For the people who do want to includ trans folks in stories and media--not in G!p fics, not in smut stories, and without fetishizing, but simply because we /should/ include trans folks in stories, how do you recommend we do that? Obviously I understand promoting works created by trans people, but what about when we create our own works? I know that as a cis person, my view can never be without bias, but I would want to do it as honestly and beneficially as possible.
Iām going to mostly link to a bunch of resources Iāve already written and that others have written, which cover a lot of bases on this. I hope they help!
The first step is to get the basics down
The next step is to check out the harmful tropes and patterns plaguing trans representation, and what to be self-critical about in the planning, outlining, and writing processes
(harmful mpreg/b!p tropes regarding trans men rep)
(harmful elements of g!p pregnancy fics and how to avoid them)
(lengthy post discussing a wide range of harmful elements of g!p works)
(basic g!p 101 and discussion on pregnancy/insemination-themed content)
(basic 101 breakdown on g!p, b!p, and a/b/o)
(handling trans characters, including in fantasy + sex ed info)
(brief post on trans woman sex ed, referencing errors made in writing trans women sexually)
(writing trans characters in fantasy or AU realms, what pitfalls to avoid)
(covering very basic anatomical fuckups cis writers make all the time with trans women)
(more sex ed trans woman stuff)
(general advice writing trans characters and avoiding fetishization)
(more in depth post about assessing why youāre writing with trans characters, what approach is being taken, what general issues often crop up)
(pitfalls of cissexism in characterization and character design and casting)
(importance of recognizing that due to cissexism, society positions trans women as close to cis men as possible; lists examples on how to avoid it)
(post discussing elements of trans experience that tend to be ignored/dismissed; ciritque of elements of g!p and approaches by writers)
(more basic mistakes regarding trans women)
(issues of cissexism, gender norms, etc. writers often get hung up on)
The next step is getting help actually approaching the writing process. I donāt have many posts on this that I havenāt already linked above, so take what Iāve said there, and add on from these resources as well
(post with links to solid intro resources)
But like, if you need a few easy rules to avoid the worst of it, at least about writing trans women characters
1. Know cissexism like the back of your hand, both in characterization and world-building
2. Donāt write PiV sex involving penis-owning trans women as the penetrators unless youāre a trans woman, and if you want pregnancy, use IUI or IVF, or surrogacy, or adoption. Respectively similar advice applies to writing trans men, I wager.Ā
3. If world-building, minimize our suffering (donāt leave us without access to transition, make society less terrible to us without tokenizing the oppression we face into a single evil entity)
4. Trans characters should have some dysphoria (which cannot be fucked/loved away), because almost no trans characters in media representation have dysphoria, and thatās an important part of our experience that gets neglected and erased
5. Humanize us as the #1 priority, because our default state of being fetishized will by default render us as an object/device to be used in a story rather than an actual person
I hope that helps! Feel free to ask more specific questions if you have any :)