make something that would help bring some people together since regular dating sites definitely aren’t role reversal friendly and BDSM/fetish sites don’t quite depict what we’re looking for.