Mourning The Jax’s Dad Coming Back and becoming a Father again fics.
Morning the Jax’s mother becomes a better person and accepts her daughter fics
Look, I just want more stories where the parents always aren’t accepting or present in the beginning,
Yet towards the end are and better people.
I need more parents to be representing with mounting what they think was a “Son/Daughter”
But then They actually are much more happier accepting said “son/daughter”
Like why can’t The Only parent that is the problem is Rgatha’s Mom?? Because regardless if she’s lesbian or not,
It clearly isn’t just tht.
And sure maybe the Moms are just as bad.
But one can Genuinely love their child and choose to get better
One can also love their child, but still choose to never get better and that “love” is because their just full on broken in the mind/have a mental disorders that really prohibit that
Mental issues can be a thing.
Uh, not everyone enjoys being a parent regardless if the child is trans or not?? Take that into consideration as parental characters.
Other thing
I need more Stuff in the Fandom with Post trans Jax and her friends still sort of unintentionally degrade womanhood in-front of her
Something like: “Man these hormones are getting to be0’
“Oh yeah they suck, it really sucks to be a woman”
“???”
“Sorry, force of habit. Been told that since the day I was popped out of the womb”
Because it’s true.
Or let a guy make Jax uncomfortable (maybe like a new Circus member)
And have Someone like Ragatha or Gangle go
“I know right! Ugh! Guys suck and being a girl sucks because they always do that to us”
“??? Okay???”
“Sorry, dammit. Force of habit again”
Or
“Man, Men have it so easy. Why does being a woman have to always be shit?”
“…Seriously?” Annoyed by this point. But doing her best to understand this*
“FUCK!! I’m sorry!! I’m trying to reprogram myself!”
Let the woman’s always have realistic flaws.
And Like??
Do you hear Cis Men say to Trans man:
“It’s sucks to be male. You’re not allowed to do shit if it’s too feminine to just something you enjoy”
Because I’m just saying,
They should.
Guys should.
Femboys should.
I’m just saying. Yet no one ever talks about that lol.
The message is that technically everyone is in this together,
But Like, if you wanna be happy? Do whatever the Fck you want.
That’s the point.
Sometimes the lesson is not everyone is gonna wanna see you happy.
Like misery does love company and I’m saying this because people who do drag you down certainly don’t care who you are,
They just know they wanna drag you down.
Ragatha’s mother should be that way, because not only does it give her uniqueness from what I said earlier,
But because Ragatha always spoke of her unfondly. Where you can make the conclusions Jax sincerely had a better relationship with his Mother at SOME point. Even if you call that up to her being the forced default parent. “I thought I had a better relationship with Mom” Anything!! Or maybe there was Geninue action and she was catching on.
Not one thing to say about her that suggests anything. Nor even a “Mom didn’t like the way I behaved lol” (Her Femininity showing)
And Gooseworx in my opinion did the not so good thing of Just Mentioning the abuse Jax went through at the last second.
Without any nuance or anything.
Without hint that Jax’s Mom as mourning the quote “Son” rather than ever considering the fact it’s actually her daughter.
There wasn’t any hint. And that’s why I believe Jax let alone should have just had father isssues and not mother isssues.
And oh yeah
We don’t know if Ragatha had a good relationship with her father ✌️🫠
So yeah,
Interpret that as you will. Do whatever you like with that.
Maybe it’s okay if it’s like this.
But I need more.
Fics exploring the many inns and outs and it’s just. It fair for the characters,
Not even the backround characters to just be hated and hated,
And like???
I’ll just say it. Yes not every parent accepts their children. Unfortunately, there are loving parents that never accept their kids. Maybe for religious or whatever reasons.
But for me who’s religious??
Oh fuck that!!
There is such thing as Gaslighting yourself and That’s another message I wanted to make
By portaying Jax’s parents the way they are in my au.
They are VERYYYY GOOOD at Gaslighting the HELLLL out of themselves (where do you think Jax gets it from??)
And the people Pleasing tendencies??
(Ragatha sure as hell got that from her Dad. Only difference is he is a suffering alcholic, but he isn’t a horrible person. And he does he best and the only person he abuses is himself and he truamatizing his kids because of witnessing him that way, but he seriously just suffers and isn’t the perfect father. And it’s okay That Ragatha and her siblings are still mad at him for the way he behaves too!! Like?? But deep down there is love and connection!! Like??)
Like Alsooo…
Yeah again. Neglect is abuse yes. That’s what Jax’s father was. But It He very much GASLIT himself into thinking it wasn’t abuse.
And Jax’s mother is full on Hiding her own trauma, past guilt (yes, she used to go to jail for a few crimes in the past, at least that’s funny because everyone can agree with me on that Headcanon yeah??), yes she became abusive because she GASLIT the hell out of herself,
And now’s she’s mourning because of the LIMERANCE she felt with a bitch who left her. Mourning something that wasn’t even real.
So yeah.
That’s pretty common in many scenarios. And The Sad truth is Many abuse don’t recognize this at all. And I want them to. I want more people to talk about it.
I’m not asking for Jax to be forgive or For Jax’s parents to be forgiven.
I just hope I see more
nuanced Fics out there.
To maybe give Hope That people can change in positive ways.
